How to Keep a Guy in 10 Days

How to Keep a Guy in 10 Days

Two weeks ago, while watching Netflix and drinking an obnoxious amount of red wine for a Wednesday night, I started doing what everyone these days does when boredom (and alcohol) sets in: I went on Tinder. I have had an active Tinder account for well over two years, but nothing has really ever come from […]

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 The Power of Letting a Relationship Go

The Power of Letting a Relationship Go

First off, I want to apologize to anyone who now suddenly has the song Let It Go from Frozen, stuck in their heads. (It’s still just so damn catchy). Secondly, as the new year commences, we start making resolutions for change, adjustments, and a brand new beginning. One way of doing this is looking at our […]

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 Are You In a Controlling Relationship

Are You In a Controlling Relationship

Control can be viewed in many ways. It can carry a positive meaning of self-confidence and organization or it can be viewed as a way to manipulate and satisfy your insecurities. Sometimes in relationships one or the other person may start to feel insecure. They feel like they don’t have control over the situation, relationship […]

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 Falling for the Good Guys (Naughty or Nice)

Falling for the Good Guys (Naughty or Nice)

Do You Fall for Naughty or Nice? With Christmas just around the corner, I procrastinated buying presents and did some thinking. When we are children, we are taught that Santa’s list is divided into two columns: Those that are naughty and those that are nice. But now that we are full grown adults and we have […]

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 How to Get the Thrill Back in a Relationship

How to Get the Thrill Back in a Relationship

Have you ever been in a relationship and suddenly you feel like ‘the thrill is gone’? Then what? You cheat or your partner cheats, or you shut each other out? Yet, you still find yourself muttering the words, “I love you”.  Dilemma, for sure. Many people who felt intense love in the beginning tend to […]

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 It’s Never Too Late to Love Again

It’s Never Too Late to Love Again

As I sit here in the dark preparing for bed, my thoughts begin to collect like words on the pages of a history book. If you personally know me, you know I’ve NEVER been considered an insightful person, however as of late I have built a library worth of knowledge on becoming an insightful, loving, […]

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 How to Survive a “Traveling” Relationship

How to Survive a “Traveling” Relationship

How many of you have ever been in a relationship with someone who had to travel a lot? So many jobs fit this description; sales, entertainment, even doctors have a rough schedule. Question is, “how do you keep the flame burning?” How do you manage your relationship and keep the love going between you? It’s […]

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 What Makes A Gay Man Sexy

What Makes A Gay Man Sexy

What makes a gay man sexy? This was a recent random thought of mine after several people this past weekend referred to me as sexy. Whether it’s having a sexy smile, body, or personality, I wonder what makes basic characteristics of a man (person) sexier than the rest. Webster’s defines sexy as “sexually suggestive, stimulating, […]

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 Why You Can’t Buy Love

Why You Can’t Buy Love

Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, “what can he/she buy me” to show they love me? A new car would be nice, those long stem roses and could you make it 3 dozen please? “Are you taking me to the Hamptons this week or not?” Why is it that some people get […]

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 Your Cellphone is Ruining Your Dating Life

Your Cellphone is Ruining Your Dating Life

Cellphones, everyone has one now a days. The whole world is electronically connected. Social media, work, play it’s all on your cellphone. When is it time to put the phone down? How often have you been on a date only to have your partner pay more attention to the cellphone than to you? Now before […]

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