BOOTY CALL – Not For Everyone

BOOTY CALL – Not For Everyone

Interestingly enough, I recently had mixed opinions after posing the question, “Can one have a booty call without an emotional attachment?”  I was surprised the responses were mixed. Some people strongly believe you must have an emotional connection with the person to be able to have sex with them; the other percentage of people said […]

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 Who Else Wants To Enjoy DATING OVER 40

Who Else Wants To Enjoy DATING OVER 40

Dating After 40: A Journey Back to Love Finding love in your 40s presents unique challenges—something I’d heard countless times but never truly understood until I began contemplating opening my heart again. After a series of relationships that didn’t work out, love felt like something I’d never want to pursue again. When your ex remains […]

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 When Dating Goes from Sweet to Scary

When Dating Goes from Sweet to Scary

I can’t help but think of those relationships that seem to be straight out of a bad horror movie. At first, the guy is sweet; cooking you dinner and holding the door for you, but soon enough that typical horror movie music starts to play softly in the background. You brush off uncertainty as pickiness […]

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 How to Make a Good Impression Meeting His Parents

How to Make a Good Impression Meeting His Parents

Is your family going to like me. For many of you, this Christmas is going to be the first time you are meeting your significant other’s family and it can be rather daunting, nerve-wracking, and overwhelming. But, with these few tips and suggestions, you will make a great impression on your boyfriend’s relatives and get […]

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 Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom

Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom

“No Means No” is not just a slogan but a statement that should be taken seriously.  From personal experience gay men who I have slept with ignored this statement and preferred instead to challenge the fact, I did not want them to play with my rear-end.  I was raped at 14, and then again as […]

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 The DISrespect of “BBC”

The DISrespect of “BBC”

The porn industry and its supporters are quick to make the claim that “porn is not sex ed” to exonerate themselves of their responsibility in terminologies and actions contributing to our sexual behavior regardless of our sexual orientation. One of these such actions that they need to take responsibility for is the term “BBC,” which […]

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 Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY

Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY

New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it began. The reality, the more comfortable […]

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 Some People Excel At I LOVE YOU And Some Don’t – Which One Are You?

Some People Excel At I LOVE YOU And Some Don’t – Which One Are You?

“Love” (the “L” word) by definition states, ” a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that range from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and affection; “the unselfish and benevolent concern for the good of another”, as […]

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