• Couple sitting on a roof with candles surrounding them overlooking the city

    Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY

    New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it...
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    Some People Excel At I LOVE YOU And Some Don’t – Which One Are You?

    “Love” (the “L” word) by definition states, ” a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that range from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and affection; “the unselfish and benevolent...
  • A man covering his face in sadness after a breakup sitting on a sofa against a wall

    Short Story: The Truth About The PATHOLOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS AND BREAKUPS

    Fuck, why are relationships complicated? And why is it even harder to let go of them when they become toxic or unhealthy? A close friend of mine who is heterosexual and married is struggling with ending her relationship; a relationship, in my opinion, that was over a long time...
  • Five Guys Laying On the Beach

    Why We all Deserve a HOT GIRL/BOY SUMMER

    Summer love sounds like a magical experience, but it’s honestly the worst time to meet someone new. It’s the one season when we proudly wear our rose-colored glasses and ignore all the potential warning signs. We get caught up with spring’s breezes shifting into summer’s sweltering heat and all...
  • Two guys seating on the roof of a car looking at the sunset

    BEST FRIEND WITH YOUR EX Works Only Under These Conditions

    If you had told me 18 years ago that my ex and I would be best friends today, I would not have believed you. We just broke up and I moved out and on my own for the first time since college. I was disillusioned by our break up...
  • An African-American Man laying in Bed Looking Directly in the Camera

    How Gay Males’ Sexual Journey Are Ending Too Soon

    All of this is the real reason why gay media constantly makes many feel like life is over by age 30. It's partly physical looks by the substance abuse, but it is also a mental and emotional wearing down due to sexual boredom....
  • grayscale photo of an African-American Woman Standing in the Middle of Two African-American Men

    A Good OPEN RELATIONSHIPS Is…

    Did you hear the news? Nearly half of gay men have had an open or non-monogamous relationship, and is this really any surprise? Open relationships within the gay community are more visibly common than ever. Analysts from a survey conducted by FS Magazine produced by The Gay Men’s Health...
  • Handsome Man on a Date Holding A Cup of Coffee

    The Untold Secret To DATING SOBER In Less Than Ten Minutes

    If you have done any amount of dating as a gay man recently, you are well aware that drugs are an unavoidable part of our community. You have cloud emojis on Grindr profiles, capital “T’s” for meth, requests for party and play, rave drugs, and a slew of new...
  • A black and white couple cozy on the stoop in NYC

    Can Love Be an Addiction – Blessing Or A Curse

    Love and Addiction, both powerful feelings. How do you distinguish between the two? Some may be able to know the difference, but others may confuse the "love" feeling with being addicted to someone....
  • A man and woman laying in bed having a loving conversation

    The Hidden Mystery Behind The REFRACTORY PERIOD

    Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics men like to talk about freely until they’re faced with the real issues or those untold truths. We’ve all been asked, “How soon after an orgasm can you start again?” The answer is usually, “a few minutes,” but unless you’re 18, you’re telling...
  • A caucasian man with an African-American Woman Wearing Button Shirts Smiling Face to Face Saying I Love You

    If You Do Not Say I LOVE YOU Now, You Will Hate Yourself Later

    We all dream of hearing those three little words. Countless songs, books, movies and poems have been written about them. Heck, we’ve even created a special day of the year dedicated to them – Valentine’s Day. And yet as wonderful as they are to hear, said at the wrong...
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    Navigating Abuse: Stopping an Abusive Relationship

    Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that’s because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! The first and most important thing to know is ‘there is help’ and...
  • Article on Kinkster MAG about Long Distance Relationship. Handsome guy sitting in the airport watching a plane take off as the sun goes down.

    How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

    In the case that you met online and you live in different parts of the country or internationally, you may be able to sustain a long distance relationship longer than two people who have been forced to separate....
  • Can you find a love relationship on Facebook

    Have you ever known anyone who fell in love and had a successful relationship due to Facebook? I know, "what'? Think about it, is Facebook that much different than sites like, 'Manhunt' and 'Grindr'?...
  • a hot couple laying in the bed - OVAH MAG

    Can a “No-Strings Attached” Relationship Lead to More

    Recently a friend of mine asked me if it’s possible for his 10-year on-and-off sex-only, no-strings-attached partnership to become more than what it is. ...
  • Fight against HIV/AIDS Ribbon Against a Black Background

    I’m HIV+: Sex Never Became My Weapon

    After hearing the words, "Your HIV test came back positive", many have a moment of denial. Some never recover. To the point that they never seek treatment, and keep an HIV diagnosis as the death sentence it once was...
  • Loving Couple Hugging Tightly in Bed Facing One Another

    At Last, The Secret To LOVE Is Revealed

    The newness of love is always exciting. You just can't wait to hear from or see that person. The time in between seems long as you wait in anticipation for the next time you are together. ...
  • African-American Woman Kissing an African-American with Red freckles

    Picture Your NEW RELATIONSHIPS On Top. Read This And Make It So

    You are the only person who can make “YOU” happy. I want this to be a reminder that your reality is created because of YOU and not because of someone else. You have to know your own worth! When negative energy and fear invades a beautiful space called “LOVE”...
  • A red warning sign with white text; text reads: "Emergency Pull."

    8 Safety Tips for Hooking Up Online

    Hooking-up and safety have been a constant nag of mine since the Jussie Smollett debacle because hooking up has become a way of life. In the new age of technology and hook-up apps, I've noticed that our safety is not even part of the equation most of the times....
  • The Karma of “Preference”

    Then there’s the smack by Karma in which after disregarding one or more shades of people of color in their “young & beautiful” days that they finally decide to find those once disregarded shades worthy of their time. Then that person of color has one of two choices....
  • A sexy couple laying in bed laughing and having coffee

    Are You Bad in Bed?

    How do you know when you suck in the bedroom when no-one ever tells you? Grievously, each one of the men I've been with lately needs a refresher course in sex or sign-up for Kinkster's "Power Bottom Bootcamp!"...
  • Young man sitting on the edge of the bed with a flat screen TV

    Never Changing PORN Will Eventually Destroy You

    Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. Ask any gay man and each one has a hook-up nightmare story that will either have you laughing your brains out or running for the hills...
  • African-American male model posing with a side profile with this eyes closed facing the left

    Top, Bottom, or Versatile – He Is Who He Is

    Males who have gay sex as a whole have been bombarded by what has come to be known as “toxic masculinity.” Claiming they are less masculine simply because they have sex with other males. It is bad enough coming from the overcompensating machismo of homophobic straight people and/or those...
  • A Man Sitting in the Dark on the Edge of the Bed n the Nude Looking Out the Window

    Why My BEDROOM TALK Is Better Than Yours

    The fear of talking dirty in the bedroom is not uncommon. Being verbal during sex might sound nasty, but for someone like myself, having a partner who is comfortable verbally in the bedroom is a major turn-on! A man who can tap into his inner sexy is a man...
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