lenairxavier, Author at OVAH MAG

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The DISrespect of “BBC”

The porn industry and its supporters are quick to make the claim that “porn is not sex ed” to exonerate themselves of their responsibility in terminologies and actions contributing to our sexual behavior regardless of our sexual orientation. One of these such actions that they need to take responsibility for is the term “BBC,” which […]

How Gay Males’ Sexual Journey Are Ending Too Soon

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How Gay Males’ Sexual Journey Are Ending Too Soon

All of this is the real reason why gay media constantly makes many feel like life is over by age 30. It's partly physical looks by the substance abuse, but it is also a mental and emotional wearing down due to sexual boredom.

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I’m HIV+: Sex Never Became My Weapon

After hearing the words, "Your HIV test came back positive", many have a moment of denial. Some never recover. To the point that they never seek treatment, and keep an HIV diagnosis as the death sentence it once was

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The Karma of “Preference”

Then there’s the smack by Karma in which after disregarding one or more shades of people of color in their “young & beautiful” days that they finally decide to find those once disregarded shades worthy of their time. Then that person of color has one of two choices.

Top, Bottom, or Versatile – He Is Who He Is

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Top, Bottom, or Versatile – He Is Who He Is

Males who have gay sex as a whole have been bombarded by what has come to be known as “toxic masculinity.” Claiming they are less masculine simply because they have sex with other males. It is bad enough coming from the overcompensating machismo of homophobic straight people and/or those living on the down-low. But it […]