Sorry to break it to you, there is no such thing as finding the perfect man. I had a chat with someone recently who is in a relationship but for some reason finds himself going outside the relationship to the party and have sex (PNP). But during his hook-ups, he finds himself not having sex. […]
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I can remember that night like it was yesterday. The guy was hot, a fantasy come true. He was tall, bearded, blue-eyed, with a full head of hair, silver to be exact. Damn, the moment he walked in I was ready to strip down at the front door, but I didn’t, I kept my cool. […]
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Meeting online via a hook-up app has become extremely commonplace, but many of us still get confused when we meet someone online who we end up liking. Some of us do not know how to appropriately switch from hook-up to date. When it comes to dating especially meeting guys online, we’re all fish out of […]
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As the summer winds down, you may be wondering what is going to happen with your summer fling (flings, if you’re nasty). After all, the summer is a season based on rather shallow ideals. We tend to look the hottest we look all year, we are the most fun version of ourselves, and generally, we […]
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“If you’re always ready, you don’t have to get ready” is a quote I wish someone would have shared with the last four guys that I’ve hooked up with who were all total bottoms over 40. If so I would not be needing to air my dirty laundry (pun intended). Let me start off by […]
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Compartmentalizing the physical act of sex from the emotional side of sex is nothing new among gay men but when the physical and the emotional combine, the fireworks fly and you have the best sex ever. In his article for the Huffington Post, “The Real Reason Why So Many Gay Men Are Single,” Mike Alvear writes, […]
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To celebrate one of my birthdays several years ago, my ex and bestie took me on a scavenger hunt / Amazing Race style run around New York City. We visited three fun venues I had never thought to explore. Taking time during the day was a great way to unwind and relax and have a […]
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If you have ever dated, doing the online thing or not, you will be able to relate to the stories of Lex, Esq. in his recently self-published book The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr. In it Lex has identified three early and impactful relationships from which he attempts to unearth answers and extract […]
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Why is love so complicated? Whether we’re in love, falling out of love or just longing for a new love the idea of love is something that does not come quickly or easy. When you find it, maintaining the essence of love is one of the most arduous tasks we will face in our lifetime. […]
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Do size and shape really matter? Most of us would probably say no in the grand scheme of our relationships, but when it comes down to pure satisfaction in the bedroom, I bet that the answer would change. We’ve all said, “it’s not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean.” Can […]
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