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    How to be best friends with your Ex

    If you had told me 18 years ago that my ex and I would be best friends today, I would not have believed you. We just broke up and I moved out and on my own for the first time since college. I was disillusioned by our break up...
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    How Gay Males’ Sexual Journey Are Ending Too Soon

    All of this is the real reason why gay media constantly makes many feel like life is over by age 30. It's partly physical looks by the substance abuse, but it is also a mental and emotional wearing down due to sexual boredom....
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    Can Love Be an Addiction – Blessing Or A Curse

    Love and Addiction, both powerful feelings. How do you distinguish between the two? Some may be able to know the difference, but others may confuse the "love" feeling with being addicted to someone....
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    Clear And Unbiased Facts About HERBAL TEAS

    Drinking a cup of tea daily, enhances the many health benefits, and help with cancer, heart disease, diabetes, weight-loss, lowers cholesterol and mental alertness....
  • Pride as a Commodity, Who’s Buying, Who’s Selling

    As we gear up for Pride Season, and since I haven’t spent a lot of time at Pride events over the past couple of years, I wondered, what is going on out there?...
  • Purpose: man;s hand extended toward the road

    Living With Purpose And Allowing God To Use You

    Have you been faced with challenges in your life and feel that you are alone in overcoming them? have you cried out to Spirit to heal your wounds?  Do you belong to a Spiritual community that you can lean on during the challenging times?...
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    Foot Care: How to Keep Healthy Feet

    Whether or not you're a pedicure fan (and more and more men are these days--hey, you can't beat that foot massage!), your feet are probably going to be on display sometime soon....
  • Article on Kinkster MAG about Long Distance Relationship. Handsome guy sitting in the airport watching a plane take off as the sun goes down.

    How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

    In the case that you met online and you live in different parts of the country or internationally, you may be able to sustain a long distance relationship longer than two people who have been forced to separate....
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    Can you find a love relationship on Facebook

    Have you ever known anyone who fell in love and had a successful relationship due to Facebook? I know, "what'? Think about it, is Facebook that much different than sites like, 'Manhunt' and 'Grindr'?...
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    Find Out What Makes Avocado a Superfood

    Avocado has a high fat content, and therefore can be used in place of meat in your dinner. The fat that the avocado provides, is a healthy fat because, it is monounsaturated fat in the form of oleic acid. ...
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    Learn More About Naturopathic Medicine

    Naturopathic medicine teaches us how to eat, exercise, handle stress and to include spiritual needs to heal our bodies naturally.  When we do not include a spiritual practice, we lose touch in healing the whole, body, mind, and soul.  ...
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    Rebuild Your Wardrobe, Start with Sneakers

    "Style" is a state of mind and can either empower or destroy us among our peers. Working through all the available options is tough but can be accomplished....
  • A man covering his eyes standing in front of a wall of roses thinking about life and love

    Reality Check: Life is a Bitch… Snap Out of It

    Often when you are feeling like this, you need someone to look you square in the eyes and say, " Life is a Bitch...Snap out of it!" That someone should be 'you.'...
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    Can a “No-Strings Attached” Relationship Lead to More

    Recently a friend of mine asked me if it’s possible for his 10-year on-and-off sex-only, no-strings-attached partnership to become more than what it is. ...
  • Serious African-American Man wearing a white kinkster nyc bathhouse crewneck standing in front of a tinted stain glass wall

    I’m HIV+: Sex Never Became My Weapon

    After hearing the words, "Your HIV test came back positive", many have a moment of denial. Some never recover. To the point that they never seek treatment, and keep an HIV diagnosis as the death sentence it once was...
  • guy walking with a kinkster backpack walking across the Brooklyn Bridge 2

    Men Can Improve Their Sexual Health Just By Walking

    If you're looking for an easy way to help prevent erectile dysfunction, look no further than your own two feet....
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    At Last, The Secret To LOVE Is Revealed

    The newness of love is always exciting. You just can't wait to hear from or see that person. The time in between seems long as you wait in anticipation for the next time you are together. ...
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    “No” Is A Complete Sentence

    The statement "No is a complete sentence" is something I embraced seconds after hearing it from Judith Orloff, a renowned writer on the spiritual awakening of oneself....
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    8 Safety Tips for Hooking Up Online

    Hooking-up and safety have been a constant nag of mine since the Jussie Smollett debacle because hooking up has become a way of life. In the new age of technology and hook-up apps, I've noticed that our safety is not even part of the equation most of the times....
  • The Karma of “Preference”

    Then there’s the smack by Karma in which after disregarding one or more shades of people of color in their “young & beautiful” days that they finally decide to find those once disregarded shades worthy of their time. Then that person of color has one of two choices....
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    Are You Bad in Bed?

    How do you know when you suck in the bedroom when no-one ever tells you? Grievously, each one of the men I've been with lately needs a refresher course in sex or sign-up for Kinkster's "Power Bottom Bootcamp!"...
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    Real Hookups are Nothing Like Porn

    Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. Ask any gay man and each one has a hook-up nightmare story that will either have you laughing your brains out or running for the hills...
  • African-American male model posing with a side profile with this eyes closed facing the left

    Top, Bottom, or Versatile – He Is Who He Is

    Males who have gay sex as a whole have been bombarded by what has come to be known as “toxic masculinity.” Claiming they are less masculine simply because they have sex with other males. It is bad enough coming from the overcompensating machismo of homophobic straight people and/or those...
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    The Truth About Two Fad Diets

    As we are now settled into the new year, the resolutions that were made now seem to fall by the wayside.  For me, I don’t believe in making New Year’s resolutions but instead continue on my journey of health and wellness, and being a better human being on planet...
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