Meeting His Family Doesn’t Mean Anything

Meeting His Family Doesn’t Mean Anything

Most gay men have been conditioned to believe being asked or asking someone to meet the family is a label for “it’s getting serious!” Are you joking? Consider this, an invite to dinner is only an invitation to eat, nothing more. Deciding to ask someone to dinner all depends on how comfortable you are with […]

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 Skincare Products Every Man Needs

Skincare Products Every Man Needs

Tom Ford is one man I trust when it comes to knowing a thing or two about skincare and grooming. His skincare and grooming lines were modeled after his own personal skincare routines.  The collection is concise and although expensive it’s one skincare we recommend. Male grooming is crucial in the winter months which is why I highly suggest investing in […]

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 Do You Have A Fear of Commitment

Do You Have A Fear of Commitment

A handful of gay men experience anxiety and fear when it comes to getting closer emotionally, making it difficult to commit. If and when the conversation about commitment comes up, are you the one who quickly exits the relationship? Is it possible your opinions and views about past relationships, the unknown, and your definition of commitment are […]

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 Healthy Eating-Getting Started

Healthy Eating-Getting Started

Most people promise to lose weight by going on a diet at the beginning of the year. They purchase gym memberships or start a diet program. After the first month or two, they tend to fall off the wagon. That gym membership for the year, ends up being a loss of money, because they never […]

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 Stay Safe When Getting a Manicure or Pedicure

Stay Safe When Getting a Manicure or Pedicure

Many of us have safety and hygiene concerns when it comes to the local salon, so picking the right one is truly important. Recently during a local news report they surveyed and took samples from a variety of nail salons in the New York area. Shockingly they found fecal matter, bacteria that can cause meningitis, […]

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 Exclusive Interview with Rilan

Exclusive Interview with Rilan

Dark, Youthful, and Soulful are some of the adjectives to describe Rilan; a talented singer, songwriter, dancer, choreographer and all around triple-threat. Since we believe he has the full package, the Kinkster Mag Team instantly included him on our “Artist Spotlight” roster. Rilan has the charm, charisma, and the nerve to appeal to a diverse […]

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 The Differences between Love and Infatuation

The Differences between Love and Infatuation

Maintaining a healthy relationship is challenging and requires the fruits of labor for love. In order for a healthy relationship to survive in the age of social media, hook up sites, and a growing need for instant gratification, it’s important for you to understand the difference between love and infatuation. In our youth we’re too […]

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 The 3 Worst Questions You Can Ask on a First Date

The 3 Worst Questions You Can Ask on a First Date

Gay men have been taking dating advice from experts for years who are either not dating or having sex in the city. And not only is their advice very 1980’s, it is simply being dished out by someone who was born in a time when there weren’t cell-phones, computers, hook-up apps or is happily married. Modern dating advice lacks empowerment and can seriously take […]

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 Being Black, Gay & Dating in NYC is Complex

Being Black, Gay & Dating in NYC is Complex

Being single and gay and dating within NYC nightlife is often layered with complexity; a complexity even Einstein would not be able to figure out. When you’re twenty-something the complexity of sex in the city is tolerable. The rose-colored glasses of twenty-something is when blinders of the truth are worn overshadowing the behaviors of others. Our […]

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 The Ballroom Culture is Hitting Mainstream

The Ballroom Culture is Hitting Mainstream

The underground dance and music scene has paved the pathway for gay youth to embrace their creativity and expand the hearts and minds of individuals who judged them solely based on who they slept with. However, the ballroom scene in the LGBT community is a staple and the essence of life and what it means […]

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