Mainstream media continues to use visceral stereotypes of black gay men; images that are degrading and feed into the perception that the black gay community has not evolved. Compared to our white counterparts, the black gay male characters created by some mainstream TV producers are polar opposites. When you view gay white characters on television, […]
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We’ve recently written about the conundrums of marriage and open relationships, and differences in sex drives when you’re in a monogamous relationship, and lately I have been exploring polyamory which has been all the rage this year. Even as a gay man, years ago I struggled with the notion of same-sex marriage. My boyfriend of […]
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Summer is coming to a close, and it’s been an interesting couple of months because I caught up with several friends from my past and met some new friends including a few from Facebook. One highlight this season was catching up with a club legend and someone I’ve known for years, Kevin Aviance. We chatted […]
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Music playlists are no longer trendy. They have become an expression of our character and who we are. Even, President Obama during his presidency released his playlists for the world to see. The playlists we create are a piercing look into our emotions; emotions that are forever changing but a peek into our mental state, character, and […]
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Bars have always been a place for me to socialize with close friends and catch up on the week’s activities, listen to music, dance, meet others, and just let my hair down. As a young, gay man coming to terms with my sexual orientation, learning the ropes, and determining where I fit in the gay […]
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OVAH MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. I’m not a sex or relationship therapist so take my comments simply as someone who was in a long term monogamous relationship (10 years), who has been single for over a […]
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I have to say that this summer has been hotter than two sissies in a prison camp on a Friday night…and that’s pretty hot! Now I’m looking forward to some cooler temperatures. There’s no doubt in my mind about global warming at this moment. But it’s been even hotter for releases on the club scene. […]
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Can your life change when you go viral online? The idea that you can become famous for the all the wrong reasons seems impossible, but it’s something that happens more often than you think. Once something goes viral online, it can’t be stopped. This is a chilling statement that flashed across my screen recently and […]
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In light of the shooting massacre at the Pulse Nightclub in Orlando in June we wanted to learn a bit more of what’s going on with safety and security at clubs and large events. We also wanted to learn more about the state of nightlife. So who better to connect with than Brandon Voss of […]
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Senseless acts of violence in our country have become all too common in recent months. The June 12 shooting targeting the LGBTQ patrons at the Orlando, FL nightclub Pulse sent shockwaves through the LGBTQ community and the world. So many people have come together to restore hope, to rebuild, and to provide support to the […]
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