I’m a gay man, 46 years old who grew up in a small town in upstate New York. My elementary school class was roughly twenty students and my high school graduating class was about 105 students. I come from a small town but I moved away. I went away to college, lived for some time […]
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What is bok choy you might ask? Boy Choy is a Chinese vegetable which has grown for centuries in China. It has also been used in Chinese medicine. The name “Bok Choy” originated from the Chinese word for “soup spoon” because of the shape of its leaves. It is a small plant that grows upright from the […]
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For many of us who were coming of age in the 90’s in New York City, places like Sound Factory, Twilo, and Arena provided us a venue for exposure to underground, deep house music. DJs in venues like this were GODS and they gave us an experience we returned to week after week. It goes […]
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Here is today’s bit of commentary on the social behaviors of gay men. Being a gay man over 40 in a gay bar in 2016 can be comical and quite interesting. In my youth when I went out I was often blinded by “good-looks” and got caught up in my surroundings, the darkness, the flashing […]
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Ben (John Lithgow) and George (Alfred Molina) are a long-term older gay couple who marry after nearly four decades of being partners in Love is Strange. Their marriage, however, is not the only turning point in their lives. Although George’s employer, the archdiocese, knew of his sexual orientation and his life partner Ben for 12 […]
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The Grammy Awards of 2016 is now a thing of the past. However, we should highlight a few of the performances. Kendrick Lamar by far stole the entire show with his chains and shackles entrance. His entrance was more dramatic and just as important as Beyonce’s performance at the Super-bowl. Lamar’s performance was much more in your […]
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The Gay TV scene has definitely become more gay since the first gay character appeared on a TV sitcom in a 1971 episode of All in the Family (yes, All in the Family, if you can believe it). (AJ Aronstein, Splitsider) (Christine Sparta, USA Today) We have come a long way since 1971. There have […]
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Thank you Beyoncé for starting the conversation with your performance and representing a very important period in our country. These last few years young, black men have been killed for no reason. Beyoncé’s performance might not be the right form of expression but if you know your history you would at least know she was […]
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Whenever a boy band or girl group breaks up it always becomes a battle to see who will out do the other. After Destiny’s Child, Danity Kane became my go-to girl group. Damages will forever be my favorite song. It’s also the group I will forever wonder how successful and far they could have gone…but that’s a […]
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Is it appropriate for a friend to date another friend’s ex-boyfriend? A handful would not have a problem with it yet others have strong opinions about this very debatable and uncomfortable topic. In my youth I had a major problem if a friend dated or were interested in dating someone I had dated. I always thought […]
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