Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries

Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries

We hear the term ‘unconditional love’ quite frequently.  What exactly is it?  When I think of unconditional love I think of my mother or my best-friend.  There is no doubt that I love them unconditionally.  Nothing they could do would make me not love them any more. However, can we say the same for adult relationships? […]

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 Is Cheating a Personal Choice or a Mistake

Is Cheating a Personal Choice or a Mistake

I recently received a confounding email asking me what I would do if I found out my partner had cheated on me. From my own personal experiences, from both sides of the coin, I know first hand the impact that cheating can have on a person. Interestingly, I had an “a-ha” moment about cheating, in […]

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 Why Gay Men Should Stop Dating Imaginary Men

Why Gay Men Should Stop Dating Imaginary Men

Stop Playing Boy Games! If you sign up with a seedy dating website ( I know from experience ) then you will notice an unusually high population of ready and willing guys. The sudden and inexplicable appearance of all these cyber-hotties who seem oddly fascinated by your unfinished profile will cause you to either (A) […]

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 How Important Is End of a Date Kiss

How Important Is End of a Date Kiss

One of the best parts about having a promising date (besides the free drinks) is the goodbye kiss. You sit through the coffee, happy hour, or dinner, patiently waiting to see how the night will end. Will we stand on the street corner, awkwardly wondering who is going to make the first move? Will he […]

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 Stop looking for the Next Best Thing

Stop looking for the Next Best Thing

In today’s society, it seems we are never satisfied. We are always searching for something else; something that is bigger, better, faster, and newer. From innovative advances in technology to the men that we date, we are always looking for an upgrade. Last night, when I got home from work, I had a little package […]

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