Five Situational Dates in London

Five Situational Dates in London

Whether you’re single, married, or just a casual kind-of-guy, you’ll always want a spark in your dates. There’s no worse feeling than taking a girl out and having to hear nothing but silence. Who doesn’t enjoy a perfect date? The capital is loaded with spots for people with different interests. Here are five places that […]

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 Love is a Choice You Make from Moment to Moment

Love is a Choice You Make from Moment to Moment

Would you be able to recognize love if it were staring you straight in the eye? What are the gestures that say, “I love you? These are the questions that came to mind after hearing talk show host, Wendy Williams say, “What is not said is often way more powerful than what is being said!” […]

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 Why Ghosting Is Not the Latest Epidemic

Why Ghosting Is Not the Latest Epidemic

In a recent commentary by Samuel C. Spitale in the Advocate he tackles the notion of “Gay Ghosting” and whether it’s an epidemic? If you’re not familiar with the term “ghosting” it’s when a person you’ve met either in-person or on-line suddenly disappears with no rhyme or reason. Personally speaking I don’t think “ghosting” is […]

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 The Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship

The Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship

We read so many articles and listen to so many shows on “Red Flags of Relationships”, but what do we really know about “Green flags” of relationships? I found myself sitting down to really think about things people have told me pertaining to what makes their relationships work. After pondering and processing what I’ve learned […]

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 Surviving A Relationship Break-Up

Surviving A Relationship Break-Up

The Relationship is Over! Have you recently been given your walking papers? Now that the relationship is over, are you struggling with moving on? Do you understand what it means to commit to the break-up process? After a break-up do you often find a need to blame someone? If you answered yes or know someone […]

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 What Can Dutch Drivers Teach Us About Dating

What Can Dutch Drivers Teach Us About Dating

After my first date this year with X (after a two year hiatus of being single) I went from being a sane, happy-go-lucky person into a depressed, insecure, mess. The date went well, X came over we had a few drinks, watched a movie, listened to jazz we discussed our heritage, taste in clothes, food […]

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 Benefits of Defining Your Dating Identity

Benefits of Defining Your Dating Identity

What is your dating identity? Are you ready to take ownership of it? Are you still craving a less frustrating but healthier dating experience? If so, defining your dating identity and committing to it is the answer. I think that many of us have been dating in the dark (see post Dating in the Dark) […]

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 How to Make a Break Up a Positive Experience

How to Make a Break Up a Positive Experience

Positive break ups? I’m sure you’re wondering, “how can that be”? Every break up seems like the end of the world. It generally leaves your heart aching, stomach hurting and mind in a whirl. Ask yourself this question, “do I really want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me?”  Of course […]

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 Can Harmless Flirting Lead to Cheating

Can Harmless Flirting Lead to Cheating

There is a large population that consider flirting to be an innocent gesture since the primary focus is less on the intent rather than the possible outcome. I think we all can agree, if someone is flirting with the intent to score someone’s number, a date, or even sleep with someone, that’s giving flirting a […]

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