Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries

Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries

We hear the term ‘unconditional love’ quite frequently.  What exactly is it?  When I think of unconditional love I think of my mother or my best-friend.  There is no doubt that I love them unconditionally.  Nothing they could do would make me not love them any more. However, can we say the same for adult relationships? […]

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 Why We All Need A Social Media Reality Check

Why We All Need A Social Media Reality Check

Social media sites can be depressing because everyone else’s lives are better than yours… But are they really? Social media is a platform to connect with others, however, it has also become a place to hide from reality. The virtual world is exciting because we get to reveal ourselves in a vision of what we […]

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 Is Cheating a Personal Choice or a Mistake

Is Cheating a Personal Choice or a Mistake

I recently received a confounding email asking me what I would do if I found out my partner had cheated on me. From my own personal experiences, from both sides of the coin, I know first hand the impact that cheating can have on a person. Interestingly, I had an “a-ha” moment about cheating, in […]

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 Why Gay Men Should Stop Dating Imaginary Men

Why Gay Men Should Stop Dating Imaginary Men

Stop Playing Boy Games! If you sign up with a seedy dating website ( I know from experience ) then you will notice an unusually high population of ready and willing guys. The sudden and inexplicable appearance of all these cyber-hotties who seem oddly fascinated by your unfinished profile will cause you to either (A) […]

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 Fashion Spotlight: Pharrell

Fashion Spotlight: Pharrell

Fashion + Hip Hop have been synonymously linked for decades. From the Sugar Hill Gang known for their flashy, often coordinated street wear to Run DMC’s infamous leather outfits, Adidas sweat suits and coordinating hats to match. The union of fashion + hip hop has provided a musical backdrop to designers’ fashion interpretation and inspiration […]

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 Introducing Andre Xcellence

Introducing Andre Xcellence

The image of a rapper in the public eye is not always positive. The stereotypical terms often associated with rappers keep young men and women from reaching mainstream success. It’s also the reason why I am passionate about shining light on those young gay men and women who are paving the way for gay rappers […]

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