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We all know that effective communication and listening skills are important for a relationship to be successful, but don’t forget it also applies when you’re dating. “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place,” said George Bernard Shaw. Recently I was engrossed in a couple’s conversation on the London […]

“Let it go”! How often do we hear that phrase in a lifetime? Whether it’s a disagreement, a job or a relationship, at times in your life you find yourself at a crossroads wondering what step to take next? You may be feeling like whatever situation you are in is overwhelming, depressing or just not […]

The social climate for topics of race and racism is hot. However, in the gay community the topic of race and how it impacts us and manifests itself is something that is never talked about. During a recent conversation, the question was asked, “How do you feel about the N-word being used during sex?” I […]

Let me share with you an interesting little anecdote about a friend of mine. A long time ago, Brad (I’ll call him) started chatting with some guy on Scruff. They both flirted casually and kind of sort of liked each other, even though they weren’t exactly making plans to meet. Brad was interested in someone else […]