I came of age and came out in NYC during the 80’s. The Christopher Street Pier was where I spent a great deal of my time and where I briefly met some of the sweetest finest souls I would ever meet. Their names ended with Ninja, LaBeija, Magnifique, Infinity, Extravaganza and countless others. They were […]
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Discrimination and racism have become a hot topic nowadays and especially within the gay community. Every day when I log into Facebook, I see another comment, question or statement acknowledging the fact that racism exists within our community. I applaud anyone who stands up for what is right. Although, it’s hard to accept, it’s taken […]
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The aftermath of crystal meth runs deep and affects gay men in a variety of ways. Sex after crystal meth can be complicated and often the reason for a relapse. When I stopped using, I was fearful of having sex without it. Not to glorify having sex on Meth but it’s indescribable because when you […]
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Lately, I have no luck meeting a guy who doesn’t suck but who can suck like a pro (wink, wink). That may be crass, but it’s true. Just the other day I was flipping through Willam’s new book, Suck Less: Where There’s a Willam, There’s a Way, who has been a friend (in my head) […]
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Before the age of online dating and social networking apps, gay bars were the go-to place for gay men to meet other gay men and potentially hook-up. Nightclubs, community centers, and other social events where hundreds of thousands of gay men felt a sense of community have also been important venues for meeting and hooking […]
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We were recently taken aback by an anonymous fan’s email to Kinkster MAG. Images arrived to our inbox of a to-be-nameless high profile person who has been an ardent activist for reducing stigma associated with being HIV+. This person appears to be active on a hook up site devoted to barebacking. It seems our fan […]
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The number is unknown, but upwards of 60,000 donor conceived births take place every year. Straight-coupled, single parents, and same-sex couples would not have the families they do today without the assistance of sperm and egg donors. But, there are serious alarm bells sounding around the serious lack of regulation of the industry and of […]
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Mainstream media continues to use visceral stereotypes of black gay men; images that are degrading and feed into the perception that the black gay community has not evolved. Compared to our white counterparts, the black gay male characters created by some mainstream TV producers are polar opposites. When you view gay white characters on television, […]
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Bars have always been a place for me to socialize with close friends and catch up on the week’s activities, listen to music, dance, meet others, and just let my hair down. As a young, gay man coming to terms with my sexual orientation, learning the ropes, and determining where I fit in the gay […]
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In light of the shooting massacre at the Pulse Nightclub in Orlando in June we wanted to learn a bit more of what’s going on with safety and security at clubs and large events. We also wanted to learn more about the state of nightlife. So who better to connect with than Brandon Voss of […]
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