The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. Crystal meth was my drug of choice for many years, and although I […]
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The new year always sparks the love bug in me, and I am not the only one. A lot of guys at the beginning of the year reflect and think about finding love. However, finding love can be a challenge in the age of technology, and everybody is interested more in instant gratification instead of […]
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Texting is no longer a trend but a way of life. Lately, I have been chatting with several friends who each say they are interested in a guy but they have arrived in the land of confusion because all they do is text one another. One of those friends recently asked me, “when is it […]
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Before the age of online dating and social networking apps, gay bars were the go-to place for gay men to meet other gay men and potentially hook-up. Nightclubs, community centers, and other social events where hundreds of thousands of gay men felt a sense of community have also been important venues for meeting and hooking […]
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We’ve recently written about the conundrums of marriage and open relationships, and differences in sex drives when you’re in a monogamous relationship, and lately I have been exploring polyamory which has been all the rage this year. Even as a gay man, years ago I struggled with the notion of same-sex marriage. My boyfriend of […]
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OVAH MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. I’m not a sex or relationship therapist so take my comments simply as someone who was in a long term monogamous relationship (10 years), who has been single for over a […]
Read MoreBuzzFeed just had me considering “7 Situations That Test What You Find Attractive In a Man.” This was quite the interesting little survey. Once I stopped drooling over the stunningly handsome and sexy model, Broderick Hunter, I wasn’t overly shocked with my results, however. This original experiment, designed by a professional psychotherapist, uses the same […]
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We’ve all done it before and we’ve experienced it first hand. Whether it happens during a random encounter on the streets when you meet your ex’s new boyfriend, or a friend brings a new friend for drinks, or the drag queen you meet in the club looks at you from your tip-toes to the top […]
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The size of every man’s penis is always a hot conversation and often a topic that men themselves don’t discuss. At some point or another, you’ve probably imagined or wondered about the size of another man’s penis or their ability to stay erect and and be functional. One thing we all know is that regardless […]
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Social (hook-up) apps are ingrained in the gay community and are now a part of our culture. These apps have replaced old-fashioned communication and the way we hook-up. I can remember the days when we would go to a bar (talk face-to-face) or go to a sex-club to meet or hook up with a guy. […]
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