Corey Wesley, Author at OVAH MAG

Corey Wesley October 17, 2026

Enjoy Your Home

I work from 4:30 in the morning to 10 at night, and I'm not missing out. A glimpse into my space, and why your home is your sanctuary.

Corey Wesley October 17, 2026

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Why Happiness Is a State of Mind

Being positive is a learned behavior. Six years after I wrote this, here is what I do every morning at 4:30, the heart scare that changed my outlook, and the frequency sounds I want you to try for 21 days.

Corey Wesley October 17, 2026

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What Unmasking Desires Is About

The book where I put my own dating life on the table: race, sexuality and trauma in the gay community, from my own experience.

Knowledge Is Power: Dry Orgasms and Flomax

Corey Wesley October 17, 2026

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Knowledge Is Power: Dry Orgasms and Flomax

I thought something was wrong with me. It was my prostate medication. What a dry orgasm is, what Flomax does, and why men over 50 should talk to their urologists.

Corey Wesley October 17, 2026

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What Are You Looking For, Boy?

Just the other day I had the funniest conversation with a friend, my neighbor Gwen. We were walking down the street talking about random stuff and having a really nice time. It was about 70 degrees in New York, maybe a little higher. We were going to get candles. I like T.J. Maxx candles because […]

Corey Wesley October 16, 2026

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A Night at G Lounge

A night at G Lounge is something to remember. But I must say, it’s not like it used to be. I remember when the doors first opened. I was on line waiting for G Lounge on 19th Street in New York City to open up, and Lord have mercy, it was the place to go […]

Corey Wesley October 16, 2026

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Your Energy Creates Your Environment

Oh my God, living in New York. You have to be kind. I have to be honest about energy. Energy does make a difference. I was sitting on the train talking to myself. I was about to write an article about dating and why no one asks anyone on a date anymore. I was on […]

Corey Wesley October 16, 2026

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Cinnaholic in Chelsea

When you walk through Chelsea after staying away from the neighborhood for a long time, you notice new shops everywhere. Let me tell you about one of them. Oh my gosh, Cinnaholic. My bestie and I were walking down the street on our way to G Lounge (make sure you check out my article on […]

The Pursuit of Unavailable Love Is a Condition

Corey Wesley October 16, 2026

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The Pursuit of Unavailable Love Is a Condition

The pursuit of unavailable love is a condition. It is not a reality. Corey Wesley on why we chase what doesn't serve us, and his book Pursuit of Unavailable Love.