Whatever your kink, fetish, sexual proclivity, or identity, there is a community for you. All you have to do is explore and find ways to connect. Corey Wesley recently interviewed the thoughtful and thought-provoking Mr. NJ Leather, Lynx, to learn more about finding and building community, particularly for men of color in the leather community.
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Males who have gay sex as a whole have been bombarded by what has come to be known as “toxic masculinity.” Claiming they are less masculine simply because they have sex with other males. It is bad enough coming from the overcompensating machismo of homophobic straight people and/or those living on the down-low. But it […]
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Over the years we have seen a lot of LGBT performers achieve the commercial success that some of us, myself included, never thought would be possible. Sure, we had Elton John, Freddie Mercury, Boy George, and a few others. But they claimed bi-sexuality to appease the mainstream audience until times changed and it became much […]
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Lover of life Lauren Foster turns 60 this year and reaches yet another milestone. In the 80s Foster was the first trans model to be featured in VOGUE/Mexico during a time when being trans was kept quiet. This year she is being recognized by Variety Magazine at their annual Women of Empowerment Brunch. She is […]
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I have been a fan of the art of fashion since I was a little girl. I have always loved colors, textures, styles and brands. It all started when I went to one of my favorite stores, The Gap! I won’t bore you with the preliminaries but I will tell you this: my mom told […]
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As the summer winds down, you may be wondering what is going to happen with your summer fling (flings, if you’re nasty). After all, the summer is a season based on rather shallow ideals. We tend to look the hottest we look all year, we are the most fun version of ourselves, and generally, we […]
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“If you’re always ready, you don’t have to get ready” is a quote I wish someone would have shared with the last four guys that I’ve hooked up with who were all total bottoms over 40. If so I would not be needing to air my dirty laundry (pun intended). Let me start off by […]
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I was recently speaking to a 20 something year old about music and Gay Culture. I was mortified when he said “Uh…who is Donna Summer?” And in furthering our conversation the fact hit me that many of the young gays out there have no reference to who and what brought a lot of gay men […]
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Adore Delano, the feisty drag queen rocker, graces the cover of the first-ever Pride issue of the Rock And Roll Hall Of Fame-celebrated publication Alternative Press Magazine, Adore’s first international cover. The Pride issue connects history’s big dots to today’s new awareness to open minds and lengthen playlists. It’s an updated general overview for new […]
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Is anyone ever an expert at dating? It is always strange when I hear someone say, “I’m a dating expert.” Honestly, I don’t believe someone can be an expert at dating, especially when dating today is nothing like how our grandparents dated, and oddly, nothing like how our parents dated. If my grandparents were alive […]
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