# OVAH MAG > You're Not OVAH Until We Say You're OVAH! ## Posts - [DJ Serving Ovahness](https://ovahmag.com/2015/01/01/dj-serving-ovahness/): New Year’s is a festive time of year. We celebrate and ring in a new year with close friends and family. - [Falling for the Good Guys (Naughty or Nice)](https://ovahmag.com/2014/12/08/falling-for-the-good-guys-naughty-or-nice/): Do You Fall for Naughty or Nice? With Christmas just around the corner, I procrastinated buying presents and did some thinking. - [How to Get the Thrill Back in a Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2014/12/06/when-the-thrill-is-gone-in-the-relationship-get-it-back/): Have you ever been in a relationship and suddenly you feel like 'the thrill is gone'? Then what? You cheat or your partner cheats, or you shut each other out? - [Sharing Too Much on Social Media Comes With A Price](https://ovahmag.com/2014/11/23/sharing-too-much-on-social-media-comes-with-a-price/): Social Media is the wave of the future but baby boomers are still puzzled by the fascination of someone posting every minute, or second of their life for the world to see. - [Hebrew Mamita: A Conversation With the P.H.D of Poetry](https://ovahmag.com/2014/10/22/hebrew-mamita-a-conversation-with-the-phd-of-poetry/): Words on a piece of paper are meaningless and lifeless unless there is someone to give them life and meaning. - [DJ Uri: The Essence of Underground Sound](https://ovahmag.com/2014/10/15/dj-uri-the-essence-of-underground-sound/): So how did it all begin? - [What Do Your Facebook Posts Say About You](https://ovahmag.com/2014/10/14/what-do-your-facebook-posts-say-about-you/): Your Facebook wall is more than just frivolous information or random content being posted. - [Discovering the Patchwork of Margo Petitti](https://ovahmag.com/2014/10/10/discovering-the-patchwork-of-margo-petitti/): The moment I heard the crackle in the air I began to scour across the land to discover new and innovative clothing to mark the change in seasons. - [Why Your Temperature Will Rise With Deepa Soul](https://ovahmag.com/2014/10/03/why-your-temperature-will-rise-with-deepa-soul/): Tribal/Club/Dance dance music were a seed planted in me many years ago and a recent “rebirth” has taken place for me. - [Designer Spotlight: Jianhui London](https://ovahmag.com/2014/09/18/designer-spotlight-jianhui-london/): Having style and being fashionable is more than just putting on clothes. - [Locke The Artist Behind #ThisCouldBeUs](https://ovahmag.com/2014/09/16/doug-locke-the-artist-behind-thiscouldbeus/): The portrayal of gay men in recent years has seen a flip because the world is changing. - [A Female DJ You Need To Know DJ Rosé](https://ovahmag.com/2014/09/01/a-female-dj-you-need-to-know-dj-rose/): When Beyonce said 'girls run the world' I guess she wasn't kidding because woman are dominating industries where men once controlled for decades. - [It's Never Too Late to Love Again](https://ovahmag.com/2014/08/27/why-it-is-never-too-late-to-love-again/): As I sit here in the dark preparing for bed, my thoughts begin to collect like words on the pages of a history book. - [Who is James Whiteside (a.k.a. JbDubs)](https://ovahmag.com/2014/08/11/artist-spotlight-james-whiteside-a-k-a-jbdubs/): Do you recall the feeling you felt the first time you opened up your first box of Cracker Jacks and discovered there was a prize at the bottom of the box. - [Meet Atlanta's Funky Dineva Ross](https://ovahmag.com/2014/08/05/artist-spotlight-funky-dineva-ross/): Realty Television has not only become a hot topic but a cult phenomena. Whether you love it or hate it you've been sucked in at one time or another. - [The Sounds of the Fabulous Sylvester Make Their Way to Broadway](https://ovahmag.com/2014/08/04/the-sounds-of-the-fabulous-sylvester-make-their-way-to-broadway/): Music feeds the soul is a statement I frequently make. It makes your spirit feel good. - [Designer Spotlight: Tim Scapes](https://ovahmag.com/2014/07/24/designer-spotlight-tim-scapes/): Every GAY-CA-TION Has a Story No matter where we go a gay-ca-tion is a necessity for the gay man on the go. - [How to Survive a "Traveling" Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2014/07/19/how-to-survive-a-traveling-relationship/): How many of you have ever been in a relationship with someone who had to travel a lot? - [What Makes A Gay Man Sexy](https://ovahmag.com/2014/07/15/what-makes-a-gay-man-sexy/): What makes a gay man sexy? This was a recent random thought of mine after several people this past weekend referred to me as sexy. - [Why Gay Men Should Never Say, "He's Too Gay."](https://ovahmag.com/2014/07/13/when-is-he-too-gay/): As a gay men I am surprised how easy it’s been for me to say, “he is so gay” or “I don’t want to look or appear too gay” when picking out an outfit to wear. - [Why You Can't Buy Love](https://ovahmag.com/2014/07/04/why-you-cant-buy-love/): Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, "what can he/she buy me" to show they love me? - [What You Need To Know About GMO'S](https://ovahmag.com/2014/05/06/what-you-need-to-know-about-gmos/): According to the World Health Organization, (GMO'S) the term Genetically Modified Organisms is used to describe any living thing, such as animals, plants, or bacterias, that has had its genetic material (DNA) "altered in a way that does not occur naturally." - [Your Cellphone is Ruining Your Dating Life](https://ovahmag.com/2014/03/29/your-cellphone-is-ruining-your-dating-life/): Cellphones, everyone has one now a days. The whole world is electronically connected. Social media, work, play it's all on your cellphone. - [Brenden Sanborn: Essence of Love Through Art](https://ovahmag.com/2014/03/19/artist-spotlight-brenden-sanborn/): Artists often hide behind their work of art to add an element of mystery and illusion to who they may be. - [Hitarda Makes The World Dance](https://ovahmag.com/2014/02/01/hitarda-makes-the-world-dance/): “Life is great… No fear and no limits. - [Exclusive Interview: DJ Mark Farina](https://ovahmag.com/2014/01/10/exclusive-interview-dj-mark-farina/): DJ and musician Mark Farina has remained true to his principles of “nice beats, sweet melodies and interesting samples.” Known for his Chicago house, acid jazz, and downtempo works he is embraced by fans from all over the world. - [Why I Deleted My Grindr Account](https://ovahmag.com/2013/10/19/why-i-deleted-my-grindr-account/): When a friend is in need it’s important to do whatever you can to help because one day it may be you looking for support. Today was that day for me. - [Same-Sex Domestic Violence A Silent Epidemic](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/03/same-sex-domestic-violence-a-silent-epidemic/): Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that's because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! - [Six Skincare Tips for Maintaining Total Body Care](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/02/top-six-skincare-tips-for-maintaining-total-body-care/): Men’s skin care trends reflect the growing consumer interest and demand in how today’s male consumer cares for his skin. - [Money Can't Buy You Love in Relationships](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/01/money-cant-buy-you-love-in-relationships/): Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, "what can he buy me" to show they love me? - [The Health Benefit of Eating Collard Greens](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/01/the-health-benefit-of-eating-collard-greens/): Collard greens, part of the cruciferous vegetable family, which includes kale, broccoli, brussels sprout and cabbage to name a few. - [Meeting His Family Doesn't Mean Anything](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/25/why-meeting-his-family-doesnt-mean-anything/): Most gay men have been conditioned to believe being asked or asking someone to meet the family is a label for “it’s getting serious!” Are you joking? - [Skincare Products Every Man Needs](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/24/tom-ford-skincare-products-every-man-needs/): Tom Ford is one man I trust when it comes to knowing a thing or two about skincare and grooming. - [Do You Have A Fear of Commitment](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/23/do-you-have-a-fear-of-commitment/): A handful of gay men experience anxiety and fear when it comes to getting closer emotionally, making it difficult to commit. - [Healthy Eating-Getting Started](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/22/healthy-eating-getting-started/): Most people promise to lose weight by going on a diet at the beginning of the year. They purchase gym memberships or start a diet program. - [Stay Safe When Getting a Manicure or Pedicure](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/18/how-can-you-stay-safe-when-getting-a-manicure-or-pedicure/): Many of us have safety and hygiene concerns when it comes to the local salon, so picking the right one is truly important. - [Exclusive Interview with Rilan](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/16/exclusive-interview-with-rilan/): Dark, Youthful, and Soulful are some of the adjectives to describe Rilan; a talented singer, songwriter, dancer, choreographer and all around triple-threat. - [The Differences between Love and Infatuation](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/16/the-differences-between-love-and-infatuation/): Maintaining a healthy relationship is challenging and requires the fruits of labor for love. - [The 3 Worst Questions You Can Ask on a First Date](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/16/the-3-worst-questions-you-can-ask-on-a-first-date/): Gay men have been taking dating advice from experts for years who are either not dating or having sex in the city. - [Being Black, Gay & Dating in NYC is Complex](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/13/being-black-and-gay-dating-in-nyc-is-complex/): Being single and gay and dating within NYC nightlife is often layered with complexity; a complexity even Einstein would not be able to figure out. - [The Ballroom Culture is Hitting Mainstream](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/13/how-the-ballroom-culture-is-hitting-mainstream/): The underground dance and music scene has paved the pathway for gay youth to embrace their creativity and expand the hearts and minds of individuals who judged them solely based on who they slept with. - [Why You Should Watch Eastern Boys](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/12/why-you-should-watch-eastern-boys/): From all over the Eastern Bloc, young men have arrived to Paris. - [The Best Moisturizers for Men Under $25](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/12/the-best-moisturizers-for-men-under-25/): The winter months can be brutal on the skin so it’s important to moisturize during these crucial months. - [Why You Might Be Dating In The Dark](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/12/why-you-might-be-dating-in-the-dark/): Do you know exactly what your partner is expecting of you and would your partner say they know what you’re looking for in the relationship? - [Best Shaving Tips and Techniques for Men](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/11/shaving-tips-and-techniques-for-men/): The most frequently asked question we are asked is about personal grooming habits, how or what do you do to achieve the perfect shave? - [Gay Hip-Hop Artists Are Changing the Face of Music](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/10/gay-hip-hop-artists-are-changing-the-face-of-music/): Frank Ocean might be considered the first mainstream openly gay rapper but he is no longer the only one. - [How to Treat the Cold or Flu Naturally](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/10/how-to-treat-the-cold-or-flu-naturally/): It's winter and the start of the cold and flu season. Most people before the winter is over, will get the flu. - [Shy Girls](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/07/artist-spotlight-shy-girls/): When it comes to music I have an eclectic range of tastes allowing me to be introduced to a multitude of talent. - [What You Don't Know About Coffee?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/06/what-you-dont-know-about-coffee/): Coffee and the benefits of drinking more than one cup a day is something many coffee drinkers are unaware of. - [Troye Sivan](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/06/artist-to-watch-troye-sivan/): Twenty year old out and proud Australian actor and singer/songwriter Troye Sivan just dropped his first LP, Blue Neighborhood. - [Practicing Active Listening May Help Your Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/02/practicing-active-listening-may-help-your-relationship/): We all know that effective communication and listening skills are important for a relationship to be successful, but don't forget it also applies when you're dating. - [How to Let Go of a Toxic Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2015/12/02/how-to-let-go-of-a-toxic-relationship/): "Let it go"! How often do we hear that phrase in a lifetime? - [Why Do We Hate Seeing Photos of Ourselves](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/19/why-do-we-hate-seeing-photos-of-ourselves/): Do you (like most of us) usually hate photos of yourself? - [Artist Spotlight: Missy Elliott](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/12/artist-spotlight-missy-elliott/): People were so worked up over Missy Elliott​ being called a "NEW" artist after her guest performance at the NFL Super Bowl XLIX. - [Is It Acceptable to Use the N-Word During Sex?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/12/is-it-acceptable-to-use-the-n-word-during-sex/): The social climate for topics of race and racism is hot. - [The Surprising Secret You MUST Know: Every Flirt Counts](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/08/the-surprising-secret-you-must-know-every-flirt-counts/): Let me share with you an interesting little anecdote about a friend of mine. A long time ago, Brad (I’ll call him) started chatting with some guy on Scruff. - [How Texting Is Affecting Our Communication Skills](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/06/how-texting-is-affecting-our-communication-skills/): When you text a person, you’re not talking to that person, you’re talking to their phone. - [Why Dark Chocolate is Good for You](https://ovahmag.com/2015/11/02/why-dark-chocolate-is-good-for-you/): I love dark chocolate, especially when its covered in nuts, almond, walnut and cashew. - [Why Someone's Addiction is More Than A Drug](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/31/why-someones-addiction-is-more-than-a-drug/): Millions of gay men have lost hope and have no where to turn. Oftentimes they end up turning to drugs or suicide to soothe the pain. - [Why Are Boy Bands and Girl Groups Built to Fail?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/30/why-are-girl-groups-and-boy-bands-built-to-fail/): Successful boy bands and girl groups all have one thing in common: a quick rise to pop superstardom and an even faster drop to pop obscurity for most of the members of said groups. - [UNDERWEAR: The Samurai Way](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/30/underwear/): The men’s underwear industry is booming! It's estimated to be worth $6.5 billion and growing! - [Taking a Selfie is NOT a Shameless Act](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/27/why-taking-a-selfie-is-not-a-shameless-act/): People are taking more than 1 million selfies (self-portraits, usually taken with a smartphone) every day. Selfies are part of our culture. - [The Different Shades & Meanings of Love](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/26/how-to-communicate-through-the-different-shades-of-love/): Dating, relationships and love are complex. We as humans continue to struggle to find the right ingredients for forming the perfect relationship. - [Destiny is Not In Charge of Your Love Life](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/26/why-destiny-is-not-in-charge-of-your-love-life/): The young and datable generation of today didn’t learn about “destiny” from the Protestant definition of predestination or from Sophocles’ Oedipus Rex tragedy. - [The New Landscape for Men's Grooming](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/25/the-new-landscape-for-mens-grooming/): Those Harry’s ads follow me everywhere. - [The Story Behind Kinkster MAG](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/24/the-story-behind-kinkster-mag/): Society seems to have evolved but honestly it hasn't. Views, beliefs and perceptions are still antiquated. - [Manage Your Time and Your To-Do List](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/23/how-to-manage-your-time-and-your-to-do-list/): Rushing here and rushing there I started to contemplate time and how it's a false idea exasperated throughout our lives. - [Music Execs Under-appreciate New Artists](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/21/music-execs-under-appreciate-new-artists/): Names like Beyonce, Gaga, Bieber and even returning artists like Janet dominate the charts and airwaves making it a challenge for other artists to be heard. - [The Healing Powers of Aromatherapy](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/20/the-healing-powers-of-aromatherapy/): The fall/winter months are a stressful time of the year, spending lots of time indoors, spending tons of money during the holidays and preparing big family dinners. - [Should You Lend Your Boyfriend Money?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/19/should-you-lend-your-boyfriend-money/): It’s a question I thought I would be able to answer with ease. - [Five Situational Dates in London](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/19/five-situational-dates-in-london/): Whether you’re single, married, or just a casual kind-of-guy, you’ll always want a spark in your dates. - [If a Man is Feminine Does that Make Him Less of a Man](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/19/if-a-man-is-feminine-does-that-make-him-less-of-a-man/): In the gay community we’ve had to fight to be considered equal. - [Gay Parenting: Barcode Babies](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/18/gay-parenting-barcode-babies/): With the rapid growth and changing social attitudes towards LGBT communities, more and more of us are deciding to create nuclear families of our own. - [Love is a Choice You Make from Moment to Moment](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/16/love-is-a-choice-you-make-from-moment-to-moment/): Would you be able to recognize love if it were staring you straight in the eye? What are the gestures that say, “I love you? - [Why Ghosting Is Not the Latest Epidemic](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/14/why-ghosting-is-not-the-latest-epidemic/): In a recent commentary by Samuel C. Spitale in the Advocate he tackles the notion of "Gay Ghosting" and whether it's an epidemic? - [Style Spotlight: Steven Meisel](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/13/style-spotlight-steven-meisel/): Steven Meisel has and continues to serve as a fashion photographer icon. - [The Signs You're in a Healthy Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2015/10/10/the-signs-youre-in-a-healthy-relationship/): We read so many articles and listen to so many shows on "Red Flags of Relationships", but what do we really know about "Green flags" of relationships? - [Improve Life in the Bedroom With 6 Dietary Changes](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/28/improve-life-in-the-bedroom-with-6-dietary-changes/): Sure, you’re healthy. You have a great sex life. You have no “real” performance issues. However, everyone wants to be a little better. - [Surviving A Relationship Break-Up](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/19/surviving-a-relationship-break-up/): The Relationship is Over! Have you recently been given your walking papers? Now that the relationship is over, are you struggling with moving on? - [What is a Gluten-free Diet](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/17/gluten-free-diet-2/): Lately, across the country I have seen a big response to the gluten-free diet. - [Prostate Cancer: Helping Men Live Longer](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/13/prostate-cancer-helping-men-live-longer/): One of the leading causes of cancer death in men of all races, is prostate cancer. It is a very common cancer in men in the United States. - [What Can Dutch Drivers Teach Us About Dating](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/13/what-can-dutch-drivers-teach-us-about-dating/): After my first date this year with X (after a two year hiatus of being single) I went from being a sane, happy-go-lucky person into a depressed, insecure, mess. - [Benefits of Defining Your Dating Identity](https://ovahmag.com/2015/09/12/dating-identity/): What is your dating identity? Are you ready to take ownership of it? Are you still craving a less frustrating but healthier dating experience? - [How to Make a Break Up a Positive Experience](https://ovahmag.com/2015/08/31/how-to-make-a-break-up-a-positive-experience/): Positive break ups? I'm sure you're wondering, "how can that be"? Every break up seems like the end of the world. - [Lianne La Havas – Blood (2015 Warner Music Group UK Limited)](https://ovahmag.com/2015/08/15/lianne-la-havas-blood-2015-warner-music-group-uk-limited/): In 2012, Lianne La Havas dropped her debut album, Is Your Love Big Enough? - [What is Your Purpose in Life](https://ovahmag.com/2015/08/08/what-is-your-purpose-in-life/): Have you ever asked yourself, what is your purpose in life? Well, this quote from Buddha answers the question. - [How to Deal with Infidelity in a Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2015/08/04/how-to-deal-with-infidelity-in-a-relationship/): Have you ever been in a relationship, thought it was fine, only to one day be hit by a bolt of lightening? You discover your partner has been unfaithful to you. - [Is Caitlyn a Victim of Her Own Success](https://ovahmag.com/2015/07/30/is-caitlyn-a-victim-of-her-own-success/): I watched with millions of other LGBT people the ‘coming out’ of Caitlyn. Here was a man who is now a woman. Even my 4 year old niece understood this. - [Why We Need More African-American Men On the Cover of Magazines](https://ovahmag.com/2015/07/26/why-we-need-more-african-american-men-on-the-cover-of-magazines/): As an African-American man who lives for fashion, music, and pop culture it is becoming more and more disturbing for me to see fewer and fewer black men gracing the cover of the magazines loved by a diverse group of men. - [The Evolving Standards Of Beauty for Men](https://ovahmag.com/2015/07/24/the-evolving-standards-of-beauty-for-men/): It's impossible to watch daytime television and not hear women discussing body image and the issues they face. However, no one is speaking about men. - [Can Harmless Flirting Lead to Cheating](https://ovahmag.com/2015/07/19/can-harmless-flirting-lead-to-cheating/): There is a large population that consider flirting to be an innocent gesture since the primary focus is less on the intent rather than the possible outcome. - [How Often Should You Replace Your Grooming Products](https://ovahmag.com/2015/07/04/how-often-should-you-replace-your-grooming-products/): Male grooming is a growing market. Brands and businesses alike have been embracing this change in the beauty industry for over a decade. - [Herbs to Heal Your Body and Mind](https://ovahmag.com/2015/06/19/herbs-to-heal-your-body-and-mind/): Herbalism, which is herbal medicine refers to the medical treatment by which plants is the source of healing. - [Why Men Should Be Eating Watermelon](https://ovahmag.com/2015/06/08/why-men-should-be-eating-watermelon/): As we get ready to enjoy the summer season, its time to enjoy the summer time fruits. One of my favorite is watermelon. - [Why You Should Stop Calling the Person You’re Dating Needy](https://ovahmag.com/2015/06/06/why-you-should-stop-calling-the-person-youre-dating-needy/): Are you dating someone who is needy? - [The Three-Month Itch: Are You Ready to Stay or Flee](https://ovahmag.com/2015/06/01/the-three-month-itch-are-you-ready-to-stay-or-flee/): The 3-month itch generally is a feeling of restlessness, laziness or excitement, brought on by the coming of the warm weather, thoughts of the beach and hot men walking down the street in almost next to nothing. - [Why T'ai Chi Helps Reduce Stress](https://ovahmag.com/2015/05/21/why-tai-chi-helps-reduce-stress/): Early in the morning, I take my dogs to Central Park for their daily morning workout. - [When, Where and How Should You Bring Up Your HIV+ Status](https://ovahmag.com/2015/05/10/when-where-and-how-should-you-bring-up-your-hiv-status/): Do you think lovemaking is an art or a necessary evil? In a new a relationship do you struggle with when it’s appropriate to discuss sex? - [Why is Acupuncture Good for You](https://ovahmag.com/2015/05/03/why-is-acupuncture-good-for-you/): Have you ever visited an Acupuncturist to treat any ailments you have? - [What Does It Really Mean When Someone Says, "I Need Space"](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/30/what-does-it-really-mean-when-someone-says-i-need-space/): Are you feeling like your relationship is on a collision course to the end? Is your relationship in need of some extra storage space? - [Drag Is a Business and Latrice Royale Knows It](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/28/latrice-royale-large-and-in-charge-chucky-yet-funky/): Latrice Royale has always been more than a RuPaul Drag Race contestant to me. - [Official Video: Divided by Denitia & Sene](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/20/denitia-and-dene-divided-official-music-video/): When it comes to music I would not call myself and expert but I do claim to be a kinkster for good music. - [Glenn Stewart: The New Face of Gay Country Music](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/19/glenn-stewart-the-new-face-of-country/): Country music is a genre of music that requires a unique voice; a voice that can shape your emotions. - [The Best Ways to Get Rid of Pimples](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/13/the-best-ways-to-get-rid-of-pimples/): Let’s just be honest – pimples sucks! They look bad, often times hurt, and do a number on your confidence. - [Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/11/love-comes-with-unconditional-boundaries/): We hear the term 'unconditional love' quite frequently. What exactly is it? When I think of unconditional love I think of my mother or my best-friend. - [Katy B is an Artist Lurking in the Shadows](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/09/katy-b-is-an-artist-lurking-in-the-shadows/): The globalization of both music and social media has allowed artists to reach a broader and more diverse audience. - [Why We All Need A Social Media Reality Check](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/08/why-you-need-a-social-media-reality-check/): Social media sites can be depressing because everyone else’s lives are better than yours… But are they really? - [Say Goodbye to Ingrown Hairs and Razor Bumps](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/05/say-goodbye-to-ingrown-hairs-and-razor-bumps/): Let's face it, shaving should be simple, but all too often, it isn't. - [The Best Remedies for Spring and Seasonal Allergies](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/04/the-best-remedies-for-spring-and-seasonal-allergies/): What is an "Allergy?"According to the definition, it is a hypersensitivity disorder of the immune system. - [Is Cheating a Personal Choice or a Mistake](https://ovahmag.com/2015/04/02/cheating/): I recently received a confounding email asking me what I would do if I found out my partner had cheated on me. - [Why Gay Men Should Stop Dating Imaginary Men](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/28/why-gay-men-should-stop-dating-imaginary-men/): Stop Playing Boy Games! - [Fashion Spotlight: Pharrell](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/25/fashion-spotlight-pharrell/): Fashion + Hip Hop have been synonymously linked for decades. - [What Are the Benefits of Reflexology](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/25/what-are-the-benefits-of-reflexology/): What is Reflexology you might ask? - [Introducing Andre Xcellence](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/18/artist-spotlight-andre-xcellence/): The image of a rapper in the public eye is not always positive. - [How Important Is End of a Date Kiss](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/17/how-important-is-end-of-a-date-kiss/): One of the best parts about having a promising date (besides the free drinks) is the goodbye kiss. - [Why Are You Committing These 5 Skincare Sins](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/14/why-are-you-committing-these-5-skincare-sins/): Whether you keep it really simple or have a regimen consisting of cleanser, toner, moisturizer, and some extra credit steps, you’re probably not taking quite as good care of your skin as you think. - [How to Restore And Maintain Your Health With Reiki](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/10/how-to-restore-and-maintain-your-health-with-reiki/): What is Reiki you might ask? Reiki is a natural healing therapy that balances life energies and bring your health and well being in alignment. - [Nader's Lyrics are His Autobiography](https://ovahmag.com/2015/03/05/nader/): It's not every day you have the opportunity to sit down with a rising star and chat about their enviable future for chart-topping success before it all happens. - [Would You Un-friend Someone for Gay-Shaming?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/02/27/would-you-un-friend-someone-for-gay-shaming/): Recently I had a conversation with a close friend of mine who is considering un-friending a mutual associate of ours because he finds this associate's Facebook posts judgmental, offensive, disturbing and they lack sensitivity towards gay men. - [Why You Shouldn't Invite Him or Her Back to Your Place Too Soon](https://ovahmag.com/2015/02/19/my-place-or-yours/): A question that many people face is when they should ask the person that they are seeing back to their place. Unfortunately, there is no sure or right answer. - [Stop looking for the Next Best Thing](https://ovahmag.com/2015/02/17/gay-men-stop-looking-for-the-next-best-thing/): In today’s society, it seems we are never satisfied. We are always searching for something else; something that is bigger, better, faster, and newer. - [Why Sugar and Artificial Sweeteners Are Bad For You](https://ovahmag.com/2015/02/10/effect-of-sugar-and-artificial-sweeteners-on-your-health/): One of the biggest addiction in America, is the over abuse of sugar and artificial sweetener in the diet. - [Paul Richmond Challenges Masculinity](https://ovahmag.com/2015/02/02/paul-richmond-war-paint-vs-masculinity/): After reading an article on the Huffington Post’s site which commented on Paul’s paintings, Corey likened the concept of Paul’s recent series of paintings entitled “War Paint,” where he challenges conventions around masculinity and the male form by challenging the stereotypes of gay men. - [How to Keep a Guy in 10 Days](https://ovahmag.com/2015/01/21/how-to-keep-a-guy-in-10-days/): Two weeks ago, while watching Netflix and drinking an obnoxious amount of red wine for a Wednesday night, I started doing what everyone these days does when boredom (and alcohol) sets in: I went on Tinder. - [How Often Do You Really Use Your Cell-Phone?](https://ovahmag.com/2015/01/19/how-often-do-you-really-use-your-cell-phone/): Are you obsessed with your mobile device and if you say no…you’re lying. - [The Power of Letting a Relationship Go](https://ovahmag.com/2015/01/17/the-power-of-letting-a-relationship-go/): First off, I want to apologize to anyone who now suddenly has the song Let It Go from Frozen, stuck in their heads. (It’s still just so damn catchy). - [Are You In a Controlling Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2015/01/10/are-you-in-a-controlling-relationship/): Control can be viewed in many ways. - [Blue-Eyed Soul: Cultural Appropriation?](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/07/blue-eyed-soul-cultural-appropriation/): A few days ago I was listening to some new music via iTunes Music and came across a really awesome sounding band performing soulful, blues inflected folk music. - [10 Simple Ways to Detox Your Body](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/05/10-simple-ways-to-detox-your-body/): Detoxing after a long weekend of drinking is always a good idea. - [Sampling Lawsuits, Being Creative or Creating Carbon Copies](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/28/sampling-lawsuits-being-creative-or-creating-carbon-copies/): As a DJ who started back in 1980 in radio, I have watched a lot of changes in the music industry. - [The Irreversible Impacts Of Grindr](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/27/the-irreversible-impacts-of-grindr/): We all know it, almost all of us have used it, and so few of us actually love it. - [Kristine W is Back With A New Single, 'Out There'](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/27/kristine-w-is-back-with-a-new-single-out-there/): The music sensation Kristine W has been creating record charting dance hits and lighting up club stages for decades. - [Megan Vice is an Emerging Star You Should Be Listening To](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/23/megan-vice-is-an-emerging-star-you-should-be-listening-to/): Who is Megan Vice? If you're not sure, then you've been living under a rock. This indie artist is a rising pop star with a funky fresh sound. - [Gay Bars and Clubs are Meant to be a Safe Space](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/21/gay-bars-and-clubs-are-meant-to-be-a-safe-space/): On the weekend of June 12th something devastating happened to us. - [Trae Crowder 'The Liberal Redneck' May Offend, But So What](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/20/trae-crowder-the-liberal-redneck-may-offend-but-so-what/): Earlier this year the state of Tennessee attempted to make the Bible the official state book joining the roster of its other state symbols that include a .50-caliber sniper rifle, salamander and raccoon (PBS NewsHour). - [Products to Control and Reduce Sweat](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/19/products-to-control-and-reduce-sweat/): Summer has its benefits, but it's also the worst time of year for those who break out into a sweat for no apparent reason. - [Think Twice Before Sipping Your Pre-Workout Beverage](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/19/think-twice-before-sipping-your-pre-workout-beverage/): When you’re getting ready for your workout, it’s important to consider what you take into your body. - [DJ Joe Pacheco is Serving the NYC Circuit Party Sound](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/15/dj-joe-pacheco-is-serving-the-nyc-circuit-party-sound/): Temperatures are rising, we're peeling off clothing layer by layer which can mean only one thing, summer is here. - [United by Tragedy but for How Long](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/14/united-by-tragedy-but-for-how-long/): Unity and solidarity are a couple of words that have been tossed around over the last couple of days. - [SLAY TV: New Indie-Streaming Network for LGBT Artists of Color](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/13/artkutec-new-indie-streaming-network-for-lgbt-artists-of-color/): This article has been updated as of January 2017. ARTKUTEC is now SLAY TV. A Revolution is happening in the black LGBT community right now. - [A Personal Reaction to Orlando Mass Shooting - #PrayersforOrlando](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/13/a-personal-reaction-to-orlando-mass-shooting-prayersfororlando/): The shooting in Orlando is heartbreaking on so many levels; we lost 49 souls (not including the shooter) who went out to have fun, and they never made it home. - [Mind-Blowing Music by French Afro-Cuban Twin Duo Ibeyi](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/12/mind-blowing-music-by-french-afro-cuban-twin-duo-ibeyi/): Over the weekend, I attended a matinee to see a production of Alvin Ailey Dance Theater. The show was impeccable. - [Gay Dads: A Celebration of Fatherhood](https://ovahmag.com/2016/06/02/gay-dads-a-celebration-of-fatherhood/): Sunday, June 19, 2016 will mark Father’s Day in the United States and many other countries around the world. - [Music in the Name of Pride](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/31/pride-music/): This month I decided to focus on a few of our Gay Artists. I am a firm believer that if we don’t support our own, who will? - [Why is Nick Jonas' Sexuality Important to You](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/31/why-is-nick-jonas-sexuality-important-to-you/): Nick Jonas has been such the hot topic in the gay community and for some time now. The fascination over his sexual orientation perplexes me. - [What Do Your First Impressions Say About You?](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/30/what-do-your-first-impressions-say-about-you/): We’ve all done it before and we’ve experienced it first hand. - [Erection Is A Terrible Thing To Waste](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/27/erection-is-a-terrible-thing-to-waste/): The size of every man's penis is always a hot conversation and often a topic that men themselves don't discuss. - [How to Practice Mindfulness Meditation](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/25/mindfulness-meditation/): What is mindfulness meditation you might be asking yourself ? What does it accomplish? - [Misguided Skincare Regimens](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/24/misguided-skincare-regimens/): Boys, we've been lied to. We have been treating our skin entirely wrong. - [Song of the Summer is Blindfolds by Rilan (Feat. NAZ TOKIO)](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/19/song-of-the-summer-is-blindfolds-by-rilan-feat-naz-tokio/): Rilan is an artist we support and love everything he does. Since our last feature of 2015 where we interviewed Rilan, he has also been a supporter of ours. - [NYC Photographer Preston Burford Talks Photography, NYC, Drag](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/18/nyc-photographer-preston-burford-talks-photography-nyc-drag/): New York is the city that never sleeps because most of us who live here are up late creating beautiful things. - [The First Plug and Play Turntable](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/17/the-first-plug-and-play-turntable/): 'Hey Mr. DJ' by Zhane is a classic song that reminds me of the days when DJ's used vinyl records to get the party started. Sadly, those days are long gone. - [The Vitamin You Need To Improve Life in The Bedroom](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/17/the-vitamin-you-need-to-improve-life-in-the-bedroom/): Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is a topic most men are uncomfortable with. It's not uncommon for men over 40 to experience ED. - [It's All About Jordan Fisher](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/16/its-all-about-jordan-fisher/): "All About Us" is a soulful track with an upbeat vibe. It's also a track that had me scratching my head, asking myself, who is singing? - [What Does Drug Addiction Look Like](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/15/what-does-drug-addiction-look-like/): Drug addiction can be hard to understand. It's also difficult to explain. - [Selena Gomez Says, "Kill Em With Kindness"](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/15/selena-gomez-says-kill-em-with-kindness/): A year ago, if you asked me who Selena Gomez was, I would have no clue. - [TYPE 2 Diabetes: The SILENT KILLER](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/12/type-2-diabetes-the-silent-killer/): Type 2 diabetes is known as the silent killer and a life long disease that affects the way your body handles glucose, a kind of sugar in your body. - [Strategies to Fight Internalized Gay Ageism](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/11/strategies-to-fight-internalized-gay-ageism/): Internalized Gay Ageism is a Real Thing, and Here’s One Way to Fight It It’s no secret that gay culture is youth obsessed, look no further than your local Most Woof’d List to confirm, but recent research (ScienceDirect) has now proven that getting old as a gay man has actual adverse affects on mental health. - [One-on-One with Celebrity Photographer Magnus Hastings](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/09/one-on-one-with-celebrity-photographer-magnus-hastings/): I have admired and been captivated by the visually stunning work of celebrity photographer Magnus Hastings for quite some time. - [Exploring Gay Spirituality](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/08/exploring-gay-mens-spirituality/): Spirituality within the gay community has been non-exist until recently. - [How to Get Ready for Work in 30 Minutes or Less](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/08/essential-grooming-products-for-the-morning/): The phrase, "places to go, people to see," in today's world is a reality. We are living in an era where time is not our friend. - [Street Fair Season Offers Good Things to Taste](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/08/street-fair-season-offers-good-things-to-taste/): So much goes on around New York City and I love it! Spring kicks off the season for street fairs and festivals. - [The Current State of the Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/03/the-current-state-of-the-music/): 2016 is not even at the halfway mark and it's been a year of major change so far. - [Marek+Richard: No Fats, No Fems T-Shirt Controversy](https://ovahmag.com/2016/05/02/marekrichard-no-fats-no-fems-t-shirt-controversy/): "It's disappointing seeing Marek+Richard perpetuate this toxic mentality to sell a tank instead let's #ChangeTheGame" -- via Jack'd Twitter account. - [Machaizelli: A Rising Star You Should Get To Know](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/30/machaizelli-a-rising-star-you-should-get-to-know/): Young, comical and fabulous are a few words I would use to describe vlogger Machaizelli, aka MacDoesIt. He is not just a YouTuber, but a rising star. - [Katy B Hits the Dance Floor with Honey](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/29/katy-b-hits-the-dance-floor-with-honey/): Katy B is a pop star. The world just doesn’t know it yet. I first came across the singer while I was surfing YouTube for UK songstresses. - [5 Healthy Snacks You Need to Eat NOW](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/28/5-healthy-snacks-you-need-to-eat-now/): One strategy to help lose weight is to eat smaller portions. But what about the hours between those small portions? This is where we all go wrong. - [Worldwide Sensation Oh Wonder Set to Tour in 2016](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/28/worldwide-sensation-oh-wonder-set-to-tour-in-2016/): Since Oh Wonder published it’s highly popular video for “Without You” on October 26, 2015, it has had over 10.5M views on YouTube. - [The Ultimate Head Shaving Tips](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/27/the-ultimate-head-shaving-tips/): Having a shaved head look is no longer a trend but a norm. Men have been shaving their heads for the last decade. - [The Uninhibited Realness of TS Madison](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/23/the-uninhibited-realness-of-ts-madison/): Immediately, after the camera was turned on, a star was born. TS Madison has become a fixture of positivity, hope, and realness within the LGBTQ community. - [Prince: An Icon & Musical Genius Gone Too Soon](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/21/prince-an-icon-musical-genius-gone-too-soon/): It's odd when you hear about a celebrity's death and depending on your connection with that artist it can affect you in such a way that it leaves you speechless, sad, and nostalgic all at the same time. - [Jono McCleery: Expression of Life And Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/19/jono-mccleery-expression-of-life-and-music/): The essence of music and its true meaning can get lost when we're not familiar with an artist. - [Essential Skincare Tips for Men](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/18/essential-skincare-tips-for-men/): Men that have bad skin are more noticeable during warmer months. - [En Vogue Is Back With New Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/18/en-vogue-is-back-with-new-music/): When the ladies of En Vogue whisper a sound, I stop to listen. En Vogue, in my opinion, are more than a girl group. - [Fat Burning Foods Are A Myth](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/17/fat-burning-foods-are-a-myth/): Eating healthy combined with exercise is honestly the only way to lose those extra pounds. You may read that eating certain food will help you lose weight. - [Be Someone Known For More Than A Shirtless Picture](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/17/be-someone-known-for-more-than-a-shirtless-picture/): It's never easy to find an online magazine for gay men with an edge and maturity. However, look no further! - [Bring on the Heat: Temperature Rising Songs](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/16/bring-on-the-heat-temperature-rising-songs/): As the temperatures slowly grow into spring, it's time to start looking at some of the new tracks that you're gonna hear about. - [Jason Walker and Tony Moran are "So Happy"](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/15/jason-walker-and-tony-moran-are-so-happy/): The state of the world has become a very confusing place; a place in need of more love and happiness. Love is the essence and pathway to real happiness. - [Guy Scheiman Has The Power to Ignite a Dance Floor](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/14/guy-scheiman-has-the-power-to-ignite-a-dancefloor/): In order to be considered successful and internationally known in today's club scene you have to be a DJ who is driven, passionate about music, and determined to make club-goers dance. - [Good Morning London - Single by Raph Solo](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/13/good-morning-london-single-by-raph-solo/): Raph Solo’s new music video, “Good Morning London”, is a love letter to the city he calls home. - [Jack’d, Endorses #BlackLivesMatter Activist DeRay Mckesson](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/12/jackd-endorses-blacklivesmatter-activist-deray-mckesson/): Jack’d is announcing its support of DeRay Mckesson, a prominent #BlackLivesMatter activist who is openly gay, in his bid for Baltimore Mayor. - [Jack'd Candidly Discusses The Need for Inclusion](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/12/jackd-candidly-discusses-the-need-for-inclusion/): Social (hook-up) apps are ingrained in the gay community and are now a part of our culture. - [A Provocative Interview with Harrison Scott](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/11/a-provocative-interview-with-harrison-scott/): New York based out singer-songwriter Harrison Scott has become known for his dark synth-pop sound and for pushing the envelope by combining music, fashion, and queer sexuality in his videos. - [What You Need To Know About Turmeric](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/11/what-you-need-to-know-about-turmeric/): I love Indian food. The different spices from India have proven to have healing benefits for our wellness. - [Unattainable Images Perpetrated in Gay Media](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/06/unattainable-images-perpetrated-in-gay-media/): Have you ever been told you’re too fat for Grindr? A recent study from the Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity shows you’re not alone. - [Discover New Songs & Artists](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/06/discover-new-songs-artists/): I will never claim to be a music critic but I do know good music when I hear it. - [Think Twice Before Asking Me for Sex on LinkedIn](https://ovahmag.com/2016/04/03/think-twice-before-asking-me-for-sex-on-linkedin/): When was the last time you were at a professional networking reception and walked up to a good looking man you have never met before and proceeded to describe the size and dimensions of the penis you’re able to accommodate in your mouth and throat? - [A Glass of Wine Might Make You Drowsy](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/22/wine/): Have you noticed after a few glasses of wine you're ready to hit the hay? - [Anal Cancer: Are You Ready for Your Anal Pap](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/21/anal-cancer-are-you-ready-for-your-anal-pap/): Over the past decade there has been a lot of information and debate over if, how, and when to screen men for anal cancer. - [Let's Face It, Gay Men Are Aging](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/20/lets-face-it-gay-men-are-aging/): As gay men aging, we watch the years float by us; a scary time machine ride so fast that we look up and find ourselves asking, "where did the time go?" - [Latrice Royale Infuses Jazz with Pizazz](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/20/latrice-royale-infuses-jazz-with-pizazz/): RuPaul’s Drag Race Star Releases Debut Album Celebrating 100 years of Jazz, Latrice Royale, the larger than life star from RuPaul’s Drag Race, is bringing the energy and rawness of the roaring twenties back to the modern age with her debut album, “Here’s To Life.” The album developed as a natural expansion to her one-woman show of the same name. - [Is It True Gay Black Men Don't Support Each Other](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/18/is-it-true-gay-black-men-dont-support-each-other/): “Here’s to Life,” Latrice Royale's one woman show is not just a show, it’s an inspirational and uplifting journey through her life. - [Health Benefits of Bone Broth](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/14/health-benefits-of-bone-broth/): What's all the rage about bone broth and it's healing benefit for your body? - [Ways to Avoid a Same-Day Hangover](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/13/hangover/): Sunday Brunches are the highlights of Spring. It’s when we get to hang with friends, chit-chat and the only excuse we have to drink early in the day. - [The Science of 'Morning Wood'](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/11/the-science-of-morning-wood/): Men waking up with an erection is more common than you think. - [The "Gay" Culture: It's Nearly Lost](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/08/the-gay-culture-its-nearly-lost/): Kinkster Mag writer Ted Bishop Nieves recently wrote about gay icons and what it means to be a gay icon. His article hit home. - [Spring: A Time For Renewal](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/07/spring-a-time-for-renewal/): As we get ready to shed those winter coats and boots, shake the winter blues away, we know that a change of season is here. - [Years & Years](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/06/artist-spotlight-years-and-years/): Years & Years has arrived. - [The Making of a Gay Icon](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/04/the-making-of-a-gay-icon/): The other day I watched the film Auntie Mame with my boyfriend. - [Is Interracial Porn Making You a Racist](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/03/is-interracial-porn-making-you-a-racist/): Porn or no porn? As an adolescent, images in National Geographic magazine made me blush, and that wasn’t even porn. - [Gay Bears in Suits, Oh My!](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/02/gay-bears-in-suits-oh-my/): I’m a husky guy, I have facial hair, I’m masculine, and I’m gay. Some people might look at me and say that I’m a Bear. - [Alabama Shakes](https://ovahmag.com/2016/03/01/artist-spotlight-alabama-shakes/): I hope you’ve heard of them and if you haven’t, you’re in for an absolute treat. - [What If You had to Move Home to be a Caregiver](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/28/what-if-you-had-to-move-home-to-be-a-caregiver/): I’m a gay man, 46 years old who grew up in a small town in upstate New York. - [Bok Choy Nutrition and Health Benefits](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/28/bok-choy/): What is bok choy you might ask? Boy Choy is a Chinese vegetable which has grown for centuries in China. It has also been used in Chinese medicine. - [Morabito & Aviance Team Up for a New Track](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/24/morabito-aviance-team-up-for-a-new-track/): For many of us who were coming of age in the 90’s in New York City, places like Sound Factory, Twilo, and Arena provided us a venue for exposure to underground, deep house music. - [A Pro at Flirting Even In My 40's](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/21/a-pro-at-flirting-even-in-my-40s/): Here is today's bit of commentary ​on the ​social behaviors of gay men​. Being a gay man over 40 in a gay bar​ in 2016 can be​ ​​comical and quite interesting. - [Love Strange: The Best Love Story Movie for Gay Men](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/20/love-strange-the-best-love-story-movie-for-gay-men/): Ben (John Lithgow) and George (Alfred Molina) are a long-term older gay couple who marry after nearly four decades of being partners in Love is Strange. - [Artists You Didn't See at the Grammys](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/17/artist-recognition-you-didnt-see-at-the-grammys/): The Grammy Awards of 2016 is now a thing of the past. However, we should highlight a few of the performances. - [Sherry Vine and Jonny McGovern Talk Queer TV](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/12/sherry-vine-and-jonny-mcgovern-talk-queer-tv/): The Gay TV scene has definitely become more gay since the first gay character appeared on a TV sitcom in a 1971 episode of All in the Family (yes, All in the Family, if you can believe it). - [Beyoncé Pays Homage to Black Panthers](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/08/beyonce-pays-homage-to-black-panthers-during-super-bowl-performance/): Thank you Beyoncé for starting the conversation with your performance and representing a very important period in our country. - [Why You Should be Listening to Dumblonde](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/08/why-you-should-be-listening-to-the-music-group-dumblonde/): Whenever a boy band or girl group breaks up it always becomes a battle to see who will out do the other. - [Dating A Friend's Ex-Boyfriend](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/05/dating-a-friends-ex-boyfriend/): Is it appropriate for a friend to date another friend's ex-boyfriend? - [NYC's Dominican Princess, Maluca Drops New Video](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/04/nycs-dominican-princess-maluca-drops-new-music-video/): Maluca is back with a dope new track, MALA; a track that stays true to her heritage and brand; delivering “tropical punk,” “Dominican Rave” music that makes you want to get up and dance. - ['How to Be You' with Jeffrey Marsh](https://ovahmag.com/2016/02/01/learn-how-to-be-you-with-jeffrey-marsh/): Editor's Note: Jeffrey identifies as genderqueer and uses they/them as their singular pronoun. We have used “they” to refer to Jeffrey throughout. - [Is There Such A Thing... I Masturbate Too Much](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/31/is-there-such-a-thing-i-masturbate-too-much/): Can a guy masturbate too much? This is a question sexologists are faced with daily. - [Will You Be Adding Zayn Malik to Your Playlist](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/30/will-you-be-adding-zayn-malik-to-your-playlist-2/): When it comes to boy bands and girl groups, there is a shelf-life so it's not unheard of when a member gets the itch and wants to spread their wings. - [Dawn Richard Drops New Single ‘Not Above That’](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/29/dawn-richard-drops-new-single-not-above-that/): It's unfortunate when an artist's personal life and industry dramas overshadow their career; casting a dark cloud over their every move. - [Do You Want to Know Your Purpose in Life](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/26/do-you-want-to-know-your-purpose-in-life/): "Your Purpose In Life is to find your purpose, and then give your whole heart and soul to it.” - Buddha. - [Jealousy Doesn’t Exist When You Communicate](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/25/why-jealousy-doesnt-exist-when-you-communicate/): Jealousy is a bitch. - [The Health Benefit of Superfood Kale](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/23/kale/): Have you tried Kale? It is my go to greens for my smoothies, soup and my greens with my dinner. - [Crystal Meth and Sex The Ties That Bind](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/23/crystal-meth/): Imagine if you will the most intense, amazing, and powerful, mood-altering, and a mind-blowing meal of your life. - [Jack's Journey: Ever-changing Groove of House Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/14/jacks-journey-the-ever-changing-groove-of-house-music/): "In the beginning there was Jack, and Jack had a groove." Chicago. - [Calling A One-Night Stand A Year Later](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/11/calling-your-one-night-stand-a-year-later/): On a beautiful September night in NYC, minding my own business, working on a business project, I received a text message, “Hey there.” It’s never a good sign when you don’t recognize the number and the clincher was it had no name associated with it. - [Selena Gomez's Sultry Video, "Hands to Myself"](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/06/selena-gomezs-sultry-music-video-hands-to-myself/): Musically I never thought I would be listening to Selena Gomez. - [Holistic Path to Help Cure Carpal Tunnel](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/05/holistic-path-to-help-cure-carpal-tunnel/): Carpal tunnel syndrome is due to compression of the nerve that supplies motor activity and sensation to the thumb and first three fingers. - [When a Relationship Ends… It’s NOT Over!!!](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/05/when-a-relationship-ends-its-not-over-2/): When relationships end, we're handed a cultural script filled with defeat, blame, and the notion that we're somehow "broken." - [Technology Destroys Our Self-Respect](https://ovahmag.com/2016/01/04/technology-destroys-our-self-respect/): In recent years the method in which we meet potential partners has completely changed causing a major shift in the way we view relationships, how we date, and how we demonstrate love. - [FEUD: CRAWFORD Says, “I was the godd•mned Second Coming and everybody missed it.”](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/25/feud-crawford-says-i-was-the-goddmned-second-coming-and-everybody-missed-it/): You think yourself a personage, That you’ve quite the name. Until you trump mortality, What’s your great claim to fame? - [Health Benefit Of Bison Meat](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/21/health-benefit-of-bison-meat/): Do you consume conventional domestic livestock several days a week? Does your doctor tell you to limit the amount of red meat that you eat? - [Does REBAR NYC's Newest Gay Bar Have Hidden Discriminatory Business Practices?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/19/does-rebar-nycs-newest-gay-bar-have-hidden-discriminatory-business-practices/): When a new gay bar in NYC opens, it's a time to rejoice and celebrate, but the opening of REBAR has been somewhat the opposite. - [Cassius' Latest Video, 'Go UP' feat. Pharrell William is Mind-Blowing](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/18/cassius-latest-video-go-up-feat-pharrell-william-is-mind-blowing/): We are floored by Cassius' new video featuring the mind-blowing talented, Pharrell Williams and Cat Power! Opposites attract and the proof is in this new video. - [FEUD: CRAWFORD Says, “SHUT UP…JUST SHUT THE F•CK UP, CHARLOTTE”](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/18/feud-crawford-says-shut-up-charlotte/): JOAN CRAWFORD from the Novel Mommie Smearest Disses FEUD ep.7: Part 8 of a Parody Series After all of its fake news, FEUD has finally gotten one true thing right and acknowledged the giant elephant in the room—no, not Bette Davis’s ass, but I can see why you’d jump to that huge obvious conclusion. - [Facebook: Death by Algorithm: The Real Big Brother](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/18/death-by-algorithm-the-real-big-brother/): I can remember the first time I saw the film "1984". - [The Truth Is You Are Not The Only Person Concerned About THICK SPERM](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/13/thick-sperm/): Understanding your body and having a level of comfortability talking about sex is critical for a health sex life. - [The Misunderstood Social Worker Will No Longer Be Misunderstood](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/12/the-misunderstood-social-worker-will-no-longer-be-misunderstood/): Celebrity this, celebrity that is what we see feeding our news feeds but when you look closely you'll see that the real stars are the individuals using Facebook Live or Instagram to spread positivity. - [FEUD: CRAWFORD Did Porn! Says “MAYBE I DID IT FOR A LITTLE EXTRA PUBLICITY.”](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/11/feud-crawford-did-porn-says-maybe-i-did-it-for-a-little-extra-publicity/): JOAN CRAWFORD from the Novel Mommie Smearest Disses FEUD ep.6: Part 7 of a Parody Series So now FARCE FEUD thinks it’s g·dd·mned investigative FAKE NEWS 60 Minutes outing me as a porn star who later buys up her negatives. - [FEUD: Shakespeare or “RuPaul’s Drag Race”?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/04/feud-shakespeare-or-rupauls-drag-race/): JOAN CRAWFORD from the Novel Mommie Smearest Disses FEUD ep.5: Part 6 of a Parody Series A couple drama queens in heels swanning around like two Shakespearean harpies or RuPaul’s Drag Race-rs, howling and waving our arms in the air (with 1960s updates of highballs and cigarettes) while the natural process of human aging and decay continues its indifferent march. - [Spring Awakening Music: A Mix By DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/03/spring-awakening-music-a-mix-by-dj-relentless/): With hopes of spring blossoming soon I am excited about the new tracks coming down the pike. - [Dating Your Partner's Potential: What a Mistake](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/02/dating-potential/): "He has potential" is a statement we've either said or heard when dating someone. - [Marco Marco Designer Reveals the Secret to His Success](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/28/marco-marco-designer-reveals-the-secret-to-his-success/): You’ve seen his underwear (maybe you’re wearing some right now), you’ve seen his costumes (think Iggy from the EMAs, Fergie at Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, Britney Spears’ angel costume for her Vegas show, and Katy Perry’s cupcake bra) and you’ve seen the web-series in which he’s featured for the passion and excitement that go into executing a Marco Marco runway show. - [When A Friend Hides a Secret From You](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/28/when-a-friend-hides-a-secret-from-you/): Secrets and lies are a common practice in our society, just look at our current Administration. - [FEUD Goes Mommie Dearest-Lite](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/27/feud-goes-mommie-dearest-lite/): JOAN CRAWFORD Disses FEUD: Part 5 of a Parody Series. - [RuPaul and Todrick Hall, New Music and Promotion Overdrive](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/24/rupaul-and-todrick-hall-new-music-and-promotion-overdrive/): Out of all of RuPaul's new tracks, 'Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve & Talent' is the best one. - [Posing A Few Questions About Ryan Murphy's Pose](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/20/posing-a-few-questions-about-ryan-murphys-pose/): I came of age and came out in NYC during the 80’s. - [FEUD: MOMMIE DEAREST BRAND-POWER](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/20/feud-mommie-dearest-brand-power/): Dead stars here in Hollywood Heaven ask if I’m offended by my reputation as Mommie Dearest, especially since FEUD: JOAN (and bette) refreshed it for their ep. - [Meals On Wheels Serving The Elderly](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/18/meals-on-wheels-serving-the-elderly/): Are you outraged by the new administration in the White House? - [Spring Fever Can Change Your Friendships](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/15/spring-fever-can-change-your-friendships/): "Spring Fever" is a term frequently used to define a person in a relationship, restless and itching to explore when the weather breaks. - [Your Emails Are Killing You](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/15/your-emails-are-killing-you/): A couple of weeks ago, I caught an episode of The Dr. Oz Show, and the topic was so compelling, I stopped what I was doing to watch. - [Nicki Minaj and Remy Ma feud for the title of "Queen Of Hip Hop](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/15/nicki-minaj-and-remy-ma-feud-for-the-title-of-queen-of-hip-hop/): There's a FEUD going on and it's popular in the headlines these days. No, I'm not talking about the Bette Davis and Joan Crawford mini-series on FX. - [STRANGE RODEO BEDFELLOWS](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/13/strange-rodeo-bedfellows/): “Don’t F·CK with me fellas! This ain’t my first time at the rodeo. - [Imbalance in Your Lifestyle Is Affecting Your Sleep](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/12/imbalance-in-your-lifestyle-is-affecting-your-sleep/): Deep, nourishing sleep is the natural result of making choices that cultivate physical and emotional balance throughout the day. - [Nicki Minaj Responds to Remy Ma's Diss Track](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/10/nicki-minaj-responds-to-remy-mas-diss-track/): Entertainment News has been chattering for several weeks over the beef between Remy Ma and Nicki Minaj. - [Two TV Reality-Fictions: FEUD: JOAN (and bette) vs Trump’s State of Disunion](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/06/two-tv-reality-fictions-feud-joan-and-bette-vs-trumps-state-of-disunion/): Part Two of a Parody Series In the second big TV reality-fiction event within six days (Trump’s State of Disunion address to Congress was first) FEUD: JOAN (and bette) expertly presents vintage Hollywood with me swanning around in furs, diamonds, and Cadillacs just like in my real life. - [Hollywood Music: Award Season Inspired Playlist](https://ovahmag.com/2017/03/04/hollywood-music-award-season-inspired-playlist/): Not sure if the "Groundhog" saw his shadow or not, but it's been unseasonably warm for our winter months. - [The Power Of Prayer](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/28/the-power-of-prayer/): What is prayer you might be asking yourself? If you are someone who believes in a higher consciousness greater than yourself, the power of prayer will heal you. - [Advice to a Gay Soldier Returning to Civilian Life](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/28/advice-to-a-gay-soldier-returning-to-civilian-life/): Recently I had to deal with a soldier still in the military who needed a little realistic advice from me - to cool down his naive expectations about the life he wanted - as he prepared to become a civilian. - [JOAN CRAWFORD Parody-Critiques FEUD: JOAN (and bette)](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/27/joan-crawford-parody-critiques-feud-joan-and-bette/): This world is #realityfake. - [Closeted Discrimination Within the Gay Community](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/22/closeted-discrimination-within-the-gay-community/): Discrimination and racism have become a hot topic nowadays and especially within the gay community. - [Artist Pato Paez Shares How to Engage More with Art and Social Justice](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/19/artist-pato-paez-shares-how-to-engage-more-with-art-and-social-justice/): Argentinian-born Pato Paez is an artist, curator, and creative director who has built over 15 years of experience in the art world. - [Tony Moran Discusses his "Moodswings" With OVAH MAG](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/15/tony-moran/): Two-time Grammy nominated remixer, producer, singer-songwriter Tony Moran is one of the most well-known DJs in the house music genre, regularly playing to massive crowds at events throughout the world. - [Exclusive Valentine's Day Playlist from DJ Relentless #HoldTight ❤️](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/12/exclusive-valentines-day-playlist-from-dj-relentless/): So, Valentine's Day is here and I know it might be hard to focus on something romantic with all that's going on in the world. - [American Operatic Wonder Bielfield Releases "Dance Again" Feat. Courtney Act](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/11/american-operatic-wonder-bielfield-releases-dance-again-featuring-courtney-act/): Musical artists from down under seldom receive the notoriety they deserve. - [An App to Help You Stay Calm, Relax, Focus & Sleep Better](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/08/an-app-to-help-you-stay-calm-relax-focus-sleep-better/): Meditation can be challenging, and often our frustration with the process can cause us to give up too quickly. - [Davis Mallory Has the Power to Cast Spells By Using His Voice](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/07/davis-mallory-has-the-power-to-cast-spells-by-using-his-voice/): New Year, New Music and we have our finger on the pulse when it comes to music. - [The Art of Popular Culture With Alvaro Arts](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/05/the-art-of-popular-culture-with-alvaro-arts/): Alvaro of Alvaro Arts, renowned painter/illustrator particularly in the fashion and entertainment industries, recently took the time to interview with us about his works, his connections, his interests, and what’s in store in 2017, and we’re delighted to share it with you. - [Dealing With the Twisted Fate of Sex After Drugs and Alcohol](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/04/drugs-alcohol/): The after effects of alcohol or chemical addiction can be traumatizing and may create fluctuating emotions and thoughts about sex, love, friendships, and how one goes about living without the negative substance and possibility the people connected to the source of addiction. - [13 Questions To Make You Go Hmmmm](https://ovahmag.com/2017/02/01/13-questions-to-make-you-go-hmmmm/): In the 90's, Arsenio Hall coined the term, "things that make you go hmmm." - [OVAH MAG Founder, "We Will Continue to Be Inclusive & Welcome All"](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/31/ovah-mag-founder/): Dear Kinkster Brands NYC Family, As a culturally conscience website and online publication for gay men and our LGBTQ allies, and as the Founder, I cannot ignore what's happening around me. - [The New "45", Appropriation, and Hope for the Future](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/31/the-new-45-appropriation-and-hope-for-the-future/): We're only in the second month of 2017 and so much has happened in such a short time. - [What Are the Benefits of Having Faith?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/30/what-are-the-benefits-of-having-faith/): Do you believe in faith? During challenging times in our lives, we rely on faith to see us through. - [Missy Elliott Releases an Electric New Track, 'I'm Better."](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/27/missy-elliott-releases-an-electric-new-track-im-better/): At three in the morning, you never know what you might find on the internet. - [Trump's Administration Is Changing How We Use Social Media](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/24/trumps-administration-is-changing-how-we-use-social-media/): Food for thought: Fake news can have 'real world consequences.' We're all guilty. - [United We Stand, Divided We Fall](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/21/united-we-stand-divided-we-fall/): All day today, I've had to keep reminding my Facebook friends that I am NOT here to debate. We each believe what we want. - [4 Steps to Find the Right Social Media Brand Ambassador](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/19/4-steps-to-find-the-right-social-media-brand-ambassador/): We're living in a period when being a celebrity is what our youth inspire to be, and it's destroying the infrastructure of our society and how we do business. - [3 of the Healthiest Superfoods You Need in 2017](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/19/3-of-the-healthiest-superfoods-you-need-in-2017/): Happy new year, happy new you. This new year brings about more super foods for 2017 for your health and wellness. Last year, Kale was the super food of choice. - [Do You Ever Masturbate at Work?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/15/do-you-ever-masturbate-at-work/): Did you catch that recent article from Time Out New York that indicates 39 percent of office workers admit to having masturbated in the office's washroom? - [Self Forgiveness Is Essential For Healing](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/15/self-forgiveness-is-essential-for-healing/): Forgiveness is how we grow; it's also how we rid ourselves of unnecessary pain, guilt, and regret. It is always important to forgive yourself. - [6 Songs To Get You Through Hard Times](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/13/6-songs-to-get-you-through-hard-times/): Where do you find inspiration when you're struggling in life? What inspires you to keep moving through difficult times? - [How to Find Yourself When Feeling Lost](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/09/how-to-find-yourself-when-feeling-lost/): "I've lost myself" are words we're all familiar with but when you carefully examine the words, they make no sense. How can a person lose themselves? - [5 Steps to Prepare for a New Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/08/5-steps-to-prepare-for-a-new-relationship/): The new year always sparks the love bug in me, and I am not the only one. A lot of guys at the beginning of the year reflect and think about finding love. - [Why You Should Be Drinking Mint Water](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/08/why-you-should-be-drinking-mint-water/): How many times in your life have you heard that you should drink eight 8-ounce glasses of water a day? - [Good Things Come from Your F**king Potty Mouth](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/07/good-things-come-from-your-fking-potty-mouth/): At the beginning of the year, everyone likes to wipe the slate clean and rid themselves of bad habits. - [Rediscovering Your Groove Without Meth](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/07/rediscovering-your-groove-without-meth/): The aftermath of crystal meth runs deep and affects gay men in a variety of ways. Sex after crystal meth can be complicated and often the reason for a relapse. - [Rebecca Ferguson: 2017 Will Be Her Year](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/04/rebecca-ferguson-2017-will-be-her-year/): Rebecca Ferguson is a British artist I was not familiar with until her name was plastered all over the news partly because she is one artist who is willing to perform at the Trump inauguration under one condition. - [Forget 2016! A New Year Brings New Energy & Remixes](https://ovahmag.com/2017/01/03/forget-2016-a-new-year-brings-new-energy-remixes/): 2017 has finally begun! Thank God! I don't think I could stand another minute of last year. - [The Best Workout for Your Zodiac Sign](https://ovahmag.com/2016/12/29/the-best-workout-for-your-zodiac-sign/): Everyone talks about joining the gym for the new year, but it's not always the easiest thing to do. - [2016 Year In Music With DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2016/12/14/2016-year-in-music-with-dj-relentless/): 2016 was a rough year for most. Racism, homophobia, sexism, ageism, and that was just Donald Trump's campaign for president. - [An Exclusive with inkedKenny, A Man Seen Through Our Lens](https://ovahmag.com/2016/12/05/an-exclusive-with-inkedkenny-a-man-seen-through-our-lens/): If you haven’t seen our new Kinkster NYC storyboard photos yet, you’re in for a huge treat! - [No More Mistakes With TEXTING & DATING](https://ovahmag.com/2016/12/02/texting-and-dating/): Texting is no longer a trend but a way of life. - [DJ of 2016: Mark DeMarko](https://ovahmag.com/2016/11/29/dj-of-2016-mark-demarko-music/): Naming Mark DeMarko "DJ of 2016" is our way of acknowledging the ability of an individual to elevate us with music, their beats, and their ability to create a dance party whether we're on a dance floor in a club or dancing nude in our own living room. - [New World Order: Trump Wins The Election (Exclusive Music Mix)](https://ovahmag.com/2016/11/09/new-world-order-trump-wins-the-election-exclusive-music-mix/): I know that there are plenty of U.S. citizens who are cheering and applauding this day….I am not one of them. - [Beyonce's CMA Performance Spurs Racist Backlash](https://ovahmag.com/2016/11/05/beyonces-cma-performance-spurs-racist-backlash/): Over the past two decades with the rise of social media, now more than ever recording artists have to raise their profiles even higher to get noticed and stay on the charts. - [Michael Musto Among Legendary Cast of “Vamp Bikers Tres”](https://ovahmag.com/2016/11/01/michael-musto-among-legendary-cast-of-vamp-bikers-tres/): Just in time for Halloween, some infamous, kinky, and legendary cast members including Michael Musto, Ron Jeremy, Michael Alig, and Lilo Brancato appear in the third installment in the gonzo shock horror trilogy “Vamp Bikers Tres” premiering on October 26. - [Interview with Ships Have Sailed Frontman Will Carpenter](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/31/interview-with-ships-have-sailed-frontman-will-carpenter/): Kinkster MAG has been following Ships Have Sailed for some time but only recently were we prepared to interview the band with Will Carpenter as its lead. - [#4EverHard: Naturally Increasing Testosterone](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/29/4everhard-naturally-increasing-testosterone/): Testosterone is often used to identify a man's power, manhood, sex drive, and strength. - [Exclusive Feature with "Don’t Marry Griff" Film Director](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/29/exclusive-feature-with-dont-marry-griff-film-director/): Relationships are entertaining and they can be complex! They come with rewards, responsibilities, and risks. - [Willam Taught Me How To Suck Less and Now it's Your Turn](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/24/willam-taught-me-how-to-suck-less-and-now-its-your-turn/): Lately, I have no luck meeting a guy who doesn't suck but who can suck like a pro (wink, wink). That may be crass, but it's true. - [#Outcome (LGBT) - A Series of Photos that Tell a Story](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/22/outcome-lgbt-a-series-of-photos-that-tell-a-story/): "Behind every mask, there is a face and behind that a story." - [Tony Moran and Jason Walker Release New Music, “Say Yes”](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/20/tony-moran-and-jason-walker-release-new-music-say-yes/): Tony Moran and Jason Walker climbed all the way to #1 on Billboard this summer with their hands-in-the-air single, “So Happy.” Today, they’re out with their next single and music video for Fall, "Say Yes” directed by Karl Giant. - [Amp Up Your Productivity at Work with Dance Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/17/amp-up-your-productivity-at-work-with-dance-music/): I've been told listening to classical music, like Mozart, makes you smarter but I am happy to say, that's only partially correct. - [Female Rapper DEVMO Set to Dominate in 2017](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/16/female-rapper-devmo-set-to-dominate-in-2017/): On the release of her latest single and music video "Wah Wah Wah", I got a chance to learn more about up and coming talented female rap artist DEVMO who is pushing the boundaries, in good ways. - [Depression is a Beast but it's Not the End of Happiness](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/16/depression-is-a-beast-but-its-not-the-end-of-happiness/): Depression is a beast! It's the silent killer of our joy. We never know when it's going to hit and when it hits some of us, it's like cement in the sky. - [Interview with “Daddy’s Boy” Director Daniel Armando](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/14/interview-with-daddys-boy-director-daniel-armando/): Daddy’s Boy is the latest film release from the innovative studio Novo Novus. - [One-Night-Stands No Longer Anonymous Explained 101](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/08/one-night-stands-anonymous/): Before the age of online dating and social networking apps, gay bars were the go-to place for gay men to meet other gay men and potentially hook-up. - [Politics Meets Pop Culture Music](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/05/politics-meets-pop-culture-music/): As we are getting closer and closer to election day in the United States, it's kinda hard to focus on anything else…since this is such an important one. - [A Seat At The Table by Solange is My New Obsession](https://ovahmag.com/2016/10/03/a-seat-at-the-table-by-solange-is-my-new-obsession/): When you have a famous sister like Beyonce, establishing your individual identity is crucial to keeping your self-expression separate from the shadows of someone so well-known. - [HIV Stigma and Barebacking, When Activists Fail](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/25/hiv-stigma-and-barebacking-when-activists-fail/): We were recently taken aback by an anonymous fan’s email to Kinkster MAG. - [Jack'd Leads Change with #ChangeTheGame Campaign](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/22/jackd-leads-change-with-changethegame-campaign/): Earlier this year we interviewed the executives at the gay app Jack’d who candidly discussed their intentions to lead conversations within the gay community to combat negativity, racism, and sexism. - [What is Cupping?](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/19/what-is-cupping/): Did you watch the Olympics last month? Our amazing olympic athletes did an amazing job winning the most medals for the USA. - [The Rise of the Dibling, Donor-Conceived Siblings](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/18/the-rise-of-the-dibling-donor-conceived-siblings/): The number is unknown, but upwards of 60,000 donor conceived births take place every year. - ['Mommie Smearest': High Camp with a Message](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/15/review-of-mommie-smearest-high-camp-with-a-message/): From the moment I picked up my Kindle and started to dig into MOMMIE SMEAREST: See Joan Crawford In Bitch Selfie Ain’t Make You No Movie Star, the fake posthumous autobiography of Joan Crawford, I knew I was going to be lost in a campy, catty, silly story. - [The Last Dance Party of Summer](https://ovahmag.com/2016/09/07/the-last-dance-party-of-summer/): So, summer is over. - [Tyler Perry is Failing Gay Black Men](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/31/tyler-perry-is-failing-gay-black-men/): Mainstream media continues to use visceral stereotypes of black gay men; images that are degrading and feed into the perception that the black gay community has not evolved. - [And Then There Were 3+, Polyamory Working Towards Legal Protection](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/25/and-then-there-were-3-polyamory-working-towards-legal-protection/): We’ve recently written about the conundrums of marriage and open relationships, and differences in sex drives when you’re in a monogamous relationship, and lately I have been exploring polyamory which has been all the rage this year. - [Legendary Kevin Aviance is RAW](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/21/legendary-kevin-aviance-is-raw/): Summer is coming to a close, and it's been an interesting couple of months because I caught up with several friends from my past and met some new friends including a few from Facebook. - [Male Singers Who Should Dominate Your Playlists](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/19/male-singers/): Music playlists are no longer trendy. They have become an expression of our character and who we are. - [Rediscovering Gay Bars but without the Alcohol](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/18/rediscovering-gay-bars-but-without-the-alcohol/): Bars have always been a place for me to socialize with close friends and catch up on the week’s activities, listen to music, dance, meet others, and just let my hair down. - [How to Handle Sexual Drive Differences in a Monogamous Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/15/sexual-drive/): OVAH MAG reader James, recently asked for our thoughts on the effect to a relationship when individuals in a couple have differing sex drives. - [Hot Releases from Trap to Hip Hop to Pop to Club](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/14/hot-releases-from-trap-to-hip-hop-to-pop-to-club/): I have to say that this summer has been hotter than two sissies in a prison camp on a Friday night...and that's pretty hot! - [The Internet Ruined My Life](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/10/the-internet-ruined-my-life/): Can your life change when you go viral online? - [Celeb Event Producer Brandon Voss Chats with OVAH MAG](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/04/brandon-voss/): In light of the shooting massacre at the Pulse Nightclub in Orlando in June we wanted to learn a bit more of what's going on with safety and security at clubs and large events. - [Top Clubland Artists Remix "High" as Tribute Single Benefitting Orlando Pulse Victims](https://ovahmag.com/2016/08/01/top-clubland-artists-remix-high-as-tribute-single-benefitting-orlando-pulse-victims/): Senseless acts of violence in our country have become all too common in recent months. - [Sizzling Hot Tracks You Can't Miss This Summer](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/25/sizzling-hot-tracks-you-cant-miss-this-summer/): It's a hot summer out there and there are some hot tracks out there as well. And as the temperatures rise so does the length of my playlist as well. - [Trump's Support of LGBTQs Out of Sync with GOP Platform](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/25/trumps-support-of-lgbtqs-out-of-sync-with-gop-platform/): Now that the RNC is over, I had to step back and give a little more thought to the 24/7 blitz of sound bites coming across social media and the news outlets during the convention and prepare myself for the Democratic Convention this week. - [Attraction Along the Masculinity Spectrum](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/20/attraction-along-the-masculinity-spectrum/): BuzzFeed just had me considering “7 Situations That Test What You Find Attractive In a Man.” This was quite the interesting little survey. - [Coming to Terms with Your Moral Compass](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/20/coming-to-terms-with-your-moral-compass/): What is your moral compass and where is it taking you? Lately, this notion has taken many of us on a roller coaster ride. - [Music In The Age of Twitter](https://ovahmag.com/2016/07/19/music-in-the-age-of-twitter/): When I was growing up in the late 70’s and early 80’s one of my favorite things to do was to hunt down information about my favorite musicians. - [DJ Mike James Makes You Wet with 'After Hours'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/13/dj-mike-james-makes-you-wet-with-after-hours/): When I think of going out, like most people, what I am going to wear is one of the first things that comes to mind. - [Some Quality Foods To Boost Male Health](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/12/some-quality-foods-to-boost-male-health/): Men are breadwinners in most families and therefore they need to be in good health. - [2K18 DJ on Rise, Bio Zounds Drops First of 4 Exclusive Podcasts for Kinkster MAG](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/11/2k18-dj-on-rise-biozounds-drops-first-of-4-exclusive-podcasts-for-kinkster-mag/): Towards the end of the 2K17, we decided to feature, interview, and spotlight talented DJs locally and around the world because it's important to recognize a group of creative individuals, men, and women, who are often under-appreciated. - [It's Time to Stand Up, a song written by Amuka and Guy Scheiman](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/08/its-time-to-stand-up-a-song-written-by-amuka-and-guy-scheiman/): Stand Up and Be Free are potent lyrics especially when the state of humanity is currently imbalanced and faced with a lot of uncertainty. - [RuPaul, Transwomen & Pop Culture](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/07/rupaul-transwomen-pop-culture/): Dear Jade, I know you are not a fan of RuPaul or Drag Race, but I was curious what you thought about the controversy of his comments about transsexuals in the competition for the show? - [Part 3: A Journey Into Plant-Based Eating](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/07/part-3-a-journey-into-plant-based-eating/): “This magical, marvelous food on our plate, this sustenance we absorb, has a story to tell. It has a journey. It leaves a footprint. - [DJ Relentless' Temperature's Rising Playlist Picks](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/06/dj-relentless-temperatures-rising-playlist-picks/): Time is flyin'! It's already March. Hopefully, spring is not too far behind. We've got a lot of music to get to….so let's do it! - [Legendary Recording Artist Jade Elektra Returns with her Latest Single 'Basic Bitch'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/02/legendary-recording-artist-jade-elektra-returns-with-her-latest-single-basic-bitch/): Snatch your wigs and pearls, because Lady Kinkster, Ms. Jade Elektra is snatched and showing "Basic Bitches" the front door. - [Find Out Now, Does Size Really Matter?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/28/size-matter/): Do size and shape really matter? - [Dear Diary...You listening?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/28/dear-diary-you-listening-2/): I love when I find music organically because when I share it, you know I genuinely like it or love it. - [Dear Diary...You listening?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/28/dear-diary-you-listening/): I love when I find music organically because when I share it, you know I genuinely like it or love it. - [Learn New Holistic Alternatives To The Flu Vaccine](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/28/flu-vaccine/): This season, according to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, is the worst flu season since the 2009 swine flu. - [Gay Sons and Mothers Founder Interviews Corey Wesley](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/27/corey-wesley/): Gay Sons and Mothers emerged out of my fascination with the emotional bond between so many gay men and their moms. - ['Racism in Gay Dating?!?' Will it Ever Go Away?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/27/racism-in-gay-dating-will-it-ever-go-away/): As an African-American Black Gay male, I have experienced "I don't date black men" or even worse, I've seen dozens of profiles with "NO BLACKS" plastered on them, and it is true, white gay men (NOT ALL), will defend their right to post that on their profiles because it's their so-called, "preference." - [Flak Sack, Leader of the Pack](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/26/flak-sack/): In August 2016 I wrote "TrustBag vs. - [DJs Don't Get Screwed, Get a Contract](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/22/djs-dont-get-screwed-get-a-contract/): So you have graduated from being considered a “bedroom DJ.” Although some claim that as soon as you get some sort of pay you are considered to be a ‘professional DJ’, I do not personally agree with that statement. - [Part Two - A Journey Into Plant-Based Eating](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/17/part-two-a-journey-into-plant-based-eating/): “This magical, marvelous food on our plate, this sustenance we absorb, has a story to tell. It has a journey. It leaves a footprint. It leaves a legacy. - [Meet Tyler Mount: An Advocate, Broadway Influencer, And A Youthful Inspiration](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/11/meet-tyler-mount-an-advocate-broadway-influencer-and-a-youthful-inspiration/): Tyler Mount's effervescent video blog interviews have led him to be named one of Broadway's biggest influencers, and there are no signs of him slowing down. - [Broadway's Shoshana Bean's Voice illuminates On New Album 'Spectrum'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/11/broadways-shoshana-beans-voice-illuminates-on-new-album-spectrum/): New York City's vibrations and sounds are some of the best things about living and breathing in NYC. - [Deep Winter Sounds With DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/06/deep-winter-sounds-with-dj-relentless/): It's February and I knew we were gonna be in for a cold winter this year. And Mother Nature is not joking! - [Jade Elektra & Black Cinema](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/05/jade-elektra-and-black-cinema/): Dear Jade, I follow you on Facebook. I noticed that you are planning to celebrate Black History Month by watching different movies, films or documentaries. - [Snoop Dogg previews his new gospel album 'Bible of Love'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/05/snoop-dogg-previews-his-new-gospel-album-bible-of-love/): Believe it or not, Snoop Dogg is mixing rap and gospel, and it's very impactful. - [Bitch Tracks & Cunty Beats](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/05/bitch-tracks-cunty-beats/): Dear Miss Jade, I was looking up your music and I saw that some call it Bitch Tracks and others call it Cunty Beats. What's the difference? - ['Black Panther' is Outselling Every Previous Superhero Film in Advance Ticket Sales](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/03/black-panther-is-outselling-every-previous-superhero-film-in-advance-ticket-sales/): Black Panther is the movie to see and the movie to support because we finally are going to see a cast full of American and African actors playing characters who are Black Kings, Queens, and Warriors. - [A Journey Into Plant-Based Eating](https://ovahmag.com/2018/02/01/a-journey-into-plant-based-eating/): Part 1 Through a three-part series, I’m going to layout some simple plans on how you can begin your journey into plant-based eating. - [Aja Sashays Over to Season Six Premiere of Hey Qween](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/30/aja-sashays-over-to-season-six-premiere-of-hey-qween/): Are you ready for some HOT T? Brooklyn queen Aja's first stop is the very pink couch on the season six premiere of Hey Qween which was aired on Out.com. - [Black Panther: Black History Month at The Movies](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/30/black-panther-black-history-month-at-the-movies/): As a 45-year-old African-American man, the release of the "Black Panther" brings joy and tears to my eyes because I am so excited for the young black boys and girls who will grow up seeing themselves on the big screen as a superhero, and not a cheesy one either. - [Is Valentine's Day for Lovers Only?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/29/is-valentines-day-for-lovers-only/): I popped into Duane Reade recently and that candy isle filled with pink and red hearts has reappeared. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. - [Garek: Save the Queen](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/23/garek/): Having grown up a small-town boy from Wisconsin, Garek moved to the Big Apple to pursue and develop his artistic talents. - [Zhana Roiya Returns to the Dance Floor with 'U Sexy Mutha U'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/22/zhana-roiya-returns-to-the-dance-floor-with-u-sexy-mutha-u/): The other day I was scrolling through my selfies and the first thing I thought to myself, "U Sexy Mutha U!" - [What Are Your Intentions For 2018](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/20/what-are-your-intentions-for-2018/): The late Wayne Dyer said, "Our intention creates our reality." Go create your reality -- no resolutions, only intentions. Happy New Year, Happy New You. - [Boxers NYC Expands to Newly Gentrified Neighborhoods](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/20/boxers-nyc/): The bar that started as a sports concept with staff wearing boxer underwear has turned into four successful venues with a fifth one on the way later this year. - [REBAR Co-Owner Franco DiLuzio Talks About Nightlife And The Bar Business](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/17/franco-diluzio/): As a native New Yorker, I'm a little bias when it comes to NYC and gay nightlife. NYC is one of the best places to mix and mingle. - [THE POSSIBILITIES OF LOVE Tip: Make Yourself Available](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/14/love-3/): When we first meet that new “someone”, we are excited, enamored and jazzed about the possibilities of a beautiful love affair and all that it has to offer. - [Why You Should Trust Your Gut](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/14/why-you-should-trust-your-gut/): Experiencing a feeling without physical evidence is not odd, it's what my mother would say is, "a gut feeling." - [Me Too, Dealing with the Difficulties of Sexual Harassment](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/09/me-too-dealing-with-the-difficulties-of-sexual-harassment/): Sexual harassment is a hot topic today. It's something I've been hearing and reading about for the last several weeks. - [How to Win Over Your Audience At Every Performance](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/09/how-to-win-over-your-audience-at-every-performance/): DRAG TIP #2 If being a female impersonator is what you desire to do professionally make sure that your music is of the highest in sound quality. - [DJ Relentless: 2018 Music Express](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/09/dj-relentless-2018-music-express/): Welcome to 2018! It's a new year and time for a new outlook. I believe like most I spent the last year angry and slightly depressed. - [People Don't Change, They Evolve](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/07/people-dont-change-they-evolve/): Proclaiming New Year's resolutions ought to be removed from everyone's consciousness starting today! - [Twisted Dee Martello's Mixes Will Make You Get Up and Dance](https://ovahmag.com/2018/01/04/twisted-dee-martello/): DJs send mixes to OVAH MAG all the time. Some we like yet some we can't groove to because there is some element missing. - [Remember & Reflect: My Life in Songs](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/31/remember-reflect-my-life-in-songs/): A year-end ritual of mine is to listen to my favorite empowering songs. These songs are from the good and bad of my life. - [DJ Brett Oosterhaus: 'The Boy Is Mine' Remix, A Kinkster's Deviant Critic's Pick](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/29/dj-brett-oosterhaus-the-boy-is-mine-remix-a-kinksters-deviant-critics-pick1/): It's NOT even 2K18 yet, and I'm already collecting a long list of names of DJs to follow, and damn; I love it! - [Turn Up the Volume: OVAH DJs for 2K18](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/28/djs-2018/): When I first thought about featuring a DJ on Kinkster MAG, I never realized the magnitude of the impact it would have. - [Sashay Your Ass Forward with DJ Nesto's 'Something Old, Something New'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/19/sashay-your-ass-forward-with-dj-nestos-something-old-something-new/): Out with the old, and in with the new is a saying we hear regularly this time of year. However, it reminds me of another saying, easier said than done. - [Amanda Lepore Releases First Single from Upcoming EP](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/18/amanda-lepore-releases-first-single-from-upcoming-ep/): Amanda Lepore is releasing the first single from her soon-to-be-released LEPORE. album today. - [DJ RELENTLESS 2017 REWIND MIX](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/14/relentless-2017-rewind-mix/): 2017 was so packed with events, news items, political views and of course music that it was really difficult to capture it and express it in 2 hours and 15 minutes. - [DJ Relentless: Before We Say Goodbye Playlist](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/11/dj-relentless-before-we-say-goodbye-playlist/): You know, last year about this time I believe most of us were exhausted from such a long election and an outcome that we are still reeling from. - [Exclusive Interview with Michael Lucas](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/03/michael-lucas/): Michael Lucas has reached a new milestone, 20 years in the adult industry. - [What Does PrEP Mean for Condom Use?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/12/03/ask-jade-what-does-prep-mean-for-condom-use/): Dear Jade, I was talking with a friend about a facebook post. It read "PrEP doesn't prevent other STI(s). - [2017 American Music Awards: DJ Relentless Recap](https://ovahmag.com/2017/11/20/2017-american-music-awards-dj-relentless-recap/): So, for many gay men of a certain age, this year's American Music Awards was a "must see" event last. - [#doyouevenunicorn Made Us Unicorn Believers](https://ovahmag.com/2017/11/16/doyouevenunicorn-made-us-unicorn-believers1/): Do you believe in unicorns? If not, well it's time to start. - [Rob Smith Discusses 'Confessions of a Don't Ask Don't Tell Soldier'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/11/15/rob-smith-discusses-confessions-of-a-dont-ask-dont-tell-soldier/): Of the belief that the military would be a way of finding a better life from his small town in Akron, Ohio, Rob Smith enlisted in the military. - [10 Gay Club Scene Tracks to Keep Your Rump Shankin'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/11/09/10-gay-club-scene-tracks-to-keep-your-rump-shankin/): Sex, Drugs, and Rock & Roll, a phrase often associated with hard partying, down and dirty sex, and head banging music are not far from the truth. - [Bio Zounds Named 2K18 DJ on the Rise](https://ovahmag.com/2017/11/05/bio-zounds-named-dj-on-the-rise-2k18/): From Puerto Rico but based in Brooklyn, NYC, Bio Zounds is Kinkster MAG’s DJ on the Rise. - [Rilan Opens Our Ears to the Perversion of Beauty with #MoneyTalk](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/31/rilan-opens-our-ears-to-the-perversion-of-beauty-with-moneytalk/): American singer, dancer, and actor Rilan is passionate about using his freedom of expression to present the challenging issues faced today. - [DJ Relentless: Everything Old Is New Again](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/30/dj-relentless-everything-old-is-new-again/): It’s so hard to believe that 2017 is almost over. With all the headlines and disasters (natural and unnatural) the time flew by. - [What Is Your Orgasm Face?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/27/what-is-your-orgasm-face/): Our orgasm face is something we either are embarrassed by or struggle to hide during a climax, an intense moment. - [Mike Ruiz Chats about New HeartThrobs and Hounds 2018 Calendar](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/25/mike-ruiz-chats-about-new-heartthrobs-and-hounds-2018-calendar/): Being philanthropic is often based on your personal experiences. - [Foods To Fight Depression](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/23/foods-fight-depression/): Do you ever feel sad, anxious, have a feeling of hopelessness, or pessimism? - [STOP Talking About Your Ex!](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/23/stop-talking-about-your-ex/): When you're on a date, and you’re archaically waiting for the ultimate-date question of death something is wrong. - [Trans Artist Epiphany Mattel Releases Explosive New Single, #FIXYOFACE](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/16/trans-artist-epiphany-mattel-releases-explosive-new-single-fixyoface/): Just over two years ago Kinkster MAG interviewed drag sensation Latrice Royale who shared with us her plans to move into talent management. - [Becoming Friends with Your Ex Ain't Easy but is Possible](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/15/becoming-friends-with-your-ex-aint-easy-but-is-possible/): Becoming besties with your ex can be painful and complicated at first but the payoff can be great. - [Eva Mueller: The Journey to 1 Portrait A Day for 365 Days](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/08/eva-mueller-the-journey-to-1-portrait-a-day-for-365-days/): It takes a terrific artist to commit to a long-term project. Bavarian born and bred Eva Mueller is one such terrific artist. - [Sober Up Fast](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/06/sober-up-fast/): You are out drinking and having a great time with friends when you stumble and fall or begin to slur your words. - [The Music of Indian Summer, Exclusive Mix by DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/04/the-music-of-indian-summer-exclusive-mix-by-dj-relentless/): There's a lot going on. So, welcome to "Indian Summer". Unseasonably warm temperatures for this time of year are really effecting all of us. - [An Exclusive: FEELIN' A LITTLE CUNTY with Jade Elektra & Erik Elias](https://ovahmag.com/2017/10/02/an-exclusive-feelin-a-little-cunty-with-jade-elektra-erik-elias/): Jade Elektra holds back next to nothing as she shares intriguing stories about her 20 plus years as a performer and one of her latest creative endeavors the return of “How Do I Look? - [Health Benefits of Apple Cider Vinegar](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/28/apple-cider-vinegar/): For over a century, people have been using apple cider vinegar to lose weight, and help with their health and wellness. - ['Wig Out' Reading Captivates and Uplifts](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/27/wig-out-reading-captivates-and-uplifts/): NYC has so much to offer, and if you love the arts, this is the perfect place to lose yourself and escape into the tales of storytelling. - [Fergie Creates Expressive Music Through Her Heartache and Pain](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/25/fergie-creates-expressive-music-through-her-heartache-and-pain/): Music is an expression of living, loving, sadness, and happy moments we all feel! Fergie's new CD is raw, touching and top-charting. - [SOFI TUKKER Is the New York-Based Duo You Should Be Listening To](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/18/sofi-tukker-is-the-new-york-based-duo-you-should-be-listening-to/): Cruising down the highway, "I don't give a f*ck about they" are the kind of lyrics that will have you pumping the brakes or souped up. - [Raw Sexy Spiritual, A Dynamic Duo Telling it Like it Is](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/18/raw-sexy-spiritual-a-dynamic-duo-telling-it-like-it-is/): New York City provides ample access for connecting with others. - [The Hound's Debut Single Is Here: 'Can’t Let You Go'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/17/the-hounds-debut-single-is-here-cant-let-you-go/): I'm asked to listen to music regularly, and sometimes I overlook artists who should have my undivided attention. - [Crystal Waters Transforms Music and Beauty Into Men's Skin Care Line](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/16/crystal-waters-transforms-music-and-beauty-into-mens-skin-care-line/): It’s amazing where people find themselves over the years. - [Lambda Vodka, Raised from Community, Passion, and Entrepreneurial Spirit](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/13/lambda-vodka/): Born from the community, for all communities, Lambda Vodka is one of the latest vodka brands to hit the scene. - [Electro-Pop Artist Rilan Gets NYC's Stamp Of Approval](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/13/electro-pop-artist-rilan-gets-nycs-stamp-of-approval/): This past Friday night, electro-pop artist Rilan took over the Style Fashion Week runway at the Intrepid Museum. - [Stalkers Beware of Jack'd 4.0](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/07/stalkers-beware-of-jackd-4-0/): Safety and privacy have always been concerns of mine when using hook up apps like Grindr, Scruff, and Jack'd. - [Ross Mullan Warmly Welcomes New Role in Shocking 'Perpetual'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/05/ross-mullan-warmly-welcomes-new-role-in-shocking-perpetual/): “The German”, the chilling 2011 horror/suspense novel by Lee Thomas, a Bram Stoker and two-time Lambda Literary Award winner, is about to become a feature film. - [Rambunctious AAA Girls to Take North America by Storm](https://ovahmag.com/2017/09/01/rambunctious-aaa-girls-to-take-north-america-by-storm/): Whether you like it or not, drag is big business. - [END OF THE SUMMER? DJ Relentless Has A PLAYLIST FOR YOU!](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/31/end-of-the-summer-dj-relentless-has-a-playlist-for-you/): As we approach what is considered the end of summer, this is actually one of my favorite times of the year. Why? - [5 Reasons You Should Be Watching Kuntergrau](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/30/5-reasons-you-should-be-watching-kuntergrau/): Move over Noah’s Arc and Queer as Folk, Kuntergrau has arrived. - [Nile Rodgers & Tony Moran Feat. Kimberly Davis - "My Fire"](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/29/nile-rodgers-tony-moran-feat-kimberly-davis-my-fire/): When you put Nile Rodgers, Tony Moran together and the voice of an angel like Kimberly Davis, you get a dance track that is on fire. - [Ricky Rebel Is Delivering Rare Candy For All To Enjoy](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/26/ricky-rebel-is-delivering-rare-candy-for-all-to-enjoy/): April 21, 2016, will forever be remembered as the day we lost an icon, a voice that is distinctive in the music industry, a voice and sound that would be hard to replicate. - [Is Drinking Saki Good for You?](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/26/is-drinking-saki-good-for-you/): The other day for some reason I was in the mood for sake. - [Celebrate National Rum Day With Kinkster MAG](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/16/celebrate-national-rum-day-with-kinkster-mag/): August 16th is a day to celebrate. Not only is it a Kinkster MAG Co-owner's birthday, it's the day to say hip, hip, hooray for National Rum Day. - [Summer Sun And Skin Cancer](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/12/summer-sun-and-skin-cancer/): The heat is on. Summer is in full swing and the sun is blazing hot. - [The Real Deal, An Interview with Michelle Visage](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/08/the-real-deal-an-interview-with-michelle-visage/): Well known for her long standing role as the no-nonsense-giving-you-tough-love judge on the extremely popular Emmy Award nominated RuPaul's Drag Race, Michelle Visage is also a long-time and ardent LGBTQ ally who has her hands in many endeavors. - [DJ Relentless' Hot and Sticky Music Mix](https://ovahmag.com/2017/08/06/dj-relentless-hot-and-sticky-music-mix/): It's been a hot, wet and sticky summer so far. - [Filmmaker Jake Wilson Breaks the Rules with His Latest Lip-Synch Parody](https://ovahmag.com/2017/07/18/filmmaker-jake-wilson-breaks-the-rules-with-his-latest-lip-synch-parody/): You never know what you'll find or see when browsing the internet. - [Can You Really Find LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT](https://ovahmag.com/2017/07/18/love-at-first-sight/): I've been thinking about the idea of love at first sight recently and whether or not it's possible. - [A Stank-Ass Remix to Make Your Pu*sy Wet](https://ovahmag.com/2017/07/12/a-stank-ass-remix-to-make-your-pusy-wet/): Music is the center of my universe and the source of my inspiration. Weekly I search for dance tracks, my favorite genre to shake up my creative juices. - [A Super-Feel-Good Mix for the Summer by DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2017/07/03/a-super-feel-good-mix-for-the-summer-by-dj-relentless/): I don't know about you, but I am tired of hearing bad news and feeling down. It's summer, dammit! - [Michael Alago's Journey Has Been and Still Is Fabulous](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/28/michael-alagos-journey-has-been-and-still-is-fabulous/): You’re in a bar, or club, or music venue, or event and you see that guy you saw yesterday, last week, and the week before that, and you wondered, who the f**ck is that guy. - [Music Bear Cuts the "Static" with New Release](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/27/music-bear-cuts-the-static-with-new-release/): We ask talented Music Bear Tony Banks six quick questions as he releases a new single along with a music video for “Static” off his upcoming album “Yes Homo”. - [Inaya Day Brings Us Love This Summer](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/23/inaya-day-brings-us-love-this-summer/): You know that voice. - [Shea Couleé Surprises Fans By Dropping 3 New Songs & Videos](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/23/shea-coulee-surprises-fans-by-dropping-3-new-songs-videos/): Hold up, wait a minute, let Shea Couleé put some beats up in it. - [TALKING ABOUT YOUR EX IN YOUR BEDROOM: What A Mistake!](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/20/talking-about-the-ex/): Hook-up apps and websites have made it easier to find sex than love, but have they improved the quality of sex we are having? - [Kinkster MAG Pride Mix 2017](https://ovahmag.com/2017/06/11/kinkster-mag-pride-mix-2017/): Last year we were all devastated by the news of the Pulse Nightclub shooting in Orlando. - [A Hot Mix You Need to Hear, June Ear Candy Mix by DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2017/05/31/a-hot-mix-you-need-to-hear-june-ear-candy-mix-by-dj-relentless/): We go into this month with the loss of a 90s icon, two different beefs come to a head, and Julia Michaels has some issues. - [Latest Music Picks For A Hot Month from DJ Relentless!](https://ovahmag.com/2017/05/01/latest-music-picks-for-a-hot-month-from-dj-relentless/): So, it's been one hundred days of "The Great Pumpkin" in office. - [Ron Amato On the Release of his Photo Book 'The Box'](https://ovahmag.com/2017/04/28/ron-amato-on-the-release-of-his-photo-book-the-box/): For the second year in a row, Ron Amato, respected New York photographer and professor at the Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT) was named in the Advocate‘s annual Best in Photography issue. - [I'm HIV+: Sex Never Became My Weapon](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/17/im-hiv/): After hearing the words, "Your HIV test came back positive", many have a moment of denial. Some never recover. To the point that they never seek treatment, and keep an HIV diagnosis as the death sentence it once was - [The Secret of Successful SEXUAL HEALTH is WALKING](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/17/sexual-health-walking/): If you're looking for an easy way to help prevent erectile dysfunction, look no further than your own two feet. - [At Last, The Secret To LOVE Is Revealed](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/15/at-last-the-secret-to-love-is-revealed/): The newness of love is always exciting. You just can't wait to hear from or see that person. The time in between seems long as you wait in anticipation for the next time you are together. - [“No” Is A Complete Sentence](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/14/no/): The statement "No is a complete sentence" is something I embraced seconds after hearing it from Judith Orloff, a renowned writer on the spiritual awakening of oneself. - [Picture Your NEW RELATIONSHIPS On Top. Read This And Make It So](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/11/new-relationships/): You are the only person who can make "YOU" happy. I want this to be a reminder that your reality is created because of YOU and not because of someone else. - [BHuman Beat "Goodbye" into their Insecurities](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/11/bhuman/): BHuman has its beginnings in the separate musical careers of New York-based music producer Harrison Scott and UK Musician Billie Lloyd. The duo crossed paths in New York City in 2015 when they quickly bonded over shared niche musical references and eventually pooled their talents together to form BHuman. - [Spicy Fun Greeting Cards](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/08/greeting-cards/): Rickie wants My Poet is a Pervert to be known for creating interesting content, building community, and campaigns where donations are made to charities off the proceeds of select cards. - [Interview With Music Producer DJ James Anthony](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/07/dj-james-anthony/): I am becoming more and more fascinated with the role of the music producer. There are a plethora of music producers whose names we recognize but what about the unsung heroes in music, like DJ James Anthony. Learn more about this talented music producer. - [8 Safety Tips for Hooking Up Online](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/04/hooking-up-online/): Hooking-up and safety have been a constant nag of mine since the Jussie Smollett debacle because hooking up has become a way of life. In the new age of technology and hook-up apps, I've noticed that our safety is not even part of the equation most of the times. We take for granted that we're always meeting someone with positive intentions. - [Tina DeCara: A Songstress with an Intoxicating Voice](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/25/tina-decara/): Tina DeCara grew up on Long Island with her parents and two brothers. She began singing and songwriting in high school, drawing inspiration from the likes of David Bowie, Lady Gaga, and Amy Winehouse. While her friends were not supportive of her superstar dreams, her family encouraged her to follow her passion. - [The Karma of "Preference"](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/25/the-karma-of-preference/): Then there’s the smack by Karma in which after disregarding one or more shades of people of color in their “young & beautiful” days that they finally decide to find those once disregarded shades worthy of their time. Then that person of color has one of two choices. - [Meet the DJ With The MAGIC TOUCH:Ted Bishop Nieves](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/17/dj-ted-bishop-nieves/): DJ Ted Nieves has a strong passion for music and his craft as a DJ. He has become a very important part of the gay community here in New York City. We're happy to recognize this superb DJ. You're in for the ride of your life. Enjoy our interview and special mix created specifically for this interview. - [Mr. NJ Leather 2019: People of Color + BDSM](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/17/mr-nj-leather-2019-interview/): Whatever your kink, fetish, sexual proclivity, or identity, there is a community for you. All you have to do is explore and find ways to connect. Corey Wesley recently interviewed the thoughtful and thought-provoking Mr. NJ Leather, Lynx, to learn more about finding and building community, particularly for men of color in the leather community. - [Does Top Owens Pass OVAH MAG Shoe Freak Test?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/17/top-owens/): A man with shoe fetish when there is a multitude of styles, all good footwear fashions become your best friend. Diversity in style is shoe freaks dream what I look for when we attach our name to a brand and Top Owen passed our test. - [Why the songtress Lachi Has OVAH! under her musical spell](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/13/lachi/): Pop singer Lachi and emerging Danish EDM producer Julian Javan unite again on “What I Want (Dat Body),” their sexy new club track inspired by the wave of fierce women representatives redefining today’s political scene. - [The Life Of A DJ: DJ Alex Brasil](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/11/the-life-of-a-dj-dj-alex-brasil/): I'm ecstatic that DJ Alex Brasil was able to share some of his goals dreams and aspirations as a DJ. And if you thought language might be a barrier since he speaks Portuguese and I speak English, think again, barriers are an illusion; Google Translate is a wonder. - [The Fastest App to Use for Getting Around NYC](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/10/transit-app-nyc/): New York City's subway is the city’s lifeline; the heart of the city. But the commuting from place to place can take a toll on you. - [Are You Bad in Bed?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/10/are-you-bad-in-bed/): How do you know when you suck in the bedroom when no-one ever tells you? Grievously, each one of the men I've been with lately needs a refresher course in sex or sign-up for Kinkster's "Power Bottom Bootcamp!" - [DJ PICKS: This Is What Professionals Sound Like](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/09/dj-picks/): Fashion Week is one of the best times of the year in NYC. - [Never Changing PORN Will Eventually Destroy You](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/08/porn-2/): Some of the story lines in porn make hooking up seem so glamorous but hooking-up can oftentimes turn out to be a nightmare. - [Top, Bottom, or Versatile - He Is Who He Is](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/07/top-bottom-or-versatile-he-is-who-he-is/): Males who have gay sex as a whole have been bombarded by what has come to be known as "toxic masculinity." - [Iceberg Water, Used in Luxury Vodka Every Man Needs to Try](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/07/iceberg-water-vodka/): Stop what you're doing, I have something to tell you? - [The ART of the DJ: Guy DeGiacinto](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/07/dj-guy-degiacinto/): Music is my second love because it can't replace my first, sex! Plus, having sex with a man with enough testosterone to shake and bake is hard to beat. - [Whiskey: The Gold Bar Rush of 2020 is Coming](https://ovahmag.com/2019/02/06/whiskey-gold-bar/): Do you have the stock market blues? Yes, the DOW might drop periodically, but there is nothing you can do about it. - [Little Known Ways To Rid Yourself Of FAD DIETS](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/31/fad-diets/): As we are now settled into the new year, the resolutions that were made now seem to fall by the wayside. - [Why My BEDROOM TALK Is Better Than Yours](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/29/bedroom-talk/): The fear of talking dirty in the bedroom is not uncommon. - [Jack Tracy Talks 'History' and Love](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/27/jack-tracy-talks-history-and-love/): The last web-serious I watched in its entirety is now an HBO hit show called Insecure. If I'm not mistaken Insecure is headed into its fourth season. - [Understanding Writer's Block Is A Process!](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/25/understanding-writers-block-is-a-process/): I never imagined posting about writer's block and my experience over the last five months has created interest and such a buzz. - [Why Fake Friendships Are Ruining You](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/22/why-fake-friendships-are-ruining-you/): Wow, someone has been reading my mind. Last year, I used to hang out with a lot of people but slowly started to distance myself from a lot of them. - [Shhhh... Listen! Do You Hear the Sound Of Our 5 Top DJ Picks?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/20/shhhh-listen-do-you-hear-the-sound-of-our-5-top-dj-picks/): Since launching DJ On The Rise, I've been introduced to a plethora of DJ's that I have come to love and listen to on a regular basis. - [Want More Out Of Your Life? Practice Safe Sex](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/19/want-more-out-of-your-life-practice-safe-sex/): When it comes to sex many of us understand and practice safe sex, however, our younger generation is experimenting more and more with sex, but due to the lack of sexual education, may be jeopardizing their health. - [Who Else Wants New Music from Ariana Grande, Watch Now?!](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/18/who-else-wants-new-music-from-ariana-grande-watch-now/): Among my friends, it's probably no secret that I have not been a fan of Ariana Grande. - [How Do You Define GHOSTING 2.0?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/17/how-do-you-define-ghosting-2-0/): On Instagram today, I came across a statement posted by @theproblemgays that I agree with entirely. He writes, "Guys aren't bad at texting. - [Exclusive: Adam Joseph Releases Hot New Video of 'Bye Felicia'](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/15/exclusive-adam-joseph-releases-hot-new-video-of-bye-felicia/): Adam Joseph's hot new single "BYE FELICIA on iTunes" is the ultimate breakup slow jam with sultry vocals and old school R&B vibes. - [What Everyone Must Know About BRETT OOSTERHAUS](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/13/dj-brett-oosterhaus/): A hot new remix of Brandy and Monica’s “The Boy is Mine” prompted OVAH MAG to reach out and meet Brett Oosterhaus, DJ and Producer at Oosterhaus Music. - [The LIP BALMS That Wins Customers](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/12/lip-balms/): We agree with the largest drug retailing chain in the US, Walgreens, who says, "Your lips are one of the focal points of your face. - [Kayne West Uses Junior Vasquez 1989 “Work This Pussy” Without Permission](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/02/kayne-west-uses-junior-vasquez-1989-work-this-pussy-without-permission/): Kayne West pulled beats from Junior’s 1989 underground hit “Work This Pussy” without his permission and released it on Teyana Taylor’s K.T.S.E. release. - [Want To Step Up Your Sex Life? You Need To Read This First](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/01/want-to-step-up-your-sex-life-you-need-to-read-this-first/): Everyone thinks they're good in bed. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but a handful of you reading this are awful. - [Revolutionize the New Year with NILL ROGGER](https://ovahmag.com/2019/01/01/nill-rogger/): The countdown has begun. - [How Gay Is Too Gay For Mainstream Pop](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/21/gay-mainstream/): Over the years we have seen a lot of LGBT performers achieve the commercial success that some of us, myself included, never thought would be possible. - [Cloud No. 9, A Heavenly Wine You Can't Resist](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/21/cloud-no-9/): Finding the right bottle of wine can be tricky and downright frustrating. - [Ron Amato: Gay In Trumpland - Gay Oppression Under Trump](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/04/ron-amato/): As we approach the mid-term elections, I am fearful. - [The Ugly Truth About PERFECTION AND LOVE](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/04/perfection-and-love/): Sorry to break it to you, there is no such thing as finding the perfect man. - [Drama Queenz, The First Gay Black Web Series Celebrates Ten Years](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/02/drama-queenz-the-first-gay-black-web-series-celebrates-ten-years/): The pioneering hit comedy web series Drama Queenz turns 10 years old this month. - [Is It Time To Talk More About COCKSPUR RUM](https://ovahmag.com/2018/11/01/cockspur-rum/): The golden rule when attending a party or a social event at someone’s home is to bring something with you. - [Don't Be Fooled By Race Play](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/27/dont-be-fooled-by-race-play/): I can remember that night like it was yesterday. The guy was hot, a fantasy come true. - [Emrhys Cooper: The Real Story of a 'Trophy Boy'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/27/emrhys-cooper/): OVAH MAG staff recently attended a premiere screening of critically acclaimed Trophy Boy at Soho House. - [Lauren Foster: Be Beautiful, Be Bold, Be You](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/26/up-close-with-lauren-foster-be-beautiful-be-bold-be-you/): Lover of life Lauren Foster turns 60 this year and reaches yet another milestone. - [The Art of Fashion and Vogue Dancing](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/24/the-art-of-fashion-and-vogue-dancing/): I have been a fan of the art of fashion since I was a little girl. I have always loved colors, textures, styles and brands. - [High Blood Pressure (Hypertension) The Silent Killer](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/23/high-blood-pressure-hypertension-the-silent-killer/): High blood pressure also called hypertension, is a serious and dangerous illness that is also called a "silent killer." - [Meet the Artist Drub](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/20/meet-the-artist-drub/): Almost two decades ago Corey Wesley was in a popular New York City store that sold gay-themed merchandise, Rainbows and Triangles. - [2K19 DJ on the Rise - NiLL RoGGeR](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/17/2019-dj-on-the-rise-nill-rogger/): Back in the day, I used to love going to Roxy, Twilo, and the Palladium. I would even travel around the world to attend circuit parties. - [Amy Turner: An Artist You Should Know](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/16/amy-turner-studio/): This year I attended RuPaul's DragCon NYC for the first time, and it was an experience, one I will remember. - [At Last, The Secret To Scoring a Date After a HOOK-UP](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/15/date-hook-up/): Meeting online via a hook-up app has become extremely commonplace, but many of us still get confused when we meet someone online who we end up liking. - [David Hernandez is King with New Album, 'Kingdom: the Mixtape'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/06/david-hernandez-is-king-with-new-album-kingdom-the-mixtape/): Seven years after the release of his coming out album, I Am Who I Am, American Idol’s David Hernandez is back with Kingdom: the Mixtape. - [The Origin of OVAH DJ on the Rise](https://ovahmag.com/2018/10/01/ovah-dj/): When I launched OVAH Mag, my mission was to create a platform where I could celebrate parts of the community that are often overshadowed by those who are deemed popular by the larger gay media publications and regularly featured and/or given an unlimited amount of press. - [What Everyone Ought To Know About MANUKA HONEY](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/30/manuka-honey/): What is Manuka honey you might be asking? Well, manuka honey has become very popular because it is considered a superfood. - [The Ultimate Guide To LUBRICANTS](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/27/lubricants/): What constitutes good sex from bad sex? The classification of good or bad sex is based on an individual and whether his needs are met at the point of climax. - [Glennis Grace, Not AGT's Winner but is an International Star](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/23/glennis-grace-not-agts-winner-but-is-an-international-star/): Over the weekend, I decided it was time to binge watch America's Got Talent. - [F*ck In 21 Minutes With DJ Ted Bishop](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/23/dj-ted-bishop-1/): What's in a word? F*ck has a very flexible role in English grammar. "F*ck this," "f*ck that," "you fucker," "f*ck you," the word is so common. - [Tips for Transitioning Your Summer Fling Into The Real Thing](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/19/summer-fling/): As the summer winds down, you may be wondering what is going to happen with your summer fling (flings, if you’re nasty). - [Why CRAPPY HOOK-UPS Is No Friend Of Mine](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/17/why-crappy-hook-ups-is-no-friend-of-mine/): "If you're always ready, you don't have to get ready" is a quote I wish someone would have shared with the last four guys that I've hooked up with who were all total bottoms over 40. - [What's Old Is New, DJ Relentless Serves Up September's Mix](https://ovahmag.com/2018/09/01/whats-old-is-new-dj-relentless-serves-up-septembers-mix/): It's September and there's a strange vibe in the air. The season is about to change…not only weather wise but also politically. - [Grindr is Going Public](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/31/grindr-is-going-public/): Grindr, billed as the world's largest social networking app for gay, bi, trans, and queer people, is going public. - [Is It Time To Talk More About STD'S?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/30/is-it-time-to-talk-more-about-stds/): This week the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) released preliminary data at the National STD Conference in Washington, DC. - [TrustBag vs. Flak Sack, Battle for the Worry Free Drawstring Backpack](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/29/trustbag/): By now you’ve likely seen the videos for the “bulletproof” TrustBag developed by a German “startup.” Advertised as the perfect mix of premium material, technology, functionality, and design representing an eco-friendly and sustainable product. - [PORN AND INTIMACY Is Bound To Make An Impact In Your Life](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/19/porn-and-intimacy/): Compartmentalizing the physical act of sex from the emotional side of sex is nothing new among gay men but when the physical and the emotional combine, the fireworks fly and you have the best sex ever. - [Erotic Thriller Questions Race and Fetishes](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/16/erotic-thriller-questions-race-and-fetishes/): Named “Best Feature” at The 2018 Harlem International Film Festival, The Breeding is an erotic thriller about a young artist whose obsession with a taboo fetish leads to life-altering consequences. - [Old School DATE IDEAS](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/11/date-ideas/): To celebrate one of my birthdays several years ago, my ex and bestie took me on a scavenger hunt / Amazing Race style run around New York City. - [The Grid: Lessons from the Men of Grindr](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/10/the-grid-lessons-from-the-men-of-grindr/): If you have ever dated, doing the online thing or not, you will be able to relate to the stories of Lex, Esq. - [Summer Heat Explodes in this Month's Mix by DJ Relentless](https://ovahmag.com/2018/08/09/summer-heat-explodes-in-this-months-mix-by-dj-relentless/): It's August and the summer heat makes me recall an album title by Stevie Wonder…"Hotter Than July." It's really a hot one out there. - [Buck Angel: Buck Shot Energy Drink Works Like a Charm](https://ovahmag.com/2018/07/31/buck-angel/): It's not typical for me to endorse an enhancement drink but this one in particular works and exceeded my expectations. - [Everything You Need to Know about Artist Adam Joseph](https://ovahmag.com/2018/07/29/everything-you-need-to-know-about-artist-adam-joseph/): You may know him from his popular mix of Representative Maxine Water’s now iconic statement “Reclaiming my time,” from “Cookies ft. - [5 New Songs to Bring on Vacation](https://ovahmag.com/2018/07/17/5-new-songs-to-bring-on-vacation/): Having been on vacation for weeks has left me plenty of time to listen to music. This summer (thus far) has been excellent regarding music. - [DJ Relentless: Pursuing Diversity - New Voices, New Faces, New Sounds](https://ovahmag.com/2018/07/03/dj-relentless-pursuing-diversity-new-voices-new-faces-new-sounds/): Well, well, well…I can remember everyone complaining about the cold. Then spring seemed like it was never gonna get here. - [Closeout this PRIDE Season 2K18 BANGING THE DRUMZ with Bio Zounds](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/30/closeout-this-pride-season-2k18-banging-the-drumz-with-bio-zounds/): It seemed like yesterday when we named DJ Bio Zounds Kinkster MAG's 2018 DJ on the Rise, and since then he has been on the go making money moves, collaborating with top-notch talent around the world, and of course continuing to burn up the dance floor from Puerto Rico to New York. - [How Are Gay & BiSexual Men Affected by Prostate Cancer?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/29/how-are-gay-bisexual-men-affected-by-prostate-cancer/): Healthy living is a term used frequently, but what does that honestly mean? Ask a trainer, and they would say you need to exercise. - [Yaysh Releases Hip Hop's Summer Gay Anthem](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/15/yaysh-releases-hip-hops-summer-gay-anthem/): It's Pride season baby, let's muthafuckin party like it's 1999! Honestly, that's how I feel when June rolls around. - [DJ Relentless' Exclusive Pride Mix, Gay Icons (Divas)](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/13/dj-relentless-exclusive-pride-mix-gay-icons-divas/): I was recently speaking to a 20 something year old about music and Gay Culture. I was mortified when he said "Uh…who is Donna Summer?" - [Cannabis and LGBTQ Activist Buck Angel: Let's Talk Cannabis](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/12/cannabis-and-lgbtq-activist-buck-angel-lets-talk-cannabis/): Corey Wesley, Kinkster MAG founder, came across an intriguing live stream by Buck Angel. In it Angel was discussing cannabis. - [From DJs Tracks to New Remixes, DJ Relentless Serves up a Musical Snapshot](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/12/from-djs-tracks-to-new-remixes-dj-relentless-serves-up-a-musical-snapshot/): The year is flying by. Can't believe it's already June. - [Nightlife Has Changed, But Our DJ's Haven't](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/05/nightlife-djs/): DJing in New York City in the last few decades has not been easy. - [“Gravity” by Zach Adam and Adam Joseph Is Positively Magic](https://ovahmag.com/2018/06/02/gravity-by-zach-adam-and-adam-joseph-is-positively-magic/): After reading the press release about two of the leading forces in the queer underground music scene joining forces to release the first single from Zach Adam’s new LGBTQ music label, “Magic Town Media," I was interested to learn more about these two. - [Tony Moran and Jason Walker Are Together Again in “I’m in Love With You”](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/31/tony-moran-and-jason-walker-are-together-again-in-im-in-love-with-you/): When I heard that Tony Moran and Jason Walker were releasing new music, I was thrilled. Since their hit songs, "So Happy" and "Say Yes," I've become a fan! - [Drag Queen Adore Delano Graces Cover of Alternative Press Magazine’s First-Ever Pride Issue](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/22/drag-queen-adore-delano-graces-cover-of-alternative-press-magazines-first-ever-pride-issue/): Adore Delano, the feisty drag queen rocker, graces the cover of the first-ever Pride issue of the Rock And Roll Hall Of Fame-celebrated publication Alternative Press Magazine, Adore’s first international cover. - [ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION Tip: Shake It Up](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/15/erectile-dysfunction-tip-shake-it-up/): As I was riding the subway one day, I noticed an ad "Roman," get roman.com/nyc. The ad was about erectile dysfunction meds. - [Billy Winn Returns To Dance Music With “Seal It with a Kiss”](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/10/billy-winn-returns-to-dance-music-with-seal-it-with-a-kiss/): Out artist Billy Winn makes a triumphant return to dance music with a song that will get listeners grooving. - [I Could Look and Listen to James Maslow All Day](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/09/i-could-look-and-listen-to-james-maslow-all-day-2/): James Maslow was the last man standing as a finalist on Season 18 of ABC's Dancing With The Stars, and my first introduction to this heartthrob who rose to international fame was on Nickelodeon's Big Time Rush. - [I Could Look and Listen to James Maslow All Day](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/09/i-could-look-and-listen-to-james-maslow-all-day/): James Maslow was the last man standing as a finalist on Season 18 of ABC's Dancing With The Stars, and my first introduction to this heartthrob who rose to international fame was on Nickelodeon's Big Time Rush. - [The DATING EXPERT Is Your Worst Enemy](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/08/dating-expert/): Is anyone ever an expert at dating? It is always strange when I hear someone say, "I'm a dating expert." - [Russian Artist Alexander Abromov Transforms from Twink to Muscle Daddy](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/08/russian-artist-alexander-abromov-transforms-from-twink-to-muscle-daddy/): Russian artist and producer Alexander Abromov (better known as Abromov Lex) bares all in “Uncovered,” a coming of age story about a man who isn’t afraid to speak his truth, follow through with his vision and be exposed, body and soul. - [Healthy Eating with Jade Elektra](https://ovahmag.com/2018/05/03/healthy-eating-jade-elektra/): Dear Jade, I just turned 40 last month and my doctor told me that I need to change my eating habits. I'm from the south…Georgia to be exact. - [DJ Relentless: Consequence of Life & Sound Music Review](https://ovahmag.com/2018/04/27/dj-relentless-consequence-of-life-sound-music-review/): Finally hitting some warmer weather and I'm getting excited about what is ahead musically. I've got a feeling that this is going to be a good summer. Why? - [DOSHA - Are You Prepared For A Good Thing?](https://ovahmag.com/2018/04/15/dosha-yoga/): Do you ever wonder what makes people different from one another? - [DJ Relentless' Rites of Spring Mix](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/30/dj-relentless-rites-of-spring-mix/): So, April is here. Some places are beginning to look and feel like spring. While others are still lingering with winter overtones. - [Jordan Davis Captivates Country Lovers with Debut Album 'Home State'](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/28/jordan-davis-captivates-country-lovers-with-debut-album-home-state/): Before I start discussing the singer who has me under his country spell, I must say this first, I’ve always had an appreciation for country music, but I was never a country music lover nor could I bear listening to an entire country CD, but that’s changed. - [LONG-LASTING LOVE Explained](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/27/long-lasting-love/): Why is love so complicated? - [Autobiographical Dance Film By Daniel Robinson](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/27/autobiographical-dance-film-by-daniel-robinson/): The artistic and creative beauty you can find on the internet can be breathtaking and metastasizing. - [The Saint At Large® Announces DJ Line-Up for Rites XXXIX: The Black Party®](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/21/the-saint-at-large-announces-dj-line-up-for-rites-xxxix-the-black-party/): Calling all Pigs, Leathermen, Kinksters, and anyone else in between to the dance floor! - [DJ Pierre - Meet Hate with Love!](https://ovahmag.com/2018/03/14/dj-pierre-meet-hate-with-love/): On July 12, 1965, Nathaniel Pierre Jones was born in Chicago, Illinois and who knew he would destined for becoming an electronic music legend under his DJ name “DJ Pierre.” DJ Pierre released his first Acid House track called “In Your Mind” with Spanky in 1986. - [My Return to New York Fashion Week: BiCoastal](https://ovahmag.com/2026/10/15/my-return-to-new-york-fashion-week-bicoastal/): Corey Wesley's front-row review of BiCoastal Collection at New York Fashion Week: urban chic looks, a white lace gown and one jacket he'd wear. - [Chemistry or a Credit Score?](https://ovahmag.com/2026/10/15/chemistry-or-a-credit-score/): I did a podcast recently and I've still been thinking about this. Do you date someone who's broke? - [AI Helped Me Lose Weight](https://ovahmag.com/2026/10/15/ai-helped-me-lose-weight/): I know many of you don't wanna hear this, but AI can help you lose weight. Yes, I said it. I'm living proof. - [I Grew Up in New York and Never Went to Lincoln Center. Until Now.](https://ovahmag.com/2026/10/14/i-grew-up-in-new-york-and-never-went-to-lincoln-center-until-now/): I grew up in New York and never went to Lincoln Center. The Opera for All lottery got me there, and dinner at The Grand Tier came with it. - [Sy'rai's "Mind Ya Business" Woke Me Up in the Middle of the Night](https://ovahmag.com/2026/10/14/syrai-mind-ya-business/): Sy’rai’s “Mind Ya Business,” the opening track on her debut EP Cold War, woke me up in the middle of the night. Here’s why you should download it. - [Book Review: "Unmasking Desires: Navigating Race, Sexuality, and Trauma in the Gay Community" by Corey](https://ovahmag.com/2024/08/08/book-review-unmasking-desires-navigating-race-sexuality-and-trauma-in-the-gay-community-by-corey/): "Unmasking Desires: Navigating Race, Sexuality, and Trauma in the Gay Community" by Corey is an introspective and revealing exploration of the complex interplay between race, sexuality, and trauma within the LGBTQ+ community. - [Michaela Jaé: Inspiring Transgender Artist Shines with 'Greenlight'](https://ovahmag.com/2024/07/19/michaela-jae-inspiring-transgender-artist-shines-with-greenlight/): Michaela Jaé, known for her breakout role as Blanca Evangelista on the critically acclaimed TV series "Pose," continues to make waves with her latest single, "Greenlight." - [TITUSS BURGESS RELEASES FUTURE DANCE ANTHEM “DANCE M.F.”](https://ovahmag.com/2020/05/22/titus-burgess/): Don't sleep on Emmy and SAG-nominated actor, musician and writer, and star of "The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt" Tituss Burgess, a triple-threat entertainer recently released his first official dance track "DANCE M.F." - [Jay MaQ Strikes Out On His Own in New Video, "No Love"](https://ovahmag.com/2020/04/26/jay-maq/): Who is Jay MaQ? - [New Music: ‎Andre Xcellence! Wu Flu Pandemic!](https://ovahmag.com/2020/04/23/andre-xcellence/): It's been years since I've chatted with rapper Andre Xcellence. - [Rapid-Fire Questions With 80’s Pop Queen Jade Starling](https://ovahmag.com/2020/02/15/jade-starling/): "Catch Me I'm Falling" is one of those songs, no matter where you are when the song comes on everyone in the room is dancing, singing, or lip-syncing the words. - [Watch Out for Red Flags When Falling For Someone Via the Internet](https://ovahmag.com/2020/02/15/internet-safety-tips/): "You've Got Mail"! A very popular phrase used in a Tom Hanks' film a few years ago. - [Zeta Jones: How This NYC Drag Queen Is Taking The World By Storm](https://ovahmag.com/2020/02/10/zeta-jones/): We've all heard the phrase "if you make it in NYC, you can make it anywhere," and it's true. - [Hysterically Funny Staff Pick! Musical Web Series, MERCE](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/23/merce/): "Life Is Just A Bowl Of Cherries," but that's not always the case, but according to the life of Merce, it's a happy place, until life throws you a few curveballs, but all you have to do to make it all better is break out into song and dance to live happily ever after. - [BOOTY CALL - Not For Everyone](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/23/booty-call/): Interestingly enough, I recently had mixed opinions after posing the question, "Can one have a booty call without an emotional attachment?" - [The Secret of Successful 2020](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/20/new-beginnings-2020/): Happy New Year, Happy New You. As we embark on this new year filled with hopes and desires for the year, we set intentions to make changes in our lives. - [Don't Just Sit There! Start Drinking GREEN SMOOTHIES](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/16/green-smoothie/): Having a Green Smoothies is how I begin my morning and start my new day. I do yoga and meditation to give thanks to the Universe and Blessings to start my day. - [Why Happiness is a State of Mind](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/15/happiness/): We live in times where we constantly endure negatives. There are tornadoes, earthquakes, and other natural disasters. - [Excessive Drinking Is Affecting Your Health](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/13/excessive-drinking/): Do you enjoy an occasional glass of wine with your dinner? - [Meatless Monday Has Gone International](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/13/meatless-monday/): How many Americans eat meat on a daily basis? On average, Americans consume 8 oz of meat per day, 45% more than the USDA recommend. - [Answered: Your Most Burning Questions About Spices](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/12/spices/): Spices have been known all over India and Asia to bring added benefit to ones health. - [How Meditation Changed My Life](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/12/meditation/): Recently I experienced a very influential ‘ah-ha’ moment in my life. - [Infinity Float: The Coolest Spa Treatment](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/12/infinity-float/): Have you heard about floating? - [KRISTINE W UNLEASHES HER “ISSUES”
](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/10/kristine-w/): The first time I met Kristine W, I could not believe I was in the presence of a musical club icon. She was the kindest and sweetest person. - [Alternative Ways to Combat Depression](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/08/combating-depression/): Do you wake up every day feeling happy with a smile on your face? I think we all would love to be that person. - [The Benefits of Oil Pulling](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/08/oil-pulling/): In the early 1990s in Bangalore, South India, an ancient Ayurvedic practice as popularized and adopted by Tummala Kotes Wara Rao. - [A Guide To DRESSING SOPHISTICATED At Any Age](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/06/dressing-sophisticated/): What does it mean when someone's way of dressing is described as sophisticated? What makes a man sophisticated? - [Stop Comparing Yourself To Others On Social Media](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/04/social-media/): Don't be fooled by all the happy posts you see on social media and definitely don’t start comparing yourself or your life to someone else's. - [Anusara Yoga for Beginners](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/03/anusara-yoga/): We have so many forms of yoga, but the one I practice is Anusara Yoga. - [Treating a Cold and Flu the Holistic Way](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/03/cold-flu/): It's winter and the start of the cold and flu season. Most people before the winter is over, will get the flu. - [Who Else Wants To Enjoy DATING OVER 40](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/02/dating-over-40/): Finding love in your 40s presents unique challenges—something I'd heard countless times but never truly understood until I began contemplating opening my heart again. - [When Dating Goes from Sweet to Scary](https://ovahmag.com/2020/01/02/dating/): I can’t help but think of those relationships that seem to be straight out of a bad horror movie. - [Intentions To Set For Your Most Authentic Life](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/26/intentions/): Proclaiming a daily intention is a relatively new practice for me. I started to repeat the question, "what is your intention?" - [At Last, The Secret To HEALING FOOD FOR THE HOLIDAYS Is Revealed](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/24/holiday-foods/): In a couple of weeks, it will be the start of the holiday season, and as we sit down with family and friends to give thanks and share the season together, let's remember to eat wisely and healthy. - [How to Make a Good Impression Meeting His Parents](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/23/meeting-parents/): Is your family going to like me. - [Ridiculously Simple Ways To Improve Your HOLIDAY BLUES](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/20/holiday-blues/): Here it comes, days are shorter, nights are longer, in most places, the cold weather is creeping in, and many of us want to curl up in a ball on our couch by 6 p.m! - [The Healing Powers of Aloe Vera](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/20/aloe-vera/): Growing up, my family always had an aloe vera plant in our home. This plant has medicinal properties to heal wounds and burns. - [Self-Love Is The Key To Finding True Love](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/11/self-love/): How often do you hear the words, "I Love You"? - [Laughter is the Best Medicine & Good For Your Health](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/11/laugther/): "We need to Laugh more and seek stress reducing humor in our everyday lives. Laughter is a human gift for coping and survival. - [The Power Of Affirmation](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/07/power-affirmation/): Buddha says, "You Become What You Believe." Affirmations are specific positive statements that help you to overcome self-sabotaging negative thoughts. - [Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/04/sexual-violence/): "No Means No" is not just a slogan but a statement that should be taken seriously. - [Is the World More or Less Spiritual?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/03/spirtiual/): There is an emergence of spiritual, life and philosophical gurus today. We have tons of people offering advice, encouragement, and wisdom for the masses. - [Tis The Season Of Joy And Happiness](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/01/tis-the-season-joy/): As we get ready for the full swing of the holiday season, what is the full meaning to being joyful and happy? - [Healthy Eating during the Holidays](https://ovahmag.com/2019/12/01/holidays-healthy-eating/): During the holidays from Thanksgiving to Christmas and New Year, most people tend to over indulge with food and alcohol in celebration for this festive holiday season. - [Negativity is Contagious, Don’t Get Sucked In](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/30/negativity/): Renowned author and personal-development legend Jim Rohn famously said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. - [Practicing Gratitude For A Healthy You](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/27/practicing-gratitude/): "Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously. - [Fall Is Pumpkin Season](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/25/pumpkin-season/): Fall is one of my favorite times of the year. - [The DISrespect of "BBC"](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/19/bbc/): The porn industry and its supporters are quick to make the claim that “porn is not sex ed” to exonerate themselves of their responsibility in terminologies and actions contributing to our sexual behavior regardless of our sexual orientation. - [Here Is A Quick Cure For CLEARING THE CLUTTER](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/09/clearing-the-clutter/): Have you ever walked into a guy's apartment and become speechless by all the clutter? This has happened to me more than I would like to admit. - [The Dangers of Vaping on Your Health](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/02/vaping/): E-cigarettes became popular in 2007. - [Interesting Facts I Bet You Never Knew About ESSENTIAL OILS](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/01/essential-oils/): Whether it’s a single, potent oil that elevates your spirit, a blended formula that promotes mental clarity, or massage oil that restores harmonic balance. - [The Quickest & Easiest Way To Pick the Right TUXEDO](https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/01/tuxedo/): As far back as the early 19th century, men’s tuxedos have afforded the male consumer distinguished tailored suiting for formal events. - [CHOOSING COLOGNE FOR HIM: The Easy Way](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/31/cologne/): "Perfumes are foods that reawaken the spirit.” - Prophet Mohammed Scent is one of the most powerful senses. - [The Ultimate Guide To CHAMPAGNE](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/30/champagne/): Sparkling wines and Champagnes are typically enjoyed throughout the year so we decided to do an informal investigation into what’s popular in the world of sparkling wines and Champagnes. - [JoGlo FACIALS: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/30/joglo-facials/): Corey Wesley sat down with Josie Bisetti, a licensed esthetician and the founder of Harlem, NYC’s JoGlo Spa to learn more about skin care, facials, the techniques and services she offers. - [How to Take Care of Your Clothes like a Pro](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/29/clothes/): Whether you purchase high-end or bargain-basement clothing, it's important to know how to take proper care of your clothes. - [A Beautifully Refreshing Perspective On CRYSTAL METH](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/29/addiction-crystal-meth/): Addiction is a complex topic, especially when you fight the craving every day. Addiction is a bitch, and it's nothing to take lightly. - [The Quickest & Easiest Way To BUY SHOES ONLINE](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/29/buy-shoe-online/): People often say the eyes are the window into the soul, but a man's shoes are the window into his character. - [Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/26/relationship-mistakes/): New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. - [Some People Excel At I LOVE YOU And Some Don't - Which One Are You?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/25/i-love-you/): "Love" (the "L" word) by definition states, " a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that range from interpersonal affection to pleasure. - [PSO-RITE: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/24/pso-rite/): Todrick Hall almost killed me last night! - [Proof That bioBidet Is Exactly What You Are Looking For](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/20/biobidet/): It's not unusual to have strange conversations with friends, especially while you're drinking. - [How To Get EVERYONE To Come To Your Party, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE!](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/12/19-crimes-wine/): We attend a lot more house parties during the fall/winter months, and I love it. - [How to Treat Seasonal Affective Disorder](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/11/seasonal-affective-disorder/): Getting blue as the days grow shorter? Sleeping a lot during winter but feeling even more tired? Turning to bread and pasta for comfort during cold weather? - [Breast Cancer in Men: Breast Cancer Awareness](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/10/breast-cancer-awareness/): October is breast cancer awareness month and it is celebrated by women who have been cancer-free and for those who have lost the battle, we hold them in our memories. - [5 Incredibly APPLE DRINKS: Read Or Miss Out](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/03/apple-drinks/): One of the highlights during this time of year for me has always been the ability to enjoy fantastic fresh fruits that have ripened, in particular apples, which interestingly are the second most valuable fruit grown in the USA after oranges. - [Short Story: The Truth About The PATHOLOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS AND BREAKUPS](https://ovahmag.com/2019/10/02/relationships-and-breakups/): Relationships end. It's a simple truth that feels anything but simple when you're living through it. - [Believe In Your SMILE But Never Stop Improving It](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/28/smile/): A smile is worth a thousand words. The ways to improve your look are often associated with fashion or style. - [Why We all Deserve a HOT GIRL/BOY SUMMER](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/28/hot-girl-boy-summer/): Summer love sounds like a magical experience, but it's honestly the worst time to meet someone new. - [The Power Of A Plant Based Diet For 2019](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/23/plant-based-diet/): Let me preface by saying, a plant-based diet is the most nutritious food you will ever eat in your life. There's no denying it. - [Have You Heard? FINGER LAKES Is Your Best Bet To Experience Wine and Waterfalls](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/21/finger-lakes/): It's not too late to escape the concrete jungle before the end of the summer. For a quick getaway to the country look no further than upstate New York. - [BEST FRIEND WITH YOUR EX Works Only Under These Conditions](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/18/best-friends-with-ex/): If you had told me 18 years ago that my ex and I would be best friends today, I would not have believed you. - [The Impact Of Gospel Music On My Life](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/17/gospel-music/): Have you ever heard a song that moved you to the point where you wanted to tell all of your friends about it? - [4 Brands With Must-Have Men's Skincare Products](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/12/mens-skincare/): Men's grooming and skincare products are now a multi-billion dollar industry worldwide. - [Justin Utley Releases A Song with deep meaning, "SCARS"](https://ovahmag.com/2019/09/11/justin-utley/): When I heard about Justin Utley and his new song, "Scars," I knew, I wanted to write about it, especially after my neighbor, a 30-years old man committed suicide a week ago. - [Singer Stewart Taylor Gets Messy This Labor Day](https://ovahmag.com/2019/08/29/stewart-taylor/): The summer might be coming to an end, but with the right song, it will be bittersweet. - [How Gay Males' Sexual Journey Are Ending Too Soon](https://ovahmag.com/2019/08/29/sexual/): All of this is the real reason why gay media constantly makes many feel like life is over by age 30. It's partly physical looks by the substance abuse, but it is also a mental and emotional wearing down due to sexual boredom. - [A Good OPEN RELATIONSHIPS Is...](https://ovahmag.com/2019/08/02/open-relationships/): Did you hear the news? Nearly half of gay men have had an open or non-monogamous relationship, and is this really any surprise? - [The Untold Secret To DATING SOBER In Less Than Ten Minutes](https://ovahmag.com/2019/06/04/dating-sober/): If you have done any amount of dating as a gay man recently, you are well aware that drugs are an unavoidable part of our community. - [Can Love Be an Addiction - Blessing Or A Curse](https://ovahmag.com/2019/06/03/love/): Love and Addiction, both powerful feelings. How do you distinguish between the two? Some may be able to know the difference, but others may confuse the "love" feeling with being addicted to someone. - [Clear And Unbiased Facts About HERBAL TEAS](https://ovahmag.com/2019/06/02/herbal-teas/): Drinking a cup of tea daily, enhances the many health benefits, and help with cancer, heart disease, diabetes, weight-loss, lowers cholesterol and mental alertness. - [Pride as a Commodity, Who's Buying, Who's Selling](https://ovahmag.com/2019/06/02/pride/): As we gear up for Pride Season, and since I haven’t spent a lot of time at Pride events over the past couple of years, I wondered, what is going on out there? - [KENDRA ERIKA HEATS UP PRIDE SEASON WITH “A DEEPER LOVE”](https://ovahmag.com/2019/05/21/kendra-erika/): #1 Billboard dance artist Kendra Erika and Grammy Award-winning producer Damon Sharpe unite for a fifth time on “A Deeper Love,” their powerful new song that urges listeners to dig deeper into their acceptance of others and love of self. - [The Hidden Mystery Behind The REFRACTORY PERIOD](https://ovahmag.com/2019/05/21/refractory-period/): Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics men like to talk about freely until they're faced with the real issues or those untold truths. - [Can You Really Find MANLY BANDS on the Web?](https://ovahmag.com/2019/05/16/manly-bands/): Manly Bands is our go-to company when looking for a wide selection of eye-catching bands for men. - [If You Do Not Say I LOVE YOU Now, You Will Hate Yourself Later](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/23/say-i-love-you/): We all dream of hearing those three little words. Countless songs, books, movies and poems have been written about them. - [Cracking The LIFE'S PURPOSE Code](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/22/life-purpose/): Have you been faced with challenges in your life and feel that you are alone in overcoming them? have you cried out to Spirit to heal your wounds? Do you belong to a Spiritual community that you can lean on during the challenging times? - [Navigating Abuse: Stopping an Abusive Relationship](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/17/navigating-abuse-stopping-an-abusive-relationship/): Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that's because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! - [Knappogue: Single Malt Irish Whiskey You Should Explore](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/10/knappogue/): Many of the popular Irish whiskeys consumed in the US are blended ones. However, one style of Irish whiskey is the Single Malt Irish Whisky. - [The Untold Secret To FOOT CARE In Less Than Ten Minutes](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/10/foot-care/): Whether or not you're a pedicure fan (and more and more men are these days--hey, you can't beat that foot massage!), your feet are probably going to be on display sometime soon. - [How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/05/long-distance-relationships/): In the case that you met online and you live in different parts of the country or internationally, you may be able to sustain a long distance relationship longer than two people who have been forced to separate. - [DJ Larry Peace - I'm A Kinkster Too (ft. Corey Wesley)](https://ovahmag.com/2019/04/01/corey-wesley-music/): "I took a risk with combining my love for kink and music, and it paid off with the opportunity to create “I’m A Kinkster Too” with Corey Wesley." - DJ/Producer Larry Peace - [Can you find a love relationship on Facebook](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/31/facebook/): Have you ever known anyone who fell in love and had a successful relationship due to Facebook? I know, "what'? Think about it, is Facebook that much different than sites like, 'Manhunt' and 'Grindr'? - [What Everyone Ought To Know About PARTY PATCH](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/31/party-patch/): The morning after a night of drinking will never be the same with Party Patch! Yes, you read correctly! Say goodbye to those nasty hangovers that leave you sluggish, regretful and asking yourself all day, "Why didn't I stop drinking?" - [What Makes The Avocado a Superfood](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/30/avocado/): Avocado has a high fat content, and therefore can be used in place of meat in your dinner. The fat that the avocado provides, is a healthy fat because, it is monounsaturated fat in the form of oleic acid. - [NATUROPATHIC MEDICINE: An Incredibly Easy Method That Works For All](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/27/naturopathic/): Naturopathic medicine teaches us how to eat, exercise, handle stress and to include spiritual needs to heal our bodies naturally. When we do not include a spiritual practice, we lose touch in healing the whole, body, mind, and soul. - [Rebuild Your Wardrobe, Start with Sneakers](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/23/sneakers/): "Style" is a state of mind and can either empower or destroy us among our peers. Working through all the available options is tough but can be accomplished. - [A BEAUTIFULLY REFRESHING PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE IS A BITCH](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/22/life/): Often when you are feeling like this, you need someone to look you square in the eyes and say, " Life is a Bitch...Snap out of it!" That someone should be 'you.' - [Can a "No-Strings Attached" Relationship Lead to More](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/21/no-strings-attached/): Recently a friend of mine asked me if it’s possible for his 10-year on-and-off sex-only, no-strings-attached partnership to become more than what it is. - [OVAH MAG Interview: Get To Know DJ Larry Peace](https://ovahmag.com/2019/03/18/larry-peace/): I was touched when DJ Larry shared that Kinkster MAG and Kinkster Music had a heavy influence on him while creating this project. 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