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    Interesting Facts I Bet You Never Knew About ESSENTIAL OILS

    From the sweet aroma of lavender to the stimulating fragrance of eucalyptus, essential oils ignite your senses and enliven your body. Packed within these pure, botanical essences, you’ll discover rich therapeutic properties that cannot be found elsewhere. Whether it’s a single, potent oil that elevates your spirit, a blended...
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    Cracking The LIFE’S PURPOSE Code

    Have you been faced with challenges in your life and feel that you are alone in overcoming them? have you cried out to Spirit to heal your wounds?  Do you belong to a Spiritual community that you can lean on during the challenging times?...
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    A BEAUTIFULLY REFRESHING PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE IS A BITCH

    Often when you are feeling like this, you need someone to look you square in the eyes and say, " Life is a Bitch...Snap out of it!" That someone should be 'you.'...
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    “No” Is A Complete Sentence

    The statement "No is a complete sentence" is something I embraced seconds after hearing it from Judith Orloff, a renowned writer on the spiritual awakening of oneself....
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    Why Fake Friendships Are Ruining You

    Wow, someone has been reading my mind. Last year, I used to hang out with a lot of people but slowly started to distance myself from a lot of them. It’s not because they weren’t fun or nice, it’s because they were ambivalent friendships. I found that I was...
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    Tis The Season Of Joy And Happiness

    As we get ready for the full swing of the holiday season, what is the full meaning to being joyful and happy? Are you only full of joy and happiness during Christmas, or are you happy throughout the year each and every day? For me,  I see the dawn...
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    What Are Your Intentions For 2018

    The late Wayne Dyer said, “Our intention creates our reality.” Go create your reality — no resolutions, only intentions. Happy New Year, Happy New You. We flip the calendar to a New Year  2018, and we begin the journey into a year of new beginnings. For some of us, the...
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    Remember & Reflect: My Life in Songs

    A year-end ritual of mine is to listen to my favorite empowering songs. These songs are from the good and bad of my life. Each song has a special meaning in my life. When I listen to them I am reminded of the periods in my life when I...
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    Practicing Gratitude For A Healthy You

    “Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously.  And because all things have contributed to your advancement you should include all things in your gratitude.”  -Ralph Waldo Emerson What is the meaning of gratitude, and how does it...
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    Raw Sexy Spiritual, A Dynamic Duo Telling it Like it Is

    New York City provides ample access for connecting with others. Managing editor, Corey Wesley, and I love living and being a part of this great city and meeting other people on both personal and professional levels. Recently, we were discussing the many people we’ve encountered in our personal and...
  • Gay Men's Spirituality, Mind, Body, Affirmation

    The Power Of Affirmation

    Buddha says, “You Become What You Believe.” Affirmations are specific positive statements that help you to overcome self-sabotaging negative thoughts. The statements can help promote positive change in your life to achieve your goals. They help you visualize, and believe in what you are affirming to yourself.  The words...
  • Spring Fever, Friendships, Breaking Up, Letting Go

    Spring Fever Can Change Your Friendships

    “Spring Fever” is a term frequently used to define a person in a relationship, restless and itching to explore when the weather breaks. It’s a feeling of restlessness and excitement felt at the beginning of spring. However, it’s not just those in intimate relationships that experience spring fever. As...
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    Imbalance in Your Lifestyle Is Affecting Your Sleep

    Deep, nourishing sleep is the natural result of making choices that cultivate physical and emotional balance throughout the day. In our modern society, the most common lifestyle imbalance that leads to sleep issues is the conflict between relaxation and arousal. When the relaxation signals in our brain are blocked...
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    The Power Of Prayer

    What is prayer you might be asking yourself?  If you are someone who believes in a higher consciousness greater than yourself, the power of prayer will heal you. For me, it is spiritual healing.  In the universe we are experiencing despair everywhere.  The political climate in our country right...
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    Intentions To Set For Your Most Authentic Life

    Proclaiming a daily intention is a relatively new practice for me.  I started to repeat the question, “what is your intention?” after watching a brief video clip of Oprah speaking about one’s purpose and the impact it can have on your life. Initially, I felt weird doing it because the...
  • Calm: Meditation to Relax, Focus & Sleep Better

    An App to Help You Stay Calm, Relax, Focus & Sleep Better

    Meditation can be challenging, and often our frustration with the process can cause us to give up too quickly. Meditation is a practice and as we all know “practice makes perfect.” Committing to the meditation process is harder when you’re attempting to do it on your own with no...
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    What Are the Benefits of Having Faith?

    Do you believe in faith? During challenging times in our lives, we rely on faith to see us through. Martin Luther King Jr, one of his famous quotes, “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” How profound is this statement right now?...
  • Spiritual Healing, Forgiveness

    Self Forgiveness Is Essential For Healing

    Forgiveness is how we grow; it’s also how we rid ourselves of unnecessary pain, guilt, and regret. It is always important to forgive yourself. I had to learn the hard way. When I refused to forgive myself and others, the negative energy and thoughts would build up within to...
  • Spiritual Healing, Mind and Body, Men's Health

    How to Find Yourself When Feeling Lost

    “I’ve lost myself” are words we’re all familiar with but when you carefully examine the words, they make no sense. How can a person lose themselves? Physically, it is impossible for a person to lose themselves, but spiritually or mentally a person can lose their way quickly, and especially...
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    How to Practice Mindfulness Meditation

    What is mindfulness meditation you might be asking yourself ? What does it accomplish?  When we hear the word “meditation” we think of an addition to a yoga practice. I practice Anusara yoga, which also includes meditation. The image one gets of a meditation practice is sitting on a...
  • Gay Spirituality

    Exploring Gay Spirituality

    Spirituality within the gay community has been non-exist until recently. Gay men and women who have been rejected by traditional religious beliefs have stayed away from establishments spewing hate against their sexual orientation. Personally speaking, I was one of those individuals until I walked through the doors of Unity...
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    Negativity is Contagious, Don’t Get Sucked In

    Renowned author and personal-development legend Jim Rohn famously said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Celes on her site “Personal Excellence” adds that it’s important you consider yourself in addition to those around you when considering the average. You form...
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    Do You Want to Know Your Purpose in Life

    “Your Purpose In Life is to find your purpose, and then give your whole heart and soul to it.” – Buddha. But before that purpose can be discovered, there must be an answer to the question: ‘Who Am I’ This is perhaps the most difficult question of all. We...
  • Gay Relationships Men, Self-Love,Remove term: Gay Male Spirituality Gay Male Spirituality

    Self-Love Is The Key To Finding True Love

    How often do you hear the words, “I Love You”? Think about it; we hear it from our friends, our family, sometimes our co-workers and most definitely at some point from someone you are consistently dating. Question is, how do you know when it’s real? Love is not tangible...
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