Sue McGaughey

LA Writer: Host at "The Sensitive Nice Guy" radio show. Entertainment management and PR with a background in Psychology and Behavior Management.
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    Watch Out for Red Flags When Falling For Someone Via the Internet

    “You’ve Got Mail”! A very popular phrase used in a Tom Hanks’ film a few years ago. Meg Ryan‘s character was always so excited to see that little phrase on her computer indicating ‘Joe Foxx’ had just sent her another message. The two exchange emails for quite some time,...
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    BOOTY CALL – Not For Everyone

    Interestingly enough, I recently had mixed opinions after posing the question, “Can one have a booty call without an emotional attachment?”  I was surprised the responses were mixed. Some people strongly believe you must have an emotional connection with the person to be able to have sex with them;...
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    Why Happiness is a State of Mind

    We live in times where we constantly endure negatives. There are tornadoes, earthquakes, and other natural disasters. There are hardships, break ups, depression; need I name more? At times it is so easy to slip into the negative realm of life rather than gravitating towards the positive plains. As...
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    Self-Love Is The Key To Finding True Love

    How often do you hear the words, “I Love You”? Think about it; we hear it from our friends, our family, sometimes our co-workers and most definitely at some point from someone you are consistently dating. Question is, how do you know when it’s real? Love is not tangible...
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    Some People Excel At I LOVE YOU And Some Don’t – Which One Are You?

    “Love” (the “L” word) by definition states, ” a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that range from interpersonal affection to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and affection; “the unselfish and benevolent...
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    Can Love Be an Addiction – Blessing Or A Curse

    Love and Addiction, both powerful feelings. How do you distinguish between the two? Some may be able to know the difference, but others may confuse the "love" feeling with being addicted to someone....
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    Navigating Abuse: Stopping an Abusive Relationship

    Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that’s because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! The first and most important thing to know is ‘there is help’ and...
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    How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

    In the case that you met online and you live in different parts of the country or internationally, you may be able to sustain a long distance relationship longer than two people who have been forced to separate....
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    A BEAUTIFULLY REFRESHING PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE IS A BITCH

    Often when you are feeling like this, you need someone to look you square in the eyes and say, " Life is a Bitch...Snap out of it!" That someone should be 'you.'...
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    At Last, The Secret To LOVE Is Revealed

    The newness of love is always exciting. You just can't wait to hear from or see that person. The time in between seems long as you wait in anticipation for the next time you are together. ...
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    Same-Sex Domestic Violence A Silent Epidemic

    Many people end up in abusive relationships only to feel trapped and afraid to get out; generally that’s because the abuser has worn you down, chipped away at your self-esteem and scared you half to death! The first and most important thing to know is ‘there is help’ and...
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    Money Can’t Buy You Love in Relationships

    Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, “what can he buy me” to show they love me? A new car would be nice, those long stem roses and could you make it 3 dozen please? “Are you taking me to Fire Island this week or not?” Why...
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    How to Let Go of a Toxic Relationship

    “Let it go”! How often do we hear that phrase in a lifetime? Whether it’s a disagreement, a job or a relationship, at times in your life you find yourself at a crossroads wondering what step to take next? You may be feeling like whatever situation you are in...
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    The Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship

    We read so many articles and listen to so many shows on “Red Flags of Relationships”, but what do we really know about “Green flags” of relationships? I found myself sitting down to really think about things people have told me pertaining to what makes their relationships work. After...
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    How to Make a Break Up a Positive Experience

    Positive break ups? I’m sure you’re wondering, “how can that be”? Every break up seems like the end of the world. It generally leaves your heart aching, stomach hurting and mind in a whirl. Ask yourself this question, “do I really want to be with someone who doesn’t want...
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    How to Deal with Infidelity in a Relationship

    Have you ever been in a relationship, thought it was fine, only to one day be hit by a bolt of lightening? You discover your partner has been unfaithful to you. Your heart is crushed, your mind is whirling, you can’t eat, can’t sleep and don’t know whether you...
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    Love Comes With Unconditional Boundaries

    We hear the term ‘unconditional love’ quite frequently.  What exactly is it?  When I think of unconditional love I think of my mother or my best-friend.  There is no doubt that I love them unconditionally.  Nothing they could do would make me not love them any more. However, can we...
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    Are You In a Controlling Relationship

    Control can be viewed in many ways. It can carry a positive meaning of self-confidence and organization or it can be viewed as a way to manipulate and satisfy your insecurities. Sometimes in relationships one or the other person may start to feel insecure. They feel like they don’t...
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    How to Get the Thrill Back in a Relationship

    Have you ever been in a relationship and suddenly you feel like ‘the thrill is gone’? Then what? You cheat or your partner cheats, or you shut each other out? Yet, you still find yourself muttering the words, “I love you”.  Dilemma, for sure. Many people who felt intense...
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    Why You Can’t Buy Love

    Often times humans get sucked into the cycle of, “what can he/she buy me” to show they love me? A new car would be nice, those long stem roses and could you make it 3 dozen please? “Are you taking me to the Hamptons this week or not?” Why...
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    Your Cellphone is Ruining Your Dating Life

    Cellphones, everyone has one now a days. The whole world is electronically connected. Social media, work, play it’s all on your cellphone. When is it time to put the phone down? How often have you been on a date only to have your partner pay more attention to the...
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