Corey Wesley

Visionary Leader, Music and Hot Toddy Lover. After 15+ successful years in finance, I ventured out on my own, creating various brands, Flirtatious-T, Urban FLRT, Kinkster NYC, and now Milton Wes and OVAH MAG.
    • Here Is A Quick Cure For CLEARING THE CLUTTER

      Have you ever walked into a guy’s apartment and become speechless by all the clutter? This has happened to me more than I would like to admit. When it has happened, I would always wonder how someone is able to surround themselves in so much chaos? Is it a personality trait...
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      The Quickest & Easiest Way To Pick the Right TUXEDO

      As far back as the early 19th century, men’s tuxedos have afforded the male consumer distinguished tailored suiting for formal events. Historically, the “Black tie” look has signified a distinctive uniform for formal occasions. A tuxedo consists of a formal dinner jacket, trousers, cummerbunds, shirting, pocket squares, and men’s...
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      JoGlo FACIALS: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!

      Corey Wesley sat down with Josie Bisetti, a licensed esthetician and the founder of Harlem, NYC’s JoGlo Spa to learn more about skin care, facials, the techniques and services she offers....
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      How to Take Care of Your Clothes like a Pro

      Whether you purchase high-end or bargain-basement clothing, it’s important to know how to take proper care of your clothes. Taking off your clothes is a practice that is best achieved when you have the proper tools and knowledge to effectively safeguard the life of the garment. Clothes are an...
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      A Beautifully Refreshing Perspective On CRYSTAL METH

      Addiction is a complex topic, especially when you fight the craving every day. Addiction is a bitch, and it’s nothing to take lightly. It wasn’t until someone asked me, “what’s life like after crystal meth,” that I had a panic attack.  The question prompted the panic attack because it...
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      The Quickest & Easiest Way To BUY SHOES ONLINE

      People often say the eyes are the window into the soul, but a man’s shoes are the window into his character. And even my grandmother always told me that before giving a guy my number I should always look at his shoes first. This is part of the reason...
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      Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY

      New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it...
    • A man on the floor giving himself a self-massage using the PSO-RITE

      PSO-RITE: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!

      Todrick Hall almost killed me last night! You heard right, I was twirling around the apartment listening to his hit song, “Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels,” at the point of the song, when he says “drop it for me,” and I tried it, why did I do that? Honestly, a...
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      Proof That bioBidet Is Exactly What You Are Looking For

      It’s not unusual to have strange conversations with friends, especially while you’re drinking. Last week while in Atlanta, my good friend Trina and I were talking about using public restrooms and the extreme measures we take to stay clean. The moment she told me she grabs a handful of...
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      How To Get EVERYONE To Come To Your Party, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE!

      We attend a lot more house parties during the fall/winter months, and I love it. The best house parties are intimate, small, and when everyone is willing to share great conversations can be had. The one part I always dread is thinking of what to bring to someone’s house...
    • A Man Suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Looking Out a Glass Window

      How to Treat Seasonal Affective Disorder

      Getting blue as the days grow shorter? Sleeping a lot during winter but feeling even more tired? Turning to bread and pasta for comfort during cold weather? If these symptoms describe you or someone you know, it may be due to a major depressive disorder with a seasonal pattern,...
    • A man covering his face in sadness after a breakup sitting on a sofa against a wall

      Short Story: The Truth About The PATHOLOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS AND BREAKUPS

      Fuck, why are relationships complicated? And why is it even harder to let go of them when they become toxic or unhealthy? A close friend of mine who is heterosexual and married is struggling with ending her relationship; a relationship, in my opinion, that was over a long time...
    • Beautiful African-American Woman With A Buzz Cut Smiling Against a Yellow Background

      Believe In Your SMILE But Never Stop Improving It

      A smile is worth a thousand words. The ways to improve your look are often associated with fashion or style. But when you consider the true factors of what people associate with good looks, you have to pay closer attention to what matters most and what people see first,...
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      Why We all Deserve a HOT GIRL/BOY SUMMER

      Summer love sounds like a magical experience, but it’s honestly the worst time to meet someone new. It’s the one season when we proudly wear our rose-colored glasses and ignore all the potential warning signs. We get caught up with spring’s breezes shifting into summer’s sweltering heat and all...
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      The Impact Of Gospel Music On My Life

      Have you ever heard a song that moved you to the point where you wanted to tell all of your friends about it? Well, that’s the type of feeling you may experience when listening to gospel music. By its very definition, the term gospel means ‘good news.’ Gospel music...
    • A Handsome African-American in an All White Bathroom Washing His Face with Skincare Products

      4 Brands With Must-Have Men’s Skincare Products

      Men’s grooming and skincare products are now a multi-billion dollar industry worldwide. From facial creams to body washes, to shampoos, and even body wipes, men now have the same options in grooming products that women have had for decades. Personally, that sounds great, and for the most part, it...
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      Justin Utley Releases A Song with deep meaning, “SCARS”

      When I heard about Justin Utley and his new song, “Scars,” I knew, I wanted to write about it, especially after my neighbor, a 30-years old man committed suicide a week ago. Suicide in America is dominated by white men, who account for 70 percent of all cases. Plus,...
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      Singer Stewart Taylor Gets Messy This Labor Day

      The summer might be coming to an end, but with the right song, it will be bittersweet. And if I didn’t know any better, I would think Stewart Taylor was reading my mind! “Mess Your Hair Up,” his new track has an R&B funk song that is reminiscent of...
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      A Good OPEN RELATIONSHIPS Is…

      Did you hear the news? Nearly half of gay men have had an open or non-monogamous relationship, and is this really any surprise? Open relationships within the gay community are more visibly common than ever. Analysts from a survey conducted by FS Magazine produced by The Gay Men’s Health...
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      KENDRA ERIKA HEATS UP PRIDE SEASON WITH “A DEEPER LOVE”

      #1 Billboard dance artist Kendra Erika and Grammy Award-winning producer Damon Sharpe unite for a fifth time on “A Deeper Love,” their powerful new song that urges listeners to dig deeper into their acceptance of others and love of self. ...
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      The Hidden Mystery Behind The REFRACTORY PERIOD

      Sex, erections, and orgasms are topics men like to talk about freely until they’re faced with the real issues or those untold truths. We’ve all been asked, “How soon after an orgasm can you start again?” The answer is usually, “a few minutes,” but unless you’re 18, you’re telling...
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      Can You Really Find MANLY BANDS on the Web?

      Manly Bands is our go-to company when looking for a wide selection of eye-catching bands for men. Their diversity of rings and styles fits any man’s taste, and the main reason I’m adding Manly Bands to our Staff Picks. Manly Bands range in price, but affordable; I found Manly Bands to...
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      If You Do Not Say I LOVE YOU Now, You Will Hate Yourself Later

      We all dream of hearing those three little words. Countless songs, books, movies and poems have been written about them. Heck, we’ve even created a special day of the year dedicated to them – Valentine’s Day. And yet as wonderful as they are to hear, said at the wrong...
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      DJ Larry Peace – I’m A Kinkster Too (ft. Corey Wesley)

      "I took a risk with combining my love for kink and music, and it paid off with the opportunity to create “I’m A Kinkster Too” with Corey Wesley." - DJ/Producer Larry Peace...
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