Corey Wesley

Visionary Leader, Music and Hot Toddy Lover. After 15+ successful years in finance, I ventured out on my own, creating various brands, Flirtatious-T, Urban FLRT, Kinkster NYC, and now Milton Wes and OVAH MAG.
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      Rapid-Fire Questions With 80’s Pop Queen Jade Starling

      “Catch Me I’m Falling” is one of those songs, no matter where you are when the song comes on everyone in the room is dancing, singing, or lip-syncing the words. It’s no wonder why RuPaul featured the song in his Netflix show, AJ and the Queen. In AJ and...
    • NYC Drag Queen Zeta Jones

      Zeta Jones: How This NYC Drag Queen Is Taking The World By Storm

      We’ve all heard the phrase “if you make it in NYC, you can make it anywhere,” and it’s true. It’s why I’m always eager and excited to interview NYC artists making a name for themselves. When I was creating my 2020 interview list, the first person who came to...
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      Hysterically Funny Staff Pick! Musical Web Series, MERCE

      “Life Is Just A Bowl Of Cherries,” but that’s not always the case, but according to the life of Merce, it’s a happy place, until life throws you a few curveballs, but all you have to do to make it all better is break out into song and dance...
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      How Meditation Changed My Life

      Recently I experienced a very influential ‘ah-ha’ moment in my life. I recently completed the Oprah / Deepak’s 21 Day meditation challenge, a challenge that is no longer a challenge but more of an eye opening experience. This experience was like no other because it transformed my life, my...
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      KRISTINE W UNLEASHES HER “ISSUES”


      The first time I met Kristine W, I could not believe I was in the presence of a musical club icon. She was the kindest and sweetest person.  I was not disappointed. Her genuine spirit melted my heart. I will remember that day forever. Her tracks are an imprint...
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      A Guide To DRESSING SOPHISTICATED At Any Age

      What does it mean when someone’s way of dressing is described as sophisticated? What makes a man sophisticated? Is sophistication measured by the cost of a man’s garment or is it based on the quality of the clothes? Sophistication can be based on opinion or an idea. Investigating this...
    • Six white pills with Social Media logos imprinted on each one

      Stop Comparing Yourself To Others On Social Media

      Don’t be fooled by all the happy posts you see on social media and definitely don’t start comparing yourself or your life to someone else’s. We’re human, and we all experience some form of discomfort at some point in our lives. Life is not always candy and roses, and...
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      Who Else Wants To Enjoy DATING OVER 40

      Finding love in your 40’s can be a challenge. It’s something I’ve heard but didn’t believe it until I started to think about the possibility of allowing myself to love again. After many failed relationships, it’s not something I thought I would ever want again. Plus, when you’re Ex...
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      Intentions To Set For Your Most Authentic Life

      Proclaiming a daily intention is a relatively new practice for me.  I started to repeat the question, “what is your intention?” after watching a brief video clip of Oprah speaking about one’s purpose and the impact it can have on your life. Initially, I felt weird doing it because the...
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      Ridiculously Simple Ways To Improve Your HOLIDAY BLUES

      Here it comes, days are shorter, nights are longer, in most places, the cold weather is creeping in, and many of us want to curl up in a ball on our couch by 6 p.m! The holiday season is when the insanity begins! For many, the holiday season is...
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      Sexual Violence: No Means No In The Bedroom

      “No Means No” is not just a slogan but a statement that should be taken seriously.  From personal experience gay men who I have slept with ignored this statement and preferred instead to challenge the fact, I did not want them to play with my rear-end.  I was raped...
    • A young African-American boy laying in the bed writing the Bible

      Is the World More or Less Spiritual?

      There is an emergence of spiritual, life and philosophical gurus today. We have tons of people offering advice, encouragement, and wisdom for the masses. But how deep does the spirituality or wisdom run? There have always been those who have an inspirational message. With Social Media, it seems that...
    • A man in the dusk of night covering his eyes in despair

      Negativity is Contagious, Don’t Get Sucked In

      Renowned author and personal-development legend Jim Rohn famously said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Celes on her site “Personal Excellence” adds that it’s important you consider yourself in addition to those around you when considering the average. You form...
    • Here Is A Quick Cure For CLEARING THE CLUTTER

      Have you ever walked into a guy’s apartment and become speechless by all the clutter? This has happened to me more than I would like to admit. When it has happened, I would always wonder how someone is able to surround themselves in so much chaos? Is it a personality trait...
    • An Asian man in a black tuxedo sits inside a limo

      The Quickest & Easiest Way To Pick the Right TUXEDO

      As far back as the early 19th century, men’s tuxedos have afforded the male consumer distinguished tailored suiting for formal events. Historically, the “Black tie” look has signified a distinctive uniform for formal occasions. A tuxedo consists of a formal dinner jacket, trousers, cummerbunds, shirting, pocket squares, and men’s...
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      JoGlo FACIALS: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!

      Corey Wesley sat down with Josie Bisetti, a licensed esthetician and the founder of Harlem, NYC’s JoGlo Spa to learn more about skin care, facials, the techniques and services she offers....
    • A young African-American man wearing a white t-shirt and jeans Kickin' It at the Da Laundromat sitting in a clothes cart

      How to Take Care of Your Clothes like a Pro

      Whether you purchase high-end or bargain-basement clothing, it’s important to know how to take proper care of your clothes. Taking off your clothes is a practice that is best achieved when you have the proper tools and knowledge to effectively safeguard the life of the garment. Clothes are an...
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      A Beautifully Refreshing Perspective On CRYSTAL METH

      Addiction is a complex topic, especially when you fight the craving every day. Addiction is a bitch, and it’s nothing to take lightly. It wasn’t until someone asked me, “what’s life like after crystal meth,” that I had a panic attack.  The question prompted the panic attack because it...
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      The Quickest & Easiest Way To BUY SHOES ONLINE

      People often say the eyes are the window into the soul, but a man’s shoes are the window into his character. And even my grandmother always told me that before giving a guy my number I should always look at his shoes first. This is part of the reason...
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      Rookie RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES YOU CAN FIX TODAY

      New relationships start off with a lot of open communication and long nights talking or having lots of sex like jack-rabbits. In the beginning, the relationship feels like it will last the test of time. That’s a joke! We never expect a new relationship to end soon after it...
    • A man on the floor giving himself a self-massage using the PSO-RITE

      PSO-RITE: Do You Really Need It? This Will Help You Decide!

      Todrick Hall almost killed me last night! You heard right, I was twirling around the apartment listening to his hit song, “Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels,” at the point of the song, when he says “drop it for me,” and I tried it, why did I do that? Honestly, a...
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      Proof That bioBidet Is Exactly What You Are Looking For

      It’s not unusual to have strange conversations with friends, especially while you’re drinking. Last week while in Atlanta, my good friend Trina and I were talking about using public restrooms and the extreme measures we take to stay clean. The moment she told me she grabs a handful of...
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      How To Get EVERYONE To Come To Your Party, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE, 19 CRIMES WINE!

      We attend a lot more house parties during the fall/winter months, and I love it. The best house parties are intimate, small, and when everyone is willing to share great conversations can be had. The one part I always dread is thinking of what to bring to someone’s house...
    • A Man Suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Looking Out a Glass Window

      How to Treat Seasonal Affective Disorder

      Getting blue as the days grow shorter? Sleeping a lot during winter but feeling even more tired? Turning to bread and pasta for comfort during cold weather? If these symptoms describe you or someone you know, it may be due to a major depressive disorder with a seasonal pattern,...
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